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ElizabethK Apr 27th 2013 3:10 pm

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One of the many things I love about the UK is that going for a walk seems so natural and not a "have to do" activity. Whether it's walking to the shops for a loaf or rambling through the countryside, it's just more enjoyable and rewarding. You're very lucky Whofan to have the gorgeous scenery where you are :)
Here, the only walking I do is around the block with the dog. If I wanted to nip to the shops it would involve a minimum of 3 miles, busy traffic and no pavements. . .in fact I have done it in the past just for something to do and a few people stopped to ask if I was okay and needed a lift ! Walking here, most folk think your car has broken down as it's just not the norm to see anyone on foot.

I've also found when I've been on my hols in England that because of all the walking, I lose weight despite eating loads of chips and chocolate :)

Oohh I can't wait until I'm living there too

MissBetty Apr 27th 2013 3:22 pm

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You've really hit the nail on the head there! I used to walk everywhere in the UK and, like you said, never even gave it a second thought. I used to go for a run or cycle down to the pier most mornings and as for shopping? Just used to sling my backpack on and walk along the seafront into town to get what I needed or take a stroll around the market. I used to stroll down to pick up my fresh fish, newspaper or fresh bread most days too - as you said just totally natural!

Here the sun shines every day but it's too hot and humid to walk anywhere unless you get up at the crack of dawn, I don't enjoy walking here due to that and also having to watch out for bloody snakes as well!

When I was at home I ate whatever I wanted and I was always around a British size 10 now I'm pushing a size 14 and it makes me so miserable! I'm hoping the weight will come off once I'm home again and back into my normal routine!!!:fingerscrossed:

Hope you get back soon, I've got 29 days to go now - tick tock tick tock!!!

WhoFan63 Apr 27th 2013 10:22 pm

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Originally Posted by MissBetty (Post 10681408)
Another fab video, aww the lambs were so cute baa baa baa!!!! You are going to be super fit in no time with all that walking and climbing!

Last time I was home I went for a trek around the fields with my Mum, I love walking in the UK but I just find it too hot here so I'm not as fit as I used to be. Mum was strides ahead of me chatting away happily, I was red faced and puffing behind her and she was just laughing at me, she is 66 years old - oh the shame lol! :rofl::rofl::rofl:

I know how you feel.. I see all these walkers and cyclists going up the hill like there's nothing too it and there I am struggling to take one foot at a time..:rofl: One of these days I am going to do a Rocky impersonation and get to the top of the hill without being out of breath. :rofl::thumbsup: Luckily for now I don't walk with anyone because I can't walk, talk and remember to breathe at the same time.:rofl:

WhoFan63 Apr 27th 2013 10:27 pm

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Originally Posted by ElizabethK (Post 10681534)
One of the many things I love about the UK is that going for a walk seems so natural and not a "have to do" activity. Whether it's walking to the shops for a loaf or rambling through the countryside, it's just more enjoyable and rewarding. You're very lucky Whofan to have the gorgeous scenery where you are :)
Here, the only walking I do is around the block with the dog. If I wanted to nip to the shops it would involve a minimum of 3 miles, busy traffic and no pavements. . .in fact I have done it in the past just for something to do and a few people stopped to ask if I was okay and needed a lift ! Walking here, most folk think your car has broken down as it's just not the norm to see anyone on foot.

I've also found when I've been on my hols in England that because of all the walking, I lose weight despite eating loads of chips and chocolate :)

Oohh I can't wait until I'm living there too


I found that too living in the US. People would stare at me as though the sight of someone walking was just too weird..:rofl: Where I was in AZ having a car is a necessity because there was no local bus service so you either have to drive yourself or walk and in the AZ heat that isn't advisable. It wouldn't have been the first time I walked in the door looking like a cooked lobster, sweating profusely and feeling like I was about to have a cardiac arrest..:rofl:

But here it's so normal and I see people out walking their dogs every day. If I want to go to the bigger shops in Greenfield it's either catch the bus, or else walk the 2 miles along the canal, which is such a beautiful walk I like doing that as often as I can.:thumbsup: There are often places where there are no pavements, but you just stand to one side to let the odd car go past and they always wave their thanks at you as you go past. It's wonderful ! :thumbsup:

WhoFan63 Apr 27th 2013 10:32 pm

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Originally Posted by MissBetty (Post 10681537)
You've really hit the nail on the head there! I used to walk everywhere in the UK and, like you said, never even gave it a second thought. I used to go for a run or cycle down to the pier most mornings and as for shopping? Just used to sling my backpack on and walk along the seafront into town to get what I needed or take a stroll around the market. I used to stroll down to pick up my fresh fish, newspaper or fresh bread most days too - as you said just totally natural!

