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Re: Do you ever feel lonely ...
Originally Posted by stuckinblighty
In my experience the 'nice guy' routine does'nt work
women like a bastard..sad but true Nice enough to be sincere and genuine, but they just know that if they want a change or a spark , BOSH - they'll get it. But they don't always like it when the spark gets dangerous. It's all in the balance. Women crave some sort of security and safety but also need a spark. Its the same for men probably. That's what I told my mates at college when they asked, its still the same advice I'd give to any young man. I heard my wife say to someone she married me because I was a 'new man' which shocked me to the core, (I was actually insulted) but she also says I'm a man's man and she could never court most blokes as they were too 'gay' lol. All this gender politics is such an arse. Stay clear of it, ignore it, and women will love you for it - (in my experience) which is sod all :D |
Re: Do you ever feel lonely ...
Originally Posted by stuckinblighty
In my experience the 'nice guy' routine does'nt work
women like a bastard..sad but true a lady (nice) in public but an absolute whore (bad) in the bedroom Its a strange Karma led world we live in ;) |
Re: Do you ever feel lonely ...
Originally Posted by thebears
But men like:
a lady (nice) in public but an absolute whore (bad) in the bedroom Its a strange Karma led world we live in ;) I will never be able to look Mrs Bear in the eye without smiling again. :p |
Re: Do you ever feel lonely ...
Originally Posted by Bordy
I will never be able to look Mrs Bear in the eye without smiling again. :p
your just jelous :D |
Re: Do you ever feel lonely ...
Originally Posted by BadgeIsBack
The tip I give out is that most women like men who are basically naughty but nice.
Nice enough to be sincere and genuine, but they just know that if they want a change or a spark , BOSH - they'll get it. But they don't always like it when the spark gets dangerous. It's all in the balance. Women crave some sort of security and safety but also need a spark. Its the same for men probably. That's what I told my mates at college when they asked, its still the same advice I'd give to any young man. I heard my wife say to someone she married me because I was a 'new man' which shocked me to the core, (I was actually insulted) but she also says I'm a man's man and she could never court most blokes as they were too 'gay' lol. All this gender politics is such an arse. Stay clear of it, ignore it, and women will love you for it - (in my experience) which is sod all :D Mandy |
Re: Do you ever feel lonely ...
Originally Posted by thebears
But men like:
a lady (nice) in public but an absolute whore (bad) in the bedroom Its a strange Karma led world we live in ;) know of any ??? :D |
Re: Do you ever feel lonely ...
Originally Posted by iPom
... over here in Aus? What do you do to keep it at bay?
I have no idea whether my post will be lost in a sea of bollocks (though I suspect so). Anyhoo, I'm here, Mrs. :) Patrick mentioned you t'other day in fact. If you can stand more visitors inflicting themselves on you ( :D :o ) we'll be there. Otherwise, you know you're more than welcome down here whenever you need/want. Drop me a line. Nx |
Re: Do you ever feel lonely ...
Originally Posted by iPom
Cool..
Yes, I get real moments of lonliness.. which is surreal thing when you're married but lonely... Like two things I never thought would go together. Of course I miss my friends in the uk and am trying to make more here, which is hard breaking into other people's established social circles, but it's going ok.... Anyway, just wondering if other people felt the same ... I need to join some clubs or something, get my dancing shoes on and go salsa with someone. |
Re: Do you ever feel lonely ...
Originally Posted by geordie mandy
Hi Ipom
i get lonley here in the Uk so im pretty sure i will in oz. I wish i still had girly chats with my old friends from my youth. But we all moved on married and went out seperate ways. I still keep in touch with then no and again. Where i live ive tried having body shop partys , candle partys in fact anything to meet people and have a laugh over a few bottles of wine. But no one bothers coming which i find hard to understand. Im going to be on the move again soon as hubby is getting moved on and this time i will be going with him back to army housing. Simply because im more lonley without him than i ever was with him. We have been married for 16 years and together for 19. my friends compare us to a comfy pair of old slippers . If you ever want some one to moan to just let me know :D Mandy Karma sent. :) |
Re: Do you ever feel lonely ...
