Dougie

After over 12mths of research and filling in forms and spending countless nights on here gathering great info and going through and gaining a positive result from the TRA for my trade and gaining SS, from SA and paying for the Visa application fee its all over now

Mrs Doug dont wanna be Mrs Doug no more !!

She has decided to call an end to our 9Yr relationship is seeking legal advice regarding a Divorce and is moving out a week on friday taking half the contents and the kids with her

I,m absolutly devestated and my head is right up my arse at the minute.

But hey ho shit happens the down under dream is no more just need to concerntrate on the boys and trying to afford to keep this house on

Just like to thank everyone on here for all the help that I have recieved through out the last year you know who you are and keep up the good work folks.

Regards


Dougie

Sally Simpson

Oh gosh Dougie, I am so very sorry.
Life has a habit of throwing the unexpected in our paths.
I hope that you can manage to keep things amicable for your boys & I wish you luck!

Janna and Nick

I'm sorry to hear that Dougie.

Maybe Oz is for you just at a later stage in your life. We wish you all the best for your future

scottishcelts

$hit Dougie, that's awful, I'm shocked.

So sorry for you. Hope everything works out for you. Australia will seem like the last thing on your mind now.

You and your boys - will conquer the world.

Good luck D

Pollyana

Hugs mate, from one who understands.

emelems

All the best for the future Dougie.. sad sad news my friend.. haven't got much advice except take one day at a time and keep putting one foot in front of the other to get through it all...

(((hugs))) keep posting..

Em x

daviec33

No way mate!.

I'm gutted for you!.

You've been a great bloke in our sparkies section!

I hope things work out for you one way or another in the long term!

livinginreality

Truly sorry to hear that news!All the best mate and we're all here for you!xx

iamthecreaturefromuranus

Take a hard hearted approach... sell up, take your half..... and walk.

And if Australia is really that important to you... come alone.

Dreamy

Dougie, I'm so sorry to read that. Trying to emigrate is incredibly stressful, perhaps that contributed? Hope you manage to sort things out amicably

That was my first thought - I'd imagine that its extremely difficult to leave children behind though, especially children who will be trying to adjust to a disjointed family life as it is.

Dougie - if it's meant to be for you to come here, then it will happen at some point. Trite and cliched I know

paulry

I'm sorry to read about this bad news Dougie. I hope things work out for the best for you and your family.

sonlymewalter

Sorry to hear about this. This migration malarky sure takes it out on people and in different ways. I hope it all works out for you mate, whatever it is you decide

ponyrama

Chin up fella. Probably all seems like a bit of a mess right now but time will make sense of it all in the end! And Australia isnt going anywhere - you'll get yourself a new dream when the time is right!

Good luck and big hugs!

Petals

So sorry things have not worked out and guess you are in the numb stage so when you get some life back come and join us over here. In the meantime keep posting to your friends on here forums can be very handy when things are pear shaped.

coolerkingcooler

Extremely sorry to read this.

I can only offer you my sympathy and wish you all the best for the future.

Take care,
Cooler