Here the sun shines every day but it's too hot and humid to walk anywhere unless you get up at the crack of dawn, I don't enjoy walking here due to that and also having to watch out for bloody snakes as well!

When I was at home I ate whatever I wanted and I was always around a British size 10 now I'm pushing a size 14 and it makes me so miserable! I'm hoping the weight will come off once I'm home again and back into my normal routine!!!:fingerscrossed:

Hope you get back soon, I've got 29 days to go now - tick tock tick tock!!!


I agree too.. I just sling my backpack on and off I go... :) I gained so much weight in AZ that now I'm lucky if I can get into a UK size 20 :( :eek: I barely ate because it was too hot to eat and yet I couldn't lose weight to save my life.. :rofl: I've done so much more walking since I've been back and I love every second of it. I think that once the weather picks up a bit where it's not raining every day I'll get out even more, although the rain hasn't even stopped me.. :rofl::rofl: I'd be ecstatic to be a UK size 14 lol

Perth Apr 27th 2013 10:45 pm

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Originally Posted by MissBetty (Post 10681537)
You've really hit the nail on the head there! I used to walk everywhere in the UK and, like you said, never even gave it a second thought. I used to go for a run or cycle down to the pier most mornings and as for shopping? Just used to sling my backpack on and walk along the seafront into town to get what I needed or take a stroll around the market. I used to stroll down to pick up my fresh fish, newspaper or fresh bread most days too - as you said just totally natural!

Here the sun shines every day but it's too hot and humid to walk anywhere unless you get up at the crack of dawn, I don't enjoy walking here due to that and also having to watch out for bloody snakes as well!

When I was at home I ate whatever I wanted and I was always around a British size 10 now I'm pushing a size 14 and it makes me so miserable! I'm hoping the weight will come off once I'm home again and back into my normal routine!!!:fingerscrossed:

Hope you get back soon, I've got 29 days to go now - tick tock tick tock!!!

If I am not out the door by 7am (and we are not even May yet) and walking the dog, it is no longer possible to do so for the rest of the day. Even then, after a hours walk I am drenched in sweat. In the summer, I need to be out there by 6am. I love it on those rare days when it's overcast and there is maybe less humidity.

MissBetty Apr 27th 2013 10:46 pm

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Originally Posted by WhoFan63 (Post 10681877)
I agree too.. I just sling my backpack on and off I go... :) I gained so much weight in AZ that now I'm lucky if I can get into a UK size 20 :( :eek: I barely ate because it was too hot to eat and yet I couldn't lose weight to save my life.. :rofl: I've done so much more walking since I've been back and I love every second of it. I think that once the weather picks up a bit where it's not raining every day I'll get out even more, although the rain hasn't even stopped me.. :rofl::rofl: I'd be ecstatic to be a UK size 14 lol

I did chuckle at that last bit but I seem to think you are quite tall?? I'm tiny, barely 5ft 1" in my bare feet so size 14 is big for me. I've never been a skinny minnie and I've always been happy with my curves but now I feel flabby, unfit and tired all the time - it's so yuk! I can't get into hardly any of my clothes either lol!

I know what you mean about eating, I don't eat much but I'm still chunky as! I truly think it all comes down to exercise at the end of the day. I'm sure the weight will fall off you and your fitness will improve with all that walking you are doing also I believe being happy helps too! I'm looking forward to my walks - the seafront, Alexandra Park and the East and West Hills near my house - hanging out for some nice walks but for now I'll just have to enjoy your lovely videos!!!

