Why did you emigrate? (or are thinking of emigrating?)
#76
Lost in BE Cyberspace
Joined: Dec 2010
Posts: 14,040
Re: Why did you emigrate? (or are thinking of emigrating?)
Edit: and a big wallet
#77
Banned
Joined: Jul 2010
Location: Queensland, Australia
Posts: 1,010
Re: Why did you emigrate? (or are thinking of emigrating?)
There have been lots of posts on here recently talking about the "risk" of emigrating to Australia which set me wondering why people decide to come in the first place. So can we have some posts which answer the following questions.
1. What made you first think about emigrating?
2. When did this happen? (Obviously the drivers are different now to 50-60 years ago!)
3. Did (do) you intend to stay permanently or go back after a few years?
4. Did (do) you know what you are coming to?
5. Do you think you made the right decision?
1. What made you first think about emigrating?
2. When did this happen? (Obviously the drivers are different now to 50-60 years ago!)
3. Did (do) you intend to stay permanently or go back after a few years?
4. Did (do) you know what you are coming to?
5. Do you think you made the right decision?
1 & 2. We felt we were outgrowing New Zealand and needed to broaden our horizons. We'd always enjoyed holidays in Australia but knew they would be so much different to living there.
Australia is often portrayed in a negative light in New Zealand and it was very hard to overcome that conditioning. All the usual stuff about fires, heat, drought, poisonous animals, sharks, rampant crime (all those convict jibes that Aussies often attract) but we started kicking around the idea properly and doing the research.
We knew we wanted to come over as genuine, long term migrants, rather than on special category visas. It took a while and it was hard work but that was worth the effort as we now have citizenship and all of the security and benefits that brings. It felt good to make the commitment too. I wear my Aussie citizenship with pride.
Part of the research was extensive reading of this forum and listening to the stories of people who'd made the move successfully. I recall being particularly inspired by the posts of Ian&Sharon, and Buzzy Bee who'd achieved what we were aspiring to and appeared to be loving it here.
3. Permanently, no plans at all to return.
4. Yes, part of the research was visiting the areas we were interested in, assessing job opportunities, neighbourhoods, schools, climate etc. The sort of things that aren't easy to do when long distances are involved. That doesn't mean there wasn't a degree of culture shock, there was. But we were prepared for it and it quickly passed, but one of the things that took the most effort was getting used to Medicare and private health cover and how the two dovetail together. I think New Zealand's ACC system is simpler but wherever you go you ultimately get what you pay for, and part of that means having more choice. You pays your money.....
5. Yes. Absolutely the right decision and one that I'd make again, and I'd still head for Queensland. Second choice would be WA.
#79
Banned
Joined: Jan 2011
Location: The REAