Disappointed
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Re: Disappointed
I my family beats all yours, like my brother send an email to my son when he turned 21 to wish him Happy Birthday, then carry on saying I wanted to send you some money but didnt want to upset your mum. go figure
Then My Dad is the best one I call him to say its the kids Birthday please dont forget cause they really love to hear from you, but he goes oh I'm too old I forget, so i say okay I call you & you can wish them Happy Birthday, so he wishes them Happy Birthday than tells them I have put $100 in your mums account go & get it off her & get yourself some presents try to to explain that to your children that there is no money & we are very close.
Then My Dad is the best one I call him to say its the kids Birthday please dont forget cause they really love to hear from you, but he goes oh I'm too old I forget, so i say okay I call you & you can wish them Happy Birthday, so he wishes them Happy Birthday than tells them I have put $100 in your mums account go & get it off her & get yourself some presents try to to explain that to your children that there is no money & we are very close.
We don't see my parents so that isn't an issue and I have to be honest my inlaws make an ernomous effort with the kids - they are their only grandchildren but they never forget birthdays, Xmas, Easter and they call at least once a week....
Oh no dont get onto money
My parents used to send kids 20 pound or so at birthday and xmas. When they stopped one sibling told me it was because they ( mother I think ) thought I was spending it and not giving it to the kids. :curse:
Its just any excuse to be nasty really, all the kids money was in their own little bank accounts. To even suggest I would pinch birthday money was ludicrous, not to mention insulting. Plus the pretty obvious fact were hardly poor.
I really cant comprehend the levels that have been gone to to 'get back' at the move to OZ.
It makes me sad
My parents used to send kids 20 pound or so at birthday and xmas. When they stopped one sibling told me it was because they ( mother I think ) thought I was spending it and not giving it to the kids. :curse:
Its just any excuse to be nasty really, all the kids money was in their own little bank accounts. To even suggest I would pinch birthday money was ludicrous, not to mention insulting. Plus the pretty obvious fact were hardly poor.
I really cant comprehend the levels that have been gone to to 'get back' at the move to OZ.
It makes me sad