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Old Aug 5th 2009 | 6:28 pm
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Originally Posted by Hebe
I don't know the system here but in the UK at the end of a divorce you are wise to do a Consent Order (many people fail to do these). This usually stops any future claims against each other - a divorce doesn;t do that. this document goes before a judge for approval - you don't have to attend

I will add that a friend of mine here in Australia has just been stung for the very same thing - settled on divorce - no consent order - within 2 years she had inherited - he came back for more.
Yep also happened to a friend of mine and her scumbag ex took her for a lot But what i have in assets other than my good looks you could put in a coles shopping bag,the cheap plastic one
 
Old Aug 5th 2009 | 6:32 pm
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Originally Posted by Bernieboy
Yep also happened to a friend of mine and her scumbag ex took her for a lot But what i have in assets other than my good looks you could put in a coles shopping bag,the cheap plastic one
Well, all i can say is,

Let this be a lesson to you.
 
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Well, all i can say is,

Let this be a lesson to you.
Thanks dad
 
Old Aug 5th 2009 | 6:42 pm
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Originally Posted by Bernieboy
Yep also happened to a friend of mine and her scumbag ex took her for a lot But what i have in assets other than my good looks you could put in a coles shopping bag,the cheap plastic one
And knowing your luck there'll be a hole in the bag
 
Old Aug 5th 2009 | 6:43 pm
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Ok folks all seems sorted,she has been on the phone,got a few forms and stat dec to sign and IM FREE Many thanks for the advice
 
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Originally Posted by Bernieboy
Ok folks all seems sorted,she has been on the phone,got a few forms and stat dec to sign and IM FREE Many thanks for the advice
Yeay Perhaps that luck is changing after all
 
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Originally Posted by Bernieboy
Yep also happened to a friend of mine and her scumbag ex took her for a lot But what i have in assets other than my good looks you could put in a coles shopping bag,the cheap plastic one

but you could go back after her!!!

PS A little advice - when going online to look for the next one - I suggest you sell youself a little bit more ........... you know ............. I will think something up or maybe we could start a comp to see who has the best Moniker and tagline!!!!
 
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Originally Posted by Hebe
but you could go back after her!!!

PS A little advice - when going online to look for the next one - I suggest you sell youself a little bit more ........... you know ............. I will think something up or maybe we could start a comp to see who has the best Moniker and tagline!!!!
No bloody next time for me,it's fun in the sun for me from now on
 
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Originally Posted by Bernieboy
No bloody next time for me,it's fun in the sun for me from now on
Thats what we all say right?Shall we place bets now?Good luck anyway and atleast you can now get on with your life,be it alone!(for now)
 
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Originally Posted by livinginreality
Thats what we all say right?Shall we place bets now?Good luck anyway and atleast you can now get on with your life,be it alone!(for now)
Cheers mate
 
Old Aug 5th 2009 | 10:57 pm
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Default Re: ADVICE NEEDED ASAP !!!!!

Originally Posted by Hebe
I don't know the system here but in the UK at the end of a divorce you are wise to do a Consent Order (many people fail to do these). This usually stops any future claims against each other - a divorce doesn;t do that. this document goes before a judge for approval - you don't have to attend

I will add that a friend of mine here in Australia has just been stung for the very same thing - settled on divorce - no consent order - within 2 years she had inherited - he came back for more.
http://www.antwanlawyers.com.au/page...o-divorce.html
If neither party obtains a Consent Order, then Court proceedings can only be started up until 12 months after the date of the divorce and asset value and financial situation will be considered at the time of the Court proceedings, not at the time of separation.

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Old Aug 5th 2009 | 11:47 pm
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Originally Posted by Hebe
I don't know the system here but in the UK at the end of a divorce you are wise to do a Consent Order (many people fail to do these). This usually stops any future claims against each other - a divorce doesn;t do that. this document goes before a judge for approval - you don't have to attend

I will add that a friend of mine here in Australia has just been stung for the very same thing - settled on divorce - no consent order - within 2 years she had inherited - he came back for more.[/QUOTE

http://www.antwanlawyers.com.au/page...o-divorce.html
If neither party obtains a Consent Order, then Court proceedings can only be started up until 12 months after the date of the divorce and asset value and financial situation will be considered at the time of the Court proceedings, not at the time of separation.
just by chance saw her tonight - she was de facto relationship so two years
 
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Originally Posted by Bernieboy
So she says i should go to a solicitor and have him sign off or something on the papers,at my expense prob which im NOT going to do,any ideas here
Haven't read the full thread so dont know if this has been suggested but the obvious answer as far as I can see is to get her to cover the expense of signing off, its one thing to walk away with nothing at your own choice but it shouldn't cost you to do so,
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