WhoFan63 Apr 27th 2013 10:57 pm

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Originally Posted by MissBetty (Post 10681894)
I did chuckle at that last bit but I seem to think you are quite tall?? I'm tiny, barely 5ft 1" in my bare feet so size 14 is big for me. I've never been a skinny minnie and I've always been happy with my curves but now I feel flabby, unfit and tired all the time - it's so yuk! I can't get into hardly any of my clothes either lol!

I know what you mean about eating, I don't eat much but I'm still chunky as! I truly think it all comes down to exercise at the end of the day. I'm sure the weight will fall off you and your fitness will improve with all that walking you are doing also I believe being happy helps too! I'm looking forward to my walks - the seafront, Alexandra Park and the East and West Hills near my house - hanging out for some nice walks but for now I'll just have to enjoy your lovely videos!!!

Nope I'm a shorty too...only 5ft 5 :rofl: So now I'm going to have to go buy some 'interview' clothes and make myself look smart because I've got nothing decent that fits anymore. :( I brought my one good pair of 'skinny' jeans which I can't get into but I'm holding onto them so that when they FIT, then I know I've lost weight. :rofl::rofl:

MissBetty Apr 27th 2013 11:01 pm

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Originally Posted by perthhomeschool (Post 10681893)
If I am not out the door by 7am (and we are not even May yet) and walking the dog, it is no longer possible to do so for the rest of the day. Even then, after a hours walk I am drenched in sweat. In the summer, I need to be out there by 6am. I love it on those rare days when it's overcast and there is maybe less humidity.

Yes it's the humidity that kills me along with the heat and I'm just so knackered all the time! I can't even blame my shift work as it's never affected me like this before even when I used to drive an hour and half to work, do a 12 hour shift then drive home again! I've just got no energy despite all my best efforts re rest, good food and vitamins - I need a cooler climate and some nice long walks lol!

MissBetty Apr 27th 2013 11:05 pm

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Originally Posted by WhoFan63 (Post 10681907)
Nope I'm a shorty too...only 5ft 5 :rofl: So now I'm going to have to go buy some 'interview' clothes and make myself look smart because I've got nothing decent that fits anymore. :( I brought my one good pair of 'skinny' jeans which I can't get into but I'm holding onto them so that when they FIT, then I know I've lost weight. :rofl::rofl:

That's tall to me lol!!! There is a lady on here, Quoll, who lost three stone once she moved back from Oz to the UK and she does a lot of walking so hang onto those skinny jeans, you'll be back in them before you know it! :thumbsup:

Perth Apr 28th 2013 12:20 am

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Originally Posted by MissBetty (Post 10681914)
Yes it's the humidity that kills me along with the heat and I'm just so knackered all the time! I can't even blame my shift work as it's never affected me like this before even when I used to drive an hour and half to work, do a 12 hour shift then drive home again! I've just got no energy despite all my best efforts re rest, good food and vitamins - I need a cooler climate and some nice long walks lol!

I'm just back from the one hour drench. Yuck. Time for a nice cuppa. Yes, it will be nice to walk in the cooler weather, heck even in the rain :)

Oh, and I played the lottery for the first time yesterday and I won $25 (with a $5 investment). I could get used to this. Just have to be careful not to fritter away my going back home fund :rofl:

WhoFan63 Apr 28th 2013 12:42 am

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Originally Posted by MissBetty (Post 10681919)
That's tall to me lol!!! There is a lady on here, Quoll, who lost three stone once she moved back from Oz to the UK and she does a lot of walking so hang onto those skinny jeans, you'll be back in them before you know it! :thumbsup:

Just got back from another hour long walk up hill and down dale through fields filled with sheep. I had a convoy of lambs following me because they though I had food lol. I can already feel a difference in my legs and the 'fat' jeans I wear now lol. The legs are baggy :rofl: so I must be heading in the right direction :) will need to get a set of scales lol. It's overcast and cold but perfect for walking. Rosy cheeks and its not from the heat for a change :thumbsup: Time for a cuppa and put a load of washing on lol

WhoFan63 Apr 28th 2013 12:44 am

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Originally Posted by perthhomeschool (Post 10682006)
I'm just back from the one hour drench. Yuck. Time for a nice cuppa. Yes, it will be nice to walk in the cooler weather, heck even in the rain :)

