25 YEARS
Feb 9th 2009, 11:44 pm
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25 YEARS
25 Years ago tomorrow I remember standing next to Pauline, we were both standing at the altar and I was shit scared. What would life hold for us?
It was in the 80? And the future looked dismal to say the least.
People were out of work everywhere and it didn’t look like it was going to get any better.
Most of my friend had never worked after leaving school and no sign of ever doing so.
Being so young most people said it would never last.
After a few weeks we managed to get our first rental. It was a shithole but we made it home as best we could. Our first was born and we struggled finically for a long time. But we were happy!
After a year or so we managed to get our first council house. Then came our second child. A few years later we had our third.
We always felt we were fighting to survive.
Pauline had always wanted to go and get a better education; she felt she had missed out on marrying and having the kids so young. She could see that we would be stuck in the same place forever if something didn’t change. I thought I was doing the right thing and working my arse off to keep us all going.
After about 10 years of marriage we managed to get our first holiday together. Family and friends looked after the kids while we both went off to find each other. It was an eye opener for both of us, because we wondered if spending a couple of weeks together without kids or work to distract us we might not even like each other.
We had a great time and really found the reason why we were still together. Not only did we love each other, but we still liked each other. The holiday was exactly what we both needed. We both came back with a better outlook to our lives.
Pauline had nagged me for years for her to train as a midwife. I couldn’t see how it would work, because someone had to look after the kids. She came up with a plan for our future.
I would give up work and she would train. That meant I was to become a househusband!
To be very honest we had nothing to lose. My job was going nowhere and the money was pish, so I gave in.
It was tough and when i say tough. I mean it was the poorest we had ever been. It was a struggle to feed us all at times and paying bills was a killer, but we struggled through. Pauline had a goal and she was determined to finish it. It meant she had to do other work while training to feed us. At times this was taking its toll on Pauline. Trying to study and work 12 hour shifts was really hard on her.
After four years of training she finally passed all her exams and graduated. Now all she needed was a job. She had to sweat it out for a few months.
There’s only a few times in our life when I have sat and thought “what the fk have we done”
Pauline had had an interview and was waiting to hear back. They told her she would hear by 6 that day. The council had been chasing us for rent. So the deal was. We could only pick up the phone if it was the hospital for Pauline. Thank gawd for caller display lol
The phone rang and it was the hospital to tell Pauline she had the job. 5 mins later the council called and we told them they would be getting the rent in a month lol. That’s how hard it was for us. After about 2 years we had cleared all our debt and the future looked rosy. The kids were a bit older and i could go back to work. Before too long we had bought our first house and we really did feel content for the first time in our lives. We had bought an older house that needed a lot of work so we began renovating it. While doing this we had started on the road to Australia. Any money made from the house would fund our Australian adventure. I had changed my job and i was also working for myself. After five years of planning our visas arrived. Financially for once we were pretty well off. People thought it was mad and that we would never go through with it. Well the rest is history and can be read in any of our updates if you want to search for them.
Anyone who knows us will know that Pauline deserves more than a medal for putting up with my pish this long.
So tomorrow I will turn to Pauline just like I did to that wee lassie at the altar and think.......... What will life hold for us?
Only this time I won’t be scared!
I consider myself very lucky; I can look back at all our hardships and know they are part of our growth. It has made us stronger, more determined and what we are today. We have 3 fantastic young adults that we love to bits and we are very happy.
We you have someone as strong as Pauline by your side you know you can achieve everything.
LOVE is not a strong enough word to describe how I feel about her.
She is my rock and my soul mate.
Pauline, when you read this, and I know you will (because you’re nosey) can I just say thanks for the last 25 years of laughs, good, hard times, my kids and you.
I LOVE YOU
123
It was in the 80? And the future looked dismal to say the least.
People were out of work everywhere and it didn’t look like it was going to get any better.
Most of my friend had never worked after leaving school and no sign of ever doing so.
Being so young most people said it would never last.
After a few weeks we managed to get our first rental. It was a shithole but we made it home as best we could. Our first was born and we struggled finically for a long time. But we were happy!
After a year or so we managed to get our first council house. Then came our second child. A few years later we had our third.
We always felt we were fighting to survive.
Pauline had always wanted to go and get a better education; she felt she had missed out on marrying and having the kids so young. She could see that we would be stuck in the same place forever if something didn’t change. I thought I was doing the right thing and working my arse off to keep us all going.
