I feel betrayed
Mar 15th 2006, 1:22 am
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I feel betrayed
I just happened to be using MrsD's laptop and she had left herself logged in on here. I know it is wrong of me, but I had to look at her PMs because she has been on here a lot more than usual recently and now I wish I hadn't. I was gutted - it seems that she is having an online relationship with one of the male posters on here. He was talking about them meeting in the usual place. I am devastated - I don't know what to do.
I don't want to mention names but I should have noticed the signs - she has been taking an interest in tin mining, china clay and pasties recently and she keeps whistling the tune to Poldark.
The most gruesome thing about the whole thing is that he is a married man and is old enough to be her father! :scared:
What should I do?
Cheers,
DagBoy
I don't want to mention names but I should have noticed the signs - she has been taking an interest in tin mining, china clay and pasties recently and she keeps whistling the tune to Poldark.
The most gruesome thing about the whole thing is that he is a married man and is old enough to be her father! :scared:
What should I do?
Cheers,
DagBoy
Mar 15th 2006, 1:29 am
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Re: I feel betrayed
Love it! Can I hear a rumble in the jungle?!
Mar 15th 2006, 1:44 am
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Re: I feel betrayed
PMSL.
Sorry can't help it
Sorry can't help it
Mar 15th 2006, 2:03 am
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Re: I feel betrayed
Hmmm, perhaps you sh9uod voiceyour cncerns to the other party's other half!!! I feel sure that she would be the one best to deal with the situation!!!
Mar 15th 2006, 2:13 am
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Re: I feel betrayed
Why not try to catch her at it??. Go out for the night and when you come back you could look and see what she's been up to.
Does she phone him??. You should bug the phone just in case.
Does she phone him??. You should bug the phone just in case.
Mar 15th 2006, 2:28 am
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Re: I feel betrayed
Originally Posted by DagBoy
I just happened to be using MrsD's laptop and she had left herself logged in on here. I know it is wrong of me, but I had to look at her PMs because she has been on here a lot more than usual recently and now I wish I hadn't. I was gutted - it seems that she is having an online relationship with one of the male posters on here. He was talking about them meeting in the usual place. I am devastated - I don't know what to do.
I don't want to mention names but I should have noticed the signs - she has been taking an interest in tin mining, china clay and pasties recently and she keeps whistling the tune to Poldark.
The most gruesome thing about the whole thing is that he is a married man and is old enough to be her father! :scared:
What should I do?
Cheers,
DagBoy
I don't want to mention names but I should have noticed the signs - she has been taking an interest in tin mining, china clay and pasties recently and she keeps whistling the tune to Poldark.
The most gruesome thing about the whole thing is that he is a married man and is old enough to be her father! :scared:
What should I do?
Cheers,
DagBoy
Perhaps a walk might help.
I would also advise that you should both promise to stop usuing this forum, as it does have a way of corrupting you.
If you wish any other help please feel free to pm, me, and i will give you some
advice.
Mar 15th 2006, 2:34 am
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Re: I feel betrayed
Originally Posted by Margaret2
OMG , this is so sad, perthaps you should try and spend more time together, as a couple, set aside one day per week where you can share each other.
Perhaps a walk might help.
I would also advise that you should both promise to stop usuing this forum, as it does have a way of corrupting you.
If you wish any other help please feel free to pm, me, and i will give you some
advice.
Perhaps a walk might help.
I would also advise that you should both promise to stop usuing this forum, as it does have a way of corrupting you.
If you wish any other help please feel free to pm, me, and i will give you some
advice.
how can you give advice about taking walks together
not so long ago.........
Mar 15th 2006, 2:36 am
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Re: I feel betrayed
Originally Posted by furkew
how can you give advice about taking walks together
not so long ago.........
not so long ago.........
yes and thankfully, with the walks and counselling we are still together
Mar 15th 2006, 2:45 am
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Re: I feel betrayed
Originally Posted by Margaret2
yes and thankfully, with the walks and counselling we are still together
Mar 15th 2006, 3:27 am
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Re: I feel betrayed
Originally Posted by DagBoy
I just happened to be using MrsD's laptop and she had left herself logged in on here. I know it is wrong of me, but I had to look at her PMs because she has been on here a lot more than usual recently and now I wish I hadn't. I was gutted - it seems that she is having an online relationship with one of the male posters on here. He was talking about them meeting in the usual place. I am devastated - I don't know what to do.
I don't want to mention names but I should have noticed the signs - she has been taking an interest in tin mining, china clay and pasties recently and she keeps whistling the tune to Poldark.