Oh, and I played the lottery for the first time yesterday and I won $25 (with a $5 investment). I could get used to this. Just have to be careful not to fritter away my going back home fund :rofl:

Congrats on the lottery win love :) every little bit helps right? Just allocate so much per week to buy lottery tickets and you'll be fine :thumbsup:

Walking in cooler weather and yes, even the rain is so invigorating. I love walking so much more now :)

MissBetty Apr 28th 2013 12:49 am

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Originally Posted by perthhomeschool (Post 10682006)
I'm just back from the one hour drench. Yuck. Time for a nice cuppa. Yes, it will be nice to walk in the cooler weather, heck even in the rain :)

Oh, and I played the lottery for the first time yesterday and I won $25 (with a $5 investment). I could get used to this. Just have to be careful not to fritter away my going back home fund :rofl:

Hot and stormy here all week - bah!!! Well done on the lottery win, I bought one for fun this week and forgot about it until now - will go check tomorrow! If I won a huge amount I'd buy a massive place in the UK, convert it to nice flats and rent them out at a reasonable price to returning expats! I seriously think there's a gap in the market there just waiting to be filled!!!

jemima55 Apr 28th 2013 2:34 am

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Whofan, re the weight thang. Have you had your thyroid checked? It is a blood test and low levels can result in weight gain. It's the drum I bang with everybody since I found out mine was hardly functioning. Apparently "women of a certain age" are prone to it! I joined a gym about six weeks ago and have only managed to gain weight! Pathetic!
Must admit I am not quite on a regime of healthy walks, but have done some hefty gardening. More power to you! I know what you mean about walking alone as you can't walk and talk at the same time, me too!

Mummy in the foothills Apr 28th 2013 2:48 am

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Originally Posted by WhoFan63 (Post 10681877)
I agree too.. I just sling my backpack on and off I go... :) I gained so much weight in AZ that now I'm lucky if I can get into a UK size 20 :( :eek: I barely ate because it was too hot to eat and yet I couldn't lose weight to save my life.. :rofl: I've done so much more walking since I've been back and I love every second of it. I think that once the weather picks up a bit where it's not raining every day I'll get out even more, although the rain hasn't even stopped me.. :rofl::rofl: I'd be ecstatic to be a UK size 14 lol

Th amount of walking you are doing I wouldn't be surprised if you are on the hunt for smaller clothes in no time.
I've been losing weight here and need to go and find all new warm weather pants/trousers (got to start talking properly :lol:) I thought of saving a few of my favorites to ship with me in case I gain again in UK from all the pork pies and sausage rolls, but maybe I won't bother.

Perth Apr 28th 2013 2:53 am

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Originally Posted by MissBetty (Post 10682047)
Hot and stormy here all week - bah!!! Well done on the lottery win, I bought one for fun this week and forgot about it until now - will go check tomorrow! If I won a huge amount I'd buy a massive place in the UK, convert it to nice flats and rent them out at a reasonable price to returning expats! I seriously think there's a gap in the market there just waiting to be filled!!!

Oooh, I'll take one! We had a thread about this a couple of years back but no one had the money to make it a reality.

Perth Apr 28th 2013 2:55 am

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Originally Posted by WhoFan63 (Post 10682033)
Just got back from another hour long walk up hill and down dale through fields filled with sheep. I had a convoy of lambs following me because they though I had food lol. I can already feel a difference in my legs and the 'fat' jeans I wear now lol. The legs are baggy :rofl: so I must be heading in the right direction :) will need to get a set of scales lol. It's overcast and cold but perfect for walking. Rosy cheeks and its not from the heat for a change :thumbsup: Time for a cuppa and put a load of washing on lol

Oh fab. How funny about the lambs. I guess the moms must be getting used to you now. Do you feel like the Pied Piper of Hamlin? :rofl:

Good for you losing weight already :thumbsup: Make sure to celebrate at the chippy :rofl:

Perth Apr 28th 2013 2:56 am

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Originally Posted by Mummy in the foothills (Post 10682149)
Th amount of walking you are doing I wouldn't be surprised if you are on the hunt for smaller clothes in no time.
I've been losing weight here and need to go and find all new warm weather pants/trousers (got to start talking properly :lol:) I thought of saving a few of my favorites to ship with me in case I gain again in UK from all the pork pies and sausage rolls, but maybe I won't bother.

