Angela Marie

Feel as though I have been hit by a steamroller, dont get me wrong I am having no second thoughts - I leave my job on friday, and have everything planned (I have been distancing myself at work for last 12 months)

But despite the organisation and the kids being sooooo excited about everything, including xmas (we fly on n.y. eve with quantas) I could burst into tears at any moment.

I feel as though I should be in holiday mode, looking forward to the new start, but I cant get a glimmer of enthusiasm. Despite everything I ever wanted for the last 5 years happening and everyone at work and home being so envious - I feel like a spoilt child.

Confused
Angela

Bix

It's the affect I have on people Angela.
Not many get to meet me in person.
I am just a mystery lion to most.

Yes, yes, yes............most people get topsy turvy emotions in the lead up to flying out.
You are not alone my friend

samnsam

You wouldn't believe the amount of people who feel like this, its only to be expected, I think everyone is scared of change as we really dont know what to expect until it happens.
I'm already preparing myself for these emotions, and will probably go through the whole "I wish I was back in the UK" once I get to OZ, But I put this down to the old saying THE GRASS IS ALWAYS GREENER. I'm sure once your there and settled in to a routine you will feel much better.
Hope everything works out.
Love Sam xxx

Angela Marie

[QUOTE=Bix]It's the affect I have on people Angela.
Not many get to meet me in person.


aaahhh see - you solved the mystery ! it is indeed the anticipation of meeting you

JustBecause

I think mixed emotions are to be expected, but even if you expect them it doesn't help in dealing with them! Nothing does really, just got to ride them out.

I'm feeling like it & got at least 6mths to go! I think it is cos I am experiencing everything now as if it will be one of the last times I do it in the UK so am really conscious of it. On the one hand, having a fun time doing stuff but on the other it exacerbates any worries about leaving.

OzTennis

Yes, most of us who have done this (for me in reverse) will tell you that it is natural and understandable and that it will continue for a while after the move and start to subside but never go away fully. Some will tell you it didn't subside for them on the other side, perhaps even heightened. You'll never know until you have a go which category you will be in. Good luck!

OzTennis

busterboy

Are you going back to Australia any time soon OzTennis?

busterboy

And you forgot to say, some people just love it from the moment they arrive!

TeresaG

I think these feelings are to be expected. I'm sure most people have them at some point. I know I do and I wonder if we are doing the right thing. We aren't anywhere near close to going yet.

shiels

Ditto.................C x

FluffyTheCampfireSlayer

Hey! I feel like that now and we ain't going for a while yet!

I'm sure it's perfectly normal...fear of the unknown or something? If it's any consolation - the human being is a remarkable product! We have an amazing survival instinct - you'll be fine! Enjoy the ride

Wilgar

[QUOTE=Angela Marie]Feel as though I have been hit by a steamroller, dont get me wrong I am having no second thoughts - I leave my job on friday, and have everything planned (I have been distancing myself at work for last 12 months)

But despite the organisation and the kids being sooooo excited about everything, including xmas (we fly on n.y. eve with quantas) I could burst into tears at any moment.

I feel as though I should be in holiday mode, looking forward to the new start, but I cant get a glimmer of enthusiasm. Despite everything I ever wanted for the last 5 years happening and everyone at work and home being so envious - I feel like a spoilt child.

Confused



Hey Angela Marie under your name it says `going on an adventure`! You are about to go on an adventure.Worrying is normal-at least you are not heading off thinking all will be fab - then when it is you`ll be pleasantly suprised.
I ditto your emotions- an emotional rollercoaster -we leave a week later.I`m dreading our Christmas Tree coming down.............
Good Luck in Cairns.We`re off to Sydney.

mindblower

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Angela[/QUOTE]


Perfectly natural feelings I would have thought Angela.

It's a time thing, I imagine you will feel better when there a couple of weeks.


All the best again...keep us posted...

Dave

stevieuk123

Its a vey daunting event. Lots of emotions, but the hard bit is when you are over there adjusting and missing people. Just always remember why you are doing it all and keep strong. Its a great adventure, and a great place to be. Good luck!

moneypenny20

Only everyone at some point and in some form. Why should you be any different