Crap from the past
Dec 9th 2009, 10:37 pm
#63
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Re: Crap from the past
I was laughing at my bloke last night who has a gift, bought by someone he was once in a relationship with and it's a bit old and knackered. So I asked if I bought him a new one, would he wear it... and he said no because he was emotionally attached to the item...
which made me laugh a lot... mainly because he's attached to something from a failed relationship yet wouldn't wear the new item... from his emotionally successful relationship....
which made me laugh a lot... mainly because he's attached to something from a failed relationship yet wouldn't wear the new item... from his emotionally successful relationship....
Dec 9th 2009, 10:43 pm
#64
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Re: Crap from the past
I remember my cousin kept all her husband's clothes after she had kicked him out (he had an affair). She shredded them all up into long strips, then phoned him up and asked him if he would come and collect his clothes and that they would be left outside the front door in black bags
All the clothes he owned were in those bags, including all his expensive work suits! So it's always handy to keep something I suppose
I do agree with TP though - out with the old and in with the new
Dec 9th 2009, 10:45 pm
#65
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Re: Crap from the past
I remember my cousin kept all her husband's clothes after she had kicked him out (he had an affair). She shredded them all up into long strips, then phoned him up and asked him if he would come and collect his clothes and that they would be left outside the front door in black bags
All the clothes he owned were in those bags, including all his expensive work suits! So it's always handy to keep something I suppose
I do agree with TP though - out with the old and in with the new
I never remain friends with exs. It's a shitfight waiting to happen....
Dec 9th 2009, 10:51 pm
#66
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Re: Crap from the past
I don't go out of my way to speak with ex's,including my ex husband.I really only converse with him for my daughters sake.They are ex's for a reason right?
Dec 9th 2009, 10:58 pm
#67
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Dec 9th 2009, 11:04 pm
#68
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Re: Crap from the past
Time to just get through the sensitive year or so that it takes to get back emotionally on track and not dig at each other. After that its just another person you happen to know quite well.
Its just a matter of getting used to not having an opinion on the other persons life. Unless of course they have cheated on you and then you have to cause them deep and permanent scarring
Dec 9th 2009, 11:23 pm
#69
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Re: Crap from the past
Sometimes though you just outgrow things. not any big deal or anything - its just you drift into mediocrity. No shitfight waiting because theres nothing left to fight about.
Time to just get through the sensitive year or so that it takes to get back emotionally on track and not dig at each other. After that its just another person you happen to know quite well.
Its just a matter of getting used to not having an opinion on the other persons life. Unless of course they have cheated on you and then you have to cause them deep and permanent scarring
Time to just get through the sensitive year or so that it takes to get back emotionally on track and not dig at each other. After that its just another person you happen to know quite well.
Its just a matter of getting used to not having an opinion on the other persons life. Unless of course they have cheated on you and then you have to cause them deep and permanent scarring
I thought you had a secret Waterford Crystal fetish on the sly?!
Dec 10th 2009, 12:19 am
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Re: Crap from the past
All I need for revenge is the lying eyes, a sharp thin needle and a little salt and vinegar
Dec 10th 2009, 12:24 am
#73
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Re: Crap from the past
Ooo nasty . . . the bit about dropping it on your toe . . .