and spell properly too :lol:

morayeel Apr 28th 2013 4:30 am

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Originally Posted by MissBetty (Post 10682047)
Hot and stormy here all week - bah!!! Well done on the lottery win, I bought one for fun this week and forgot about it until now - will go check tomorrow! If I won a huge amount I'd buy a massive place in the UK, convert it to nice flats and rent them out at a reasonable price to returning expats! I seriously think there's a gap in the market there just waiting to be filled!!!

I was just saying this the other day to my sister who lives in Scotland. If there was a way to buy a property and rent out rooms to returning expats at a reasonable cost, no credit check and all that, plus accept returning pets I think it would be FANTASTIC. Glad you are enjoying all your walks. Like others have said, here in Mississippi, too many snakes for wooded walks, plus you have to drive quite a few miles to get to the trails. Right now it isn't too hot and humid but it wont be long, that's why I have been walking my dogs at every opportunity. I loved when I was back seeing all the people walking their dogs. Here a majority of people get a dog and chain and a dog igloo (if they're lucky) and leave them out in the yard all year long:confused:It's sickening. I have called the humane society on a couple of my neighbors because they had 2 puppies tied out in the hot summer, no shade and no water. I knocked on the ladies door and explained what I was going to do if she didn't remedy the situation. I even gave her bowls and collars as the dogs collars were way too tight. I tried to be helpful but she didn't seem to care and finally her dogs were taken off her. I can understand you not wanting to eat lamb anymore. I watched a documentary on Netflix called "vedjucated" spelling probably wrong and I haven't eaten meat since! It's only been 2 weeks but I am trying to stick with being vegan after watching the way the animals are treated. Well anyway. I am rambling but just happy to hear you are enjoying yourself and good luck with the habitual residency and the job search..:)

Celticspirit Apr 28th 2013 11:46 am

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Originally Posted by perthhomeschool (Post 10681893)
If I am not out the door by 7am (and we are not even May yet) and walking the dog, it is no longer possible to do so for the rest of the day. Even then, after a hours walk I am drenched in sweat. In the summer, I need to be out there by 6am. I love it on those rare days when it's overcast and there is maybe less humidity.

Same here in Texas.....walkies before 7.30 am but now we have already had West Nile Virus mosquitos detected in the area so long sleeves and pants and bug spray. This is an insane way to live :(

janine74 Apr 28th 2013 1:53 pm

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Originally Posted by WhoFan63 (Post 10672441)
Well here's a further update! :) I just happened to finally catch Mrs J (I'll call my landlady that for her privacy..lol) and mentioned to her about the possibility of me staying longer term. That's when she apologised for the flat not being available but as he was a friend they felt sorry for him and didn't want to turn him away! So I told her that I totally understood and would have done the same.

Anyway, I asked what would be the possibility of getting a reduced rate for just the room and not the breakfast, and I could take care of that for myself. She said "I can't see why not - let me talk it over with Mr B and see what we can do'. She went on to say they can even have a microwave put in the room for me so I can actually have warm meals at night :D

So we had a good chat, and now it's up to the pair of them. I'll just have to wait and see what they offer. :):thumbsup:

I've had a brilliant day today! I went out early this morning to visit a friend in Mossley, which was two buses and a train to get there. Not as bad as it sounds as it's a 10min bus ride for the first trip...the train only needs to go one stop and then the next bus takes less than 5 minutes, so it's not as though I were travelling for hours. LOL It's just a matter of co-ordination. :rofl:

Even though the sky was filled with rain clouds I'm pleased to say that I actually did the entire trip without getting wet. LOL. Once again I had fun chatting to people at the bus stop and even the bus driver dropped me off closer to the street I have to walk up to get to the B&B, rather than drop me off at the actual stop and have me walk up a slight hill. He said "its not much - but better than walking up the hill' :thumbsup: We even had a joke, because I'm always the last one left on the bus and he said 'are you on the right bus love?'. Yes I replied. He went on to tell me that some people get on the bus without looking at the front to see where the bus is going and there are two buses with the same number. One terminates at Diggle and other goes through to Huddersfield. So apparently he gets people getting on the bus for Huddersfield and then looking surprised when they end up in Diggle, and vice versa!