After about 10 years of marriage we managed to get our first holiday together. Family and friends looked after the kids while we both went off to find each other. It was an eye opener for both of us, because we wondered if spending a couple of weeks together without kids or work to distract us we might not even like each other.
We had a great time and really found the reason why we were still together. Not only did we love each other, but we still liked each other. The holiday was exactly what we both needed. We both came back with a better outlook to our lives.
Pauline had nagged me for years for her to train as a midwife. I couldn’t see how it would work, because someone had to look after the kids. She came up with a plan for our future.
I would give up work and she would train. That meant I was to become a househusband!
To be very honest we had nothing to lose. My job was going nowhere and the money was pish, so I gave in.
It was tough and when i say tough. I mean it was the poorest we had ever been. It was a struggle to feed us all at times and paying bills was a killer, but we struggled through. Pauline had a goal and she was determined to finish it. It meant she had to do other work while training to feed us. At times this was taking its toll on Pauline. Trying to study and work 12 hour shifts was really hard on her.
After four years of training she finally passed all her exams and graduated. Now all she needed was a job. She had to sweat it out for a few months.
There’s only a few times in our life when I have sat and thought “what the fk have we done”
Pauline had had an interview and was waiting to hear back. They told her she would hear by 6 that day. The council had been chasing us for rent. So the deal was. We could only pick up the phone if it was the hospital for Pauline. Thank gawd for caller display lol
The phone rang and it was the hospital to tell Pauline she had the job. 5 mins later the council called and we told them they would be getting the rent in a month lol. That’s how hard it was for us. After about 2 years we had cleared all our debt and the future looked rosy. The kids were a bit older and i could go back to work. Before too long we had bought our first house and we really did feel content for the first time in our lives. We had bought an older house that needed a lot of work so we began renovating it. While doing this we had started on the road to Australia. Any money made from the house would fund our Australian adventure. I had changed my job and i was also working for myself. After five years of planning our visas arrived. Financially for once we were pretty well off. People thought it was mad and that we would never go through with it. Well the rest is history and can be read in any of our updates if you want to search for them.
Anyone who knows us will know that Pauline deserves more than a medal for putting up with my pish this long.
So tomorrow I will turn to Pauline just like I did to that wee lassie at the altar and think.......... What will life hold for us?
Only this time I won’t be scared!
I consider myself very lucky; I can look back at all our hardships and know they are part of our growth. It has made us stronger, more determined and what we are today. We have 3 fantastic young adults that we love to bits and we are very happy.
We you have someone as strong as Pauline by your side you know you can achieve everything.
LOVE is not a strong enough word to describe how I feel about her.
She is my rock and my soul mate.
Pauline, when you read this, and I know you will (because you’re nosey) can I just say thanks for the last 25 years of laughs, good, hard times, my kids and you.
I LOVE YOU
123
Feb 9th 2009, 11:46 pm
#2
Gutter Gob!!
Joined: Feb 2005
Location: Perth
Posts: 13,098
Re: 25 YEARS
Aww, that brought a tear to my eye . She is one lucky woman Soapy to have you 
. She is one lucky woman Soapy to have you
Feb 9th 2009, 11:50 pm
#3
happy to be here!
Joined: Aug 2003
Location: Ellenbrook, WA
Posts: 2,732
Re: 25 YEARS
Awww, congratulations
Here's to the next 25
Here's to the next 25
Feb 9th 2009, 11:54 pm
#4
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Re: 25 YEARS
Some people won the VC for less,you are a lucky man Soaps,mind you ahem ALL nurses are heroes
Feb 10th 2009, 12:08 am
#5
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Joined: Feb 2004
Posts: 22,198
Re: 25 YEARS
25 Years ago tomorrow I remember standing next to Pauline, we were both standing at the altar and I was shit scared. What would life hold for us?
It was in the 80? And the future looked dismal to say the least.
People were out of work everywhere and it didn’t look like it was going to get any better.
Most of my friend had never worked after leaving school and no sign of ever doing so.
Being so young most people said it would never last.
After a few weeks we managed to get our first rental. It was a shithole but we made it home as best we could. Our first was born and we struggled finically for a long time. But we were happy!
After a year or so we managed to get our first council house. Then came our second child. A few years later we had our third.
We always felt we were fighting to survive.
Pauline had always wanted to go and get a better education; she felt she had missed out on marrying and having the kids so young. She could see that we would be stuck in the same place forever if something didn’t change. I thought I was doing the right thing and working my arse off to keep us all going.