Originally Posted by russmcp
Do I feel lonely? Yeah I do, however I am in the UK! Things are pretty bad at the mo and if can go wrong it all seems to be. The main thing is my mother in law (though i'm not married to my partner but you know what I mean) has only got a few weeks to live it would seem. She is riddled with cancer and my poor partner (who is a nurse) is falling to bits and its a bloody heart breaker. Not much I can do for her but be around but I feel so damn useless, I'm sure if any of you have had to watch this will understand how it is. Other things include both cars breaking down and our 8 month old fridge freezer breaking down (that's the straw bit thats broke the camels back, cos Currys refuse to replace if and Hotpoint the gits are dragging their heals and I seriously doubt they will repair it in time for xmas; not that we're be celebrating it mind). And I feel so lonely cos all my mates are busy and just don't have the time at the mo to chat so things are building up and it's gonna get a lot worse before it gets better, in fact I just don't see how my other half is gonna get over this and I worry how it's gonna effect us. I've gone off on a bit of a whine but I think its helped me write something down, sorry.
Hi :) I have sent you a pm - I know exactly and I mean exactly what you are going through - but I wont broadcast it With Love SC x-x-x-x |
Re: Do you ever feel lonely ...
Originally Posted by Vash the Stampede
Mandy, I always enjoy your posts, but I just want to say that this one is an absolute belter.
Karma sent. :) Ahh shucks :o Thanks Vash Mandy |
Re: Do you ever feel lonely ...
Originally Posted by geordie mandy
Ahh shucks :o Thanks Vash
Mandy |
Re: Do you ever feel lonely ...
Have just crashed into this thread, and apologies if i;I've missed anything.
I read somewhere that there is a thin line between loneliness and depression :) , and people find it hard to distinguish between the two. :) But I know what you mean Ipom, think its quite natural , as long as it doesn't last too long :), On Friday walking home from work, i always feel lonely :confused: the weekends feel very lonely and long, especially in the winter, sometimes am close to tears on the way home, knowing it will be a weekend of running kids from a to b and nothing for me inbetween, quite often i realise its coz am missing hubby, coz we aint had a minute together. I hate work at times , but could never , give it up altogether , i luv the company too much, but don't have many friends outside of it , just through circumstance..........honest :rolleyes: Mandy lets get the wine chilled for lots of meets next year Where's WB and Rosifumi to take the piss now |
Re: Do you ever feel lonely ...
Originally Posted by Bordy
I will never be able to look Mrs Bear in the eye without smiling again. :p
pmsl, i am so looking forward to meeting Mrs Bear :eek: |
Re: Do you ever feel lonely ...
Originally Posted by russmcp
Do I feel lonely? Yeah I do, however I am in the UK! Things are pretty bad at the mo and if can go wrong it all seems to be. The main thing is my mother in law (though i'm not married to my partner but you know what I mean) has only got a few weeks to live it would seem. She is riddled with cancer and my poor partner (who is a nurse) is falling to bits and its a bloody heart breaker. Not much I can do for her but be around but I feel so damn useless, I'm sure if any of you have had to watch this will understand how it is. Other things include both cars breaking down and our 8 month old fridge freezer breaking down (that's the straw bit thats broke the camels back, cos Currys refuse to replace if and Hotpoint the gits are dragging their heals and I seriously doubt they will repair it in time for xmas; not that we're be celebrating it mind). And I feel so lonely cos all my mates are busy and just don't have the time at the mo to chat so things are building up and it's gonna get a lot worse before it gets better, in fact I just don't see how my other half is gonna get over this and I worry how it's gonna effect us. I've gone off on a bit of a whine but I think its helped me write something down, sorry.
Sorry to hear what you and partner are going through mate. If we were still in UK I would of suggested a meet up over a beer (used to live in Horsham West Sussex). All I can say is Karma must surely be coming your way big time. :) |
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