So that was my day ! I got to learn some new areas, new buses and caught the train for the first time. :) I've done it once, so next time won't be a problem. I'm good that way - once I learn how to get to a certain place I don't need directions after that. LOL

Oh and I'm having a friend back in AZ pop into the local Wells Fargo and tell them about their £20 notes. They'd given me over £220 in old notes, which I only found out recently are no longer legal tender so they can't be used. Luckily I went into the Bank of Scotland (first bank I came to) and they changed them over for me. The lady at the bank was super nice and said that normally they ask that the person have a bank account with them, as they put the money in the bank and then they have to draw it out again, but she just looked around the bank and said 'Shhh, don't tell anyone' :rofl:

I'm now back in my room, large cup of tea in my hand and a couple of Jammy Dodgers and I'm ready for the night's TV viewing :) How was everyone else's day??

thanks for the update on the 20 pound notes i just changed a bunch of money over i will take a look thru it! jammie dodgers!!! yesssss!!!! i do not like the toffee ones tho!:p:

janine74 Apr 28th 2013 2:05 pm

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Originally Posted by WhoFan63 (Post 10677840)
Well today I registered with a GP, so now that has the NHS number all sorted out. I should get that within a couple of weeks they said. :) Tomorrow when I go to the job centre they'll help with my NI number, so that will be another thing to cross off my TO DO list. I've opened a bank account and I'm just waiting for some paperwork to arrive so I can transfer my Australian drivers license over to a UK one.

It was so funny at the GP this morning. I filled out all the paperwork and they said I'll get a call about doing a health assessment (standard for new patients). I went in to see the nurse practitioner (just because I wanted to have something checked out while i was there) and when I left I went back to reception and asked if there was a charge. She smiled at me and said ' You're British..so there's no charge'. :thumbsup: Try doing THAT in the US..lol.

I'm looking out my window right now and the fog has come down over the hills and I'm waiting for the kettle to boil so I can make a cup of Yorkshire Tea :D I have a packet of Jaffa Cakes ready too! :rofl: I can't print out my CV so I've loaded it onto a memory stick for tomorrow just in case they are able to access it. I've gone through it all and amended the spelling because it's so 'American' :rofl::rofl:

I'm looking forward to going to the job centre tomorrow because I know that once I meet my advisor they're going to be able to help me out and point me in the right direction. :)

So that's my update for today. lol

i cant wait for that NO CHARGE!!!!!! i am loving reading all this!!! i PMd you!

LancashireGirl8 Apr 28th 2013 8:20 pm

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Just got back from another hour long walk up hill and down dale through fields filled with sheep. I had a convoy of lambs following me because they though I had food lol. I can already feel a difference in my legs and the 'fat' jeans I wear now lol. The legs are baggy so I must be heading in the right direction will need to get a set of scales lol. It's overcast and cold but perfect for walking. Rosy cheeks and its not from the heat for a change Time for a cuppa and put a load of washing on lol
Wonderful to hear about your first few weeks at home! I'm so pleased it's going well, and you sound so happy to be home.

I'm planning my move back and i'm super excited.

LOVE your videos too.

Welcome home! :-)

WhoFan63 Apr 29th 2013 2:09 am

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:rofl:Today I decided to be adventerous and took a bus trip into Manchester..lol It only took an hour which wasn't bad at all...although I got totally lost.:rofl: Especially trying to find out where to catch the bus to come back.:eek: But I managed it ! Yay me !!!! Walked around until my feet hurt and then took a walk up to the train station to watch the choo-choo's going to exciting places...lol. Would love to take a little day trip somewhere, but not right now..priorities.. :) What a way to lose 6 hours of your day..:rofl:

WhoFan63 Apr 29th 2013 2:13 am

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Originally Posted by LancashireGirl8 (Post 10683086)
Wonderful to hear about your first few weeks at home! I'm so pleased it's going well, and you sound so happy to be home.

I'm planning my move back and i'm super excited.

