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Bernieboy Aug 5th 2009 6:28 pm

Re: ADVICE NEEDED ASAP !!!!!
 

Originally Posted by Hebe (Post 7816950)
I don't know the system here but in the UK at the end of a divorce you are wise to do a Consent Order (many people fail to do these). This usually stops any future claims against each other - a divorce doesn;t do that. this document goes before a judge for approval - you don't have to attend

I will add that a friend of mine here in Australia has just been stung for the very same thing - settled on divorce - no consent order - within 2 years she had inherited - he came back for more.

Yep also happened to a friend of mine and her scumbag ex took her for a lot:frown: But what i have in assets other than my good looks:rolleyes: you could put in a coles shopping bag,the cheap plastic one:lol:

Burbage Aug 5th 2009 6:32 pm

Re: ADVICE NEEDED ASAP !!!!!
 

Originally Posted by Bernieboy (Post 7816960)
Yep also happened to a friend of mine and her scumbag ex took her for a lot:frown: But what i have in assets other than my good looks:rolleyes: you could put in a coles shopping bag,the cheap plastic one:lol:

Well, all i can say is,

Let this be a lesson to you.

Bernieboy Aug 5th 2009 6:41 pm

Re: ADVICE NEEDED ASAP !!!!!
 

Originally Posted by Burbage (Post 7816968)
Well, all i can say is,

Let this be a lesson to you.

Thanks dad:(

Pollyana Aug 5th 2009 6:42 pm

Re: ADVICE NEEDED ASAP !!!!!
 

Originally Posted by Bernieboy (Post 7816960)
Yep also happened to a friend of mine and her scumbag ex took her for a lot:frown: But what i have in assets other than my good looks:rolleyes: you could put in a coles shopping bag,the cheap plastic one:lol:

And knowing your luck there'll be a hole in the bag :lol:

Bernieboy Aug 5th 2009 6:43 pm

Re: ADVICE NEEDED ASAP !!!!!
 
Ok folks all seems sorted,she has been on the phone:zzz:,got a few forms and stat dec to sign and IM FREE:thumbsup: Many thanks for the advice:wub:

Pollyana Aug 5th 2009 6:44 pm

Re: ADVICE NEEDED ASAP !!!!!
 

Originally Posted by Bernieboy (Post 7816995)
Ok folks all seems sorted,she has been on the phone:zzz:,got a few forms and stat dec to sign and IM FREE:thumbsup: Many thanks for the advice:wub:

Yeay :) Perhaps that luck is changing after all :)

Hebe Aug 5th 2009 6:45 pm

Re: ADVICE NEEDED ASAP !!!!!
 

Originally Posted by Bernieboy (Post 7816960)
Yep also happened to a friend of mine and her scumbag ex took her for a lot:frown: But what i have in assets other than my good looks:rolleyes: you could put in a coles shopping bag,the cheap plastic one:lol:


but you could go back after her!!!

PS A little advice - when going online to look for the next one - I suggest you sell youself a little bit more ........... you know ............. I will think something up or maybe we could start a comp to see who has the best Moniker and tagline!!!! :thumbup:

Bernieboy Aug 5th 2009 6:48 pm

Re: ADVICE NEEDED ASAP !!!!!
 

Originally Posted by Hebe (Post 7816999)
but you could go back after her!!!

PS A little advice - when going online to look for the next one - I suggest you sell youself a little bit more ........... you know ............. I will think something up or maybe we could start a comp to see who has the best Moniker and tagline!!!! :thumbup:

:lol::lol: No bloody next time for me,it's fun in the sun for me from now on:thumbsup:

livinginreality Aug 5th 2009 8:00 pm

Re: ADVICE NEEDED ASAP !!!!!
 

Originally Posted by Bernieboy (Post 7817004)
:lol::lol: No bloody next time for me,it's fun in the sun for me from now on:thumbsup:

Thats what we all say right?Shall we place bets now?:DGood luck anyway and atleast you can now get on with your life,be it alone!(for now:thumbup:):fingerscrossed:

Bernieboy Aug 5th 2009 8:09 pm

Re: ADVICE NEEDED ASAP !!!!!
 

Originally Posted by livinginreality (Post 7817175)
Thats what we all say right?Shall we place bets now?:DGood luck anyway and atleast you can now get on with your life,be it alone!(for now:thumbup:):fingerscrossed:

Cheers mate:thumbup:

copa Aug 5th 2009 10:57 pm

Re: ADVICE NEEDED ASAP !!!!!
 

Originally Posted by Hebe (Post 7816950)
I don't know the system here but in the UK at the end of a divorce you are wise to do a Consent Order (many people fail to do these). This usually stops any future claims against each other - a divorce doesn;t do that. this document goes before a judge for approval - you don't have to attend

I will add that a friend of mine here in Australia has just been stung for the very same thing - settled on divorce - no consent order - within 2 years she had inherited - he came back for more.

http://www.antwanlawyers.com.au/page...o-divorce.html
If neither party obtains a Consent Order, then Court proceedings can only be started up until 12 months after the date of the divorce and asset value and financial situation will be considered at the time of the Court proceedings, not at the time of separation.

Hebe Aug 5th 2009 11:47 pm

Re: ADVICE NEEDED ASAP !!!!!
 
[QUOTE=copa;7817603]

Originally Posted by Hebe (Post 7816950)
I don't know the system here but in the UK at the end of a divorce you are wise to do a Consent Order (many people fail to do these). This usually stops any future claims against each other - a divorce doesn;t do that. this document goes before a judge for approval - you don't have to attend

I will add that a friend of mine here in Australia has just been stung for the very same thing - settled on divorce - no consent order - within 2 years she had inherited - he came back for more.[/QUOTE

http://www.antwanlawyers.com.au/page...o-divorce.html
If neither party obtains a Consent Order, then Court proceedings can only be started up until 12 months after the date of the divorce and asset value and financial situation will be considered at the time of the Court proceedings, not at the time of separation.

just by chance saw her tonight - she was de facto relationship so two years

chris mcgow Aug 6th 2009 4:14 am

Re: ADVICE NEEDED ASAP !!!!!
 

Originally Posted by Bernieboy (Post 7816718)
So she says i should go to a solicitor and have him sign off or something on the papers,at my expense prob which im NOT going to do,any ideas here:confused::confused:

Haven't read the full thread so dont know if this has been suggested but the obvious answer as far as I can see is to get her to cover the expense of signing off, its one thing to walk away with nothing at your own choice but it shouldn't cost you to do so,
Liz


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