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spartacus Feb 17th 2009 10:19 am

Re: It amazes me how people react to threads!
 

Originally Posted by Hutch (Post 7295651)

Oooh! Chase me!

pompeyblonde Feb 17th 2009 10:31 am

Re: It amazes me how people react to threads!
 
I have only just picked up on this thread so sorry if Im covering old ground.....It seems to me that a lot of people who have a go at posters, my favourite being the person who asked about leaving debt in the Uk! oh the moral outrage! is that they wouldn't have the guts to argue to peoples faces and be so bloody minded...... They thrive on the anonymity of the puter, they are possibly lacking in social skills?......:blink:

Notts_bloke Feb 17th 2009 10:34 am

Re: It amazes me how people react to threads!
 

Originally Posted by pompeyblonde (Post 7295705)
I have only just picked up on this thread so sorry if Im covering old ground.....It seems to me that a lot of people who have a go at posters, my favourite being the person who asked about leaving debt in the Uk! oh the moral outrage! is that they wouldn't have the guts to argue to peoples faces and be so bloody minded...... They thrive on the anonymity of the puter, they are possibly lacking in social skills?......:blink:

Ooh the irony.:)

The Crow Feb 17th 2009 10:47 am

Re: It amazes me how people react to threads!
 

Originally Posted by Notts_bloke (Post 7295716)
Ooh the irony.:)

:rofl::rofl:

asprilla Feb 17th 2009 11:14 am

Re: It amazes me how people react to threads!
 

Originally Posted by pompeyblonde (Post 7295705)
I have only just picked up on this thread so sorry if Im covering old ground.....It seems to me that a lot of people who have a go at posters, my favourite being the person who asked about leaving debt in the Uk! oh the moral outrage! is that they wouldn't have the guts to argue to peoples faces and be so bloody minded...... They thrive on the anonymity of the puter, they are possibly lacking in social skills?......:blink:

I think you are confusing real life with the internet. In real life, people usually converse with friends, family & colleagues. On the internet, people usually talk to complete strangers.

There is a big difference.

DunRoaminTheUK Feb 17th 2009 11:15 am

Re: It amazes me how people react to threads!
 

Originally Posted by asprilla (Post 7295846)
On the internet, people usually talk to complete strangers.

Against the better advice of their parents....

MartinLuther Feb 17th 2009 11:19 am

Re: It amazes me how people react to threads!
 

Originally Posted by suzyambrose (Post 7294014)
Sometimes, well actually ALOT of the time when reading through posts on a thread on BE I can't get over how people start getting all sensitive and smart arsed when leaving a comment. .....


Originally Posted by suzyambrose (Post 7295342)
If you mean migration is the toughest thing in the world then no offence but I very much doubt it, I'd rather emigrate than have a terminal illness.

:blink:

Pommy Dan Feb 17th 2009 11:48 am

Re: It amazes me how people react to threads!
 
i wonder how many posters on here regularly post on other forums?

i think some of the antagonism caused and received is because of a lack of forum savvy and the ability to read between the lines and identify sarcasm, humour etc...

moneypenny20 Feb 17th 2009 11:53 am

Re: It amazes me how people react to threads!
 

Originally Posted by suzyambrose (Post 7294014)
Sometimes, well actually ALOT of the time when reading through posts on a thread on BE I can't get over how people start getting all sensitive and smart arsed when leaving a comment. A simple question might be asked as a recent one ' Can my wife ship her favorite shampoo' and people will start getting arsey with each other - you should do this, you shouldn't do that, Australia has shampoo you know blah blah blah. It's like hello just answer the question -yes or no. Some people can start an argument in an empty room and I think some of them post on BE. And more than once I've been told that people refrain from posting or leaving comments on posts because of the reaction it gets, it's ridiculous. :mad:

It's called banter/repartee/ribbing imo. Do you never have conversations with people where someone will say something that not the most intelligent and someone else will raise their eyebrows to the sky and remark on the other person's lack of mental skills? A discussion board is no different, other than the person raising the eyebrows is a stranger.

A forum like this one is in part for information and also for general chat and messing around with people who are linked by a common goal. There will be people you hate, people you like, people you couldn't give a monkeys about. God forbid everyone just answered a question with a straight answer, threads would last three posts at the most and there would no entertainment for the majority of posters.

Some posters may go too far, but that, again, is life. If you don't like a post you report it. If you're feeling fragile for some reason, any answer can seem aggressive. If you're feeling aggressive for some reason, some answers can appear pointless.

One person's repartee is another person's aggressive unnecessary post - we are all different. Don't get upset by it, accept it, it's life.:D

Disclaimer: the mention of 'you' in this post was meant generally, not particularly.

pompeyblonde Feb 17th 2009 11:59 am

Re: It amazes me how people react to threads!
 

I think you are confusing real life with the internet. In real life, people usually converse with friends, family & colleagues. On the internet, people usually talk to complete strangers.

There is a big difference.
No, I think that was my point, they don't know how to interact....:confused:

But point made, I now won't comment further can't be bloody arsed

Notts_bloke Feb 17th 2009 12:03 pm

Re: It amazes me how people react to threads!
 

Originally Posted by pompeyblonde (Post 7295970)
No, I think that was my point, they don't know how to interact....:confused:

But point made, I now won't comment further can't be bloody arsed

Go on take your ball home. ;)

pompeyblonde Feb 17th 2009 12:04 pm

Re: It amazes me how people react to threads!
 
you take yours

Notts_bloke Feb 17th 2009 12:05 pm

Re: It amazes me how people react to threads!
 

Originally Posted by pompeyblonde (Post 7295983)
you take yours

I brought the jumpers for goalposts.

I thought you weren't posting anymore? :)

pompeyblonde Feb 17th 2009 12:11 pm

Re: It amazes me how people react to threads!
 
I ain't bovvered and I KNEW you were going to say that!:D

Bernieboy Feb 17th 2009 12:16 pm

Re: It amazes me how people react to threads!
 

Originally Posted by pompeyblonde (Post 7295993)
I ain't bovvered and I KNEW you were going to say that!:D

Are you still here;)


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