LOVE your videos too.

Welcome home! :-)

Thanks love..hard to believe I've only been back two weeks on Wednesday. :eek: I must admit I'm loving where I'm staying right now..and it's hard to even consider being somewhere else...but after venturing out and about quite a bit I know the places I definitely do NOT want to live..:rofl::rofl:

WhoFan63 Apr 29th 2013 2:14 am

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Originally Posted by janine74 (Post 10682828)
thanks for the update on the 20 pound notes i just changed a bunch of money over i will take a look thru it! jammie dodgers!!! yesssss!!!! i do not like the toffee ones tho!:p:

Haven't seen any toffee ones, but then again i haven't really been looking. I just stand in the biscuit aisle and my mouth drops open... I'll have one of these, one of these and one of these.. :rofl: Jaffa cakes are my favourites though.:thumbsup:

WhoFan63 Apr 29th 2013 2:15 am

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Originally Posted by Celticspirit (Post 10682709)
Same here in Texas.....walkies before 7.30 am but now we have already had West Nile Virus mosquitos detected in the area so long sleeves and pants and bug spray. This is an insane way to live :(

Gee, you might as well just stay indoors for the rest of your life...:eek::eek: Nope, definitely time to come back to the open countryside...no time limit for walkies and the only reason you'll need long sleeves is when it's cold..lol

WhoFan63 Apr 29th 2013 2:16 am

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Originally Posted by perthhomeschool (Post 10682160)
and spell properly too :lol:

:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::thumbsup:

Irish Guinness Apr 29th 2013 2:46 am

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Originally Posted by WhoFan63 (Post 10683573)
:rofl:Today I decided to be adventerous and took a bus trip into Manchester..lol It only took an hour which wasn't bad at all...although I got totally lost.:rofl: Especially trying to find out where to catch the bus to come back.:eek: But I managed it ! Yay me !!!! Walked around until my feet hurt and then took a walk up to the train station to watch the choo-choo's going to exciting places...lol. Would love to take a little day trip somewhere, but not right now..priorities.. :) What a way to lose 6 hours of your day..:rofl:

What did you think of Manchester ? Would it be easier to find work there,or is it to far for you to travel ? just a thought ;)

WhoFan63 Apr 29th 2013 3:02 am

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Originally Posted by Irish Guinness (Post 10683674)
What did you think of Manchester ? Would it be easier to find work there,or is it to far for you to travel ? just a thought ;)

Manchester was about as I expected, let's just put it that way..:rofl: It wasn't too bad...crowded (but not as crowded as London of course), with a very diverse culture range.. lol I don't think I'd feel comfortable walking around at night though, but that's just me! I've already included central Manchester and the general Manchester area in my job searching..because I'm used to travelling distances to get to work, so an hour bus ride is nothing! It would be a job and for £13 per week I can get unlimited bus journeys so that's not too bad. :thumbsup: According to my advisor at the Job Centre I have to be willing to travel 90 minutes each way for work.

Irish Guinness Apr 29th 2013 3:22 am

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Have to agree there are not many big cities that most women would feel safe walking around at night.not even in Adelaide where I live, and that's more like a big county town.

WhoFan63 Apr 29th 2013 4:25 am

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Originally Posted by Irish Guinness (Post 10683744)
Have to agree there are not many big cities that most women would feel safe walking around at night.not even in Adelaide where I live, and that's more like a big county town.

It's strange you should mention that, because I used to live in Perth and I'd walk around at all hours and not feel worried...and after living in Arizona, although not right in Phoenix and not in the supposed 'bad' areas, yet I'd walk at night there too. It was just a feeling I got while being there today. So if I did end up getting a job there, you can bet I'd be on the first bus home after work and not spend any time hanging around..lol. Of course I'm probably making something of nothing and people probably do it all the time...but maybe not ! :rofl:

fulwood Apr 29th 2013 5:41 am

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WhoFan when you get the time and the money:) look into National Express or bus station. When Preston bus station was up and running I used to be able to take lovely day trips to Durham, and other places. I loved it because you get to see fantastic countryside, huge buses trying to make it down small lanes. Just a thought. It was very inexpensive as well..