After about 10 years of marriage we managed to get our first holiday together. Family and friends looked after the kids while we both went off to find each other. It was an eye opener for both of us, because we wondered if spending a couple of weeks together without kids or work to distract us we might not even like each other.
We had a great time and really found the reason why we were still together. Not only did we love each other, but we still liked each other. The holiday was exactly what we both needed. We both came back with a better outlook to our lives.
Pauline had nagged me for years for her to train as a midwife. I couldn’t see how it would work, because someone had to look after the kids. She came up with a plan for our future.
I would give up work and she would train. That meant I was to become a househusband!
To be very honest we had nothing to lose. My job was going nowhere and the money was pish, so I gave in.
It was tough and when i say tough. I mean it was the poorest we had ever been. It was a struggle to feed us all at times and paying bills was a killer, but we struggled through. Pauline had a goal and she was determined to finish it. It meant she had to do other work while training to feed us. At times this was taking its toll on Pauline. Trying to study and work 12 hour shifts was really hard on her.
After four years of training she finally passed all her exams and graduated. Now all she needed was a job. She had to sweat it out for a few months.
There’s only a few times in our life when I have sat and thought “what the fk have we done”
Pauline had had an interview and was waiting to hear back. They told her she would hear by 6 that day. The council had been chasing us for rent. So the deal was. We could only pick up the phone if it was the hospital for Pauline. Thank gawd for caller display lol
The phone rang and it was the hospital to tell Pauline she had the job. 5 mins later the council called and we told them they would be getting the rent in a month lol. That’s how hard it was for us. After about 2 years we had cleared all our debt and the future looked rosy. The kids were a bit older and i could go back to work. Before too long we had bought our first house and we really did feel content for the first time in our lives. We had bought an older house that needed a lot of work so we began renovating it. While doing this we had started on the road to Australia. Any money made from the house would fund our Australian adventure. I had changed my job and i was also working for myself. After five years of planning our visas arrived. Financially for once we were pretty well off. People thought it was mad and that we would never go through with it. Well the rest is history and can be read in any of our updates if you want to search for them.
Anyone who knows us will know that Pauline deserves more than a medal for putting up with my pish this long.
So tomorrow I will turn to Pauline just like I did to that wee lassie at the altar and think.......... What will life hold for us?
Only this time I won’t be scared!
I consider myself very lucky; I can look back at all our hardships and know they are part of our growth. It has made us stronger, more determined and what we are today. We have 3 fantastic young adults that we love to bits and we are very happy.
We you have someone as strong as Pauline by your side you know you can achieve everything.
LOVE is not a strong enough word to describe how I feel about her.
She is my rock and my soul mate.
Pauline, when you read this, and I know you will (because you’re nosey) can I just say thanks for the last 25 years of laughs, good, hard times, my kids and you.
I LOVE YOU
123
It was in the 80? And the future looked dismal to say the least.
People were out of work everywhere and it didn’t look like it was going to get any better.
Most of my friend had never worked after leaving school and no sign of ever doing so.
Being so young most people said it would never last.
After a few weeks we managed to get our first rental. It was a shithole but we made it home as best we could. Our first was born and we struggled finically for a long time. But we were happy!
After a year or so we managed to get our first council house. Then came our second child. A few years later we had our third.
We always felt we were fighting to survive.
Pauline had always wanted to go and get a better education; she felt she had missed out on marrying and having the kids so young. She could see that we would be stuck in the same place forever if something didn’t change. I thought I was doing the right thing and working my arse off to keep us all going.
After about 10 years of marriage we managed to get our first holiday together. Family and friends looked after the kids while we both went off to find each other. It was an eye opener for both of us, because we wondered if spending a couple of weeks together without kids or work to distract us we might not even like each other.
We had a great time and really found the reason why we were still together. Not only did we love each other, but we still liked each other. The holiday was exactly what we both needed. We both came back with a better outlook to our lives.
Pauline had nagged me for years for her to train as a midwife. I couldn’t see how it would work, because someone had to look after the kids. She came up with a plan for our future.
I would give up work and she would train. That meant I was to become a househusband!
To be very honest we had nothing to lose. My job was going nowhere and the money was pish, so I gave in.
It was tough and when i say tough. I mean it was the poorest we had ever been. It was a struggle to feed us all at times and paying bills was a killer, but we struggled through. Pauline had a goal and she was determined to finish it. It meant she had to do other work while training to feed us. At times this was taking its toll on Pauline. Trying to study and work 12 hour shifts was really hard on her.
After four years of training she finally passed all her exams and graduated. Now all she needed was a job. She had to sweat it out for a few months.