The most gruesome thing about the whole thing is that he is a married man and is old enough to be her father! :scared:
What should I do?
Cheers,
DagBoy
I don't want to mention names but I should have noticed the signs - she has been taking an interest in tin mining, china clay and pasties recently and she keeps whistling the tune to Poldark.
The most gruesome thing about the whole thing is that he is a married man and is old enough to be her father! :scared:
What should I do?
Cheers,
DagBoy
Poor you. I really dont know what kind of man would do such a thing
Tell his wife
Mar 15th 2006, 3:32 am
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Re: I feel betrayed
Originally Posted by DagBoy
I just happened to be using MrsD's laptop and she had left herself logged in on here. I know it is wrong of me, but I had to look at her PMs because she has been on here a lot more than usual recently and now I wish I hadn't. I was gutted - it seems that she is having an online relationship with one of the male posters on here. He was talking about them meeting in the usual place. I am devastated - I don't know what to do.
I don't want to mention names but I should have noticed the signs - she has been taking an interest in tin mining, china clay and pasties recently and she keeps whistling the tune to Poldark.
The most gruesome thing about the whole thing is that he is a married man and is old enough to be her father! :scared:
What should I do?
Cheers,
DagBoy
I don't want to mention names but I should have noticed the signs - she has been taking an interest in tin mining, china clay and pasties recently and she keeps whistling the tune to Poldark.
The most gruesome thing about the whole thing is that he is a married man and is old enough to be her father! :scared:
What should I do?
Cheers,
DagBoy
fight fire with fire........i hear guinivere is on the hunt for a nice man
you bored dagboy by any chance?????
Mar 15th 2006, 4:16 am
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Re: I feel betrayed
Originally Posted by DagBoy
I just happened to be using MrsD's laptop and she had left herself logged in on here. I know it is wrong of me, but I had to look at her PMs because she has been on here a lot more than usual recently and now I wish I hadn't. I was gutted - it seems that she is having an online relationship with one of the male posters on here. He was talking about them meeting in the usual place. I am devastated - I don't know what to do.
I don't want to mention names but I should have noticed the signs - she has been taking an interest in tin mining, china clay and pasties recently and she keeps whistling the tune to Poldark.
The most gruesome thing about the whole thing is that he is a married man and is old enough to be her father! :scared:
What should I do?
Cheers,
DagBoy
I don't want to mention names but I should have noticed the signs - she has been taking an interest in tin mining, china clay and pasties recently and she keeps whistling the tune to Poldark.
The most gruesome thing about the whole thing is that he is a married man and is old enough to be her father! :scared:
What should I do?
Cheers,
DagBoy
Well you cant beat a good pasty. I had a nice steak and cheese pasty once.
Mar 15th 2006, 4:18 am
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Re: I feel betrayed
Apparently lion shit scares off the common cat, so why not put some common cat shit around the place and see if the opposite is true
Mar 15th 2006, 4:25 am
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Re: I feel betrayed
Originally Posted by angel17796
Poor you. I really dont know what kind of man would do such a thing
Tell his wife
Tell his wife
Mar 15th 2006, 5:25 am
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Re: I feel betrayed
Originally Posted by DagBoy
I just happened to be using MrsD's laptop and she had left herself logged in on here. I know it is wrong of me, but I had to look at her PMs because she has been on here a lot more than usual recently and now I wish I hadn't. I was gutted - it seems that she is having an online relationship with one of the male posters on here. He was talking about them meeting in the usual place. I am devastated - I don't know what to do.
I don't want to mention names but I should have noticed the signs - she has been taking an interest in tin mining, china clay and pasties recently and she keeps whistling the tune to Poldark.
The most gruesome thing about the whole thing is that he is a married man and is old enough to be her father! :scared:
What should I do?
Cheers,
DagBoy
I don't want to mention names but I should have noticed the signs - she has been taking an interest in tin mining, china clay and pasties recently and she keeps whistling the tune to Poldark.
The most gruesome thing about the whole thing is that he is a married man and is old enough to be her father! :scared:
What should I do?
Cheers,
DagBoy
Are you nuts ? You do nothing.
Think of the advantages here. While Mrs D is "busy" elsewhere, look at the free time you'll have. You'll be able to go to the footy, go fishing, go down the pub with yer mates, have the lads round for a session and whatever else you want to do. The Mrs will probably feel a tad guilty and will be extra nice to you, so take full advantage of the situation. And if things start to look like they're cooling off, then take the old boy aside and pay him a few bucks to continue keeping the missus happy. After all, it's hard keeping a young thing on the side when yer on a pension. You get the best out of the situation here, don't mess it up