Perth Apr 29th 2013 5:50 am

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Originally Posted by WhoFan63 (Post 10683573)
:rofl:Today I decided to be adventerous and took a bus trip into Manchester..lol It only took an hour which wasn't bad at all...although I got totally lost.:rofl: Especially trying to find out where to catch the bus to come back.:eek: But I managed it ! Yay me !!!! Walked around until my feet hurt and then took a walk up to the train station to watch the choo-choo's going to exciting places...lol. Would love to take a little day trip somewhere, but not right now..priorities.. :) What a way to lose 6 hours of your day..:rofl:

Oh very nice! Did you manage to take any pics? There we go, being demanding again, instead of just letting you enjoy your day out :rofl:

WhoFan63 Apr 29th 2013 6:14 am

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Originally Posted by perthhomeschool (Post 10683996)
Oh very nice! Did you manage to take any pics? There we go, being demanding again, instead of just letting you enjoy your day out :rofl:

I know it might sound daft but I didn't want to be seen snapping pics with an expensive camera :rofl: besides it was a spur of the moment decision. I was already in Oldham and don't feel like coming home straight away. It's funny but would you believe I didn't see one person taking pictures lol. It not like London where you see tourists with cameras all over the place lol. But don't worry I will take more pics soon. There is a place in Greenfield that I just have to visit because of the views :)

WhoFan63 Apr 29th 2013 6:17 am

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Originally Posted by fulwood (Post 10683983)
WhoFan when you get the time and the money:) look into National Express or bus station. When Preston bus station was up and running I used to be able to take lovely day trips to Durham, and other places. I loved it because you get to see fantastic countryside, huge buses trying to make it down small lanes. Just a thought. It was very inexpensive as well..

Nice idea. Thanks for that. Something to look into for sure :) I can get anywhere from the train station in Manchester, even London lol. Would be nice to go somewhere for a weekend getaway :)

morayeel Apr 29th 2013 2:26 pm

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just a note about feeling safe. We live in the country, but we just got new neighbors. Last night we told our neighbor nicely that he has to use his own driveway and not ours. He told my husband he was going to "punch him in his face". Sooo now we are a little afraid. He has 2 pit bulls that we asked if he could keep on a leash. Obviously that is too much for him. He lets them run wild. We no longer feel safe with him and his weirdo friends coming over.

WhoFan63 Apr 29th 2013 6:48 pm

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Originally Posted by morayeel (Post 10684518)
just a note about feeling safe. We live in the country, but we just got new neighbors. Last night we told our neighbor nicely that he has to use his own driveway and not ours. He told my husband he was going to "punch him in his face". Sooo now we are a little afraid. He has 2 pit bulls that we asked if he could keep on a leash. Obviously that is too much for him. He lets them run wild. We no longer feel safe with him and his weirdo friends coming over.

That's awful! Plus the more you complain to him, or not necessarily complain, but the more you even ask 'nicely' the more he's likely to be aggressive. You can complain to the local council about his pit bulls because they're classified as a 'dangerous breed', especially if he lets them run wild. It's too bad you can't put a gate or something on your driveway so he has no option but to use his own.. lol

Hopefully he's all talk and no action and likes to act the tough guy, thinking that no-one will challenge him. I wouldn't recommend acting tough with HIM just in case he's the sort that will fight first and ask questions later..but don't let this bully make you feel afraid in your own area. Do what you have to do to protect yourself and if it involves calling the police then so be it. Do you have any big tough looking friends you can call over to go talk to him? Give him a taste of his own medicine???

Hope you get something sorted love...but don't be afraid...don't let him have that much power! He's just a bully!

Mummy in the foothills Apr 30th 2013 2:26 am

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Originally Posted by morayeel (Post 10684518)
just a note about feeling safe. We live in the country, but we just got new neighbors. Last night we told our neighbor nicely that he has to use his own driveway and not ours. He told my husband he was going to "punch him in his face". Sooo now we are a little afraid. He has 2 pit bulls that we asked if he could keep on a leash. Obviously that is too much for him. He lets them run wild. We no longer feel safe with him and his weirdo friends coming over.

Oh no, what a way to ruin a peaceful life. I would call about the dogs running loose.


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