There’s only a few times in our life when I have sat and thought “what the fk have we done”
Pauline had had an interview and was waiting to hear back. They told her she would hear by 6 that day. The council had been chasing us for rent. So the deal was. We could only pick up the phone if it was the hospital for Pauline. Thank gawd for caller display lol
The phone rang and it was the hospital to tell Pauline she had the job. 5 mins later the council called and we told them they would be getting the rent in a month lol. That’s how hard it was for us. After about 2 years we had cleared all our debt and the future looked rosy. The kids were a bit older and i could go back to work. Before too long we had bought our first house and we really did feel content for the first time in our lives. We had bought an older house that needed a lot of work so we began renovating it. While doing this we had started on the road to Australia. Any money made from the house would fund our Australian adventure. I had changed my job and i was also working for myself. After five years of planning our visas arrived. Financially for once we were pretty well off. People thought it was mad and that we would never go through with it. Well the rest is history and can be read in any of our updates if you want to search for them.
Anyone who knows us will know that Pauline deserves more than a medal for putting up with my pish this long.
So tomorrow I will turn to Pauline just like I did to that wee lassie at the altar and think.......... What will life hold for us?
Only this time I won’t be scared!
I consider myself very lucky; I can look back at all our hardships and know they are part of our growth. It has made us stronger, more determined and what we are today. We have 3 fantastic young adults that we love to bits and we are very happy.
We you have someone as strong as Pauline by your side you know you can achieve everything.
LOVE is not a strong enough word to describe how I feel about her.
She is my rock and my soul mate.
Pauline, when you read this, and I know you will (because you’re nosey) can I just say thanks for the last 25 years of laughs, good, hard times, my kids and you.
I LOVE YOU
123
Omg what can I say to this!
Thanks for the last 25 yrs you auld soppy git. Hopefully we can make to 50
now that would be something.Love always Paulinexxxxxxxxxxxxx
Ps aint it just great between updates and this my whole life is on BE
Feb 10th 2009, 12:29 am
#6
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Posts: 4,079
Re: 25 YEARS
Ya big sook
Well Done
Well Done
Feb 10th 2009, 12:32 am
#7
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Joined: Jun 2007
Posts: 3,821
Re: 25 YEARS
how lovely! xxxEm x
Feb 10th 2009, 4:01 am
#8
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Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 1,672
Re: 25 YEARS
Blimey, this has brought tears to my eyes
You are both lucky people to have each other
Heres to another 25 years
Jacqui
You are both lucky people to have each other
Heres to another 25 years
Jacqui
Feb 10th 2009, 4:06 am
#9
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Re: 25 YEARS
Mmmm me still thinks the soapster is looking to buy some 'boys toy' real soon and is piling up the brownie points
,be careful Pauline
,be careful Pauline
Feb 10th 2009, 4:15 am
#10
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Joined: Nov 2005
Location: at the bottom of a wine glass
Posts: 28,176
Re: 25 YEARS
OK, what have you done with the real Soapy?
Happy Anniversary to you both
Happy Anniversary to you both
Feb 10th 2009, 4:22 am
#11
Freedom!
Joined: Nov 2004
Location: At home in Sydney. Ye!!!!
Posts: 1,697
Re: 25 YEARS
Congratualtions to you both.
Feb 10th 2009, 4:27 am
#12
Lost in BE Cyberspace
Joined: Mar 2008
Location: Sydney, NSW
Posts: 7,580
Re: 25 YEARS
Happy silver anniversary!!!!
Looking forward to mine in a few years- won't get a tribute that good tho'
Looking forward to mine in a few years- won't get a tribute that good tho'
Feb 10th 2009, 5:34 am
#13
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Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 65,493
Re: 25 YEARS
Congrats guys, Hope you have even more fun in the next 25
Feb 10th 2009, 7:01 am
#14
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Posts: 794
Re: 25 YEARS
That was lovely Soapy.
It sounds a lot like our lives except that I'm still studying and we're still waiting for the bit where we're financially flush, but hey you've got five years on us. Congratulations. So glad you can look back on it all with pride.
It sounds a lot like our lives except that I'm still studying and we're still waiting for the bit where we're financially flush, but hey you've got five years on us. Congratulations. So glad you can look back on it all with pride.
Feb 10th 2009, 7:53 am
#15
Still alive
Joined: Jan 2006
Posts: 28,994
Re: 25 YEARS
That was a really beautiful read, Soapy. Congratulations on finding the right person all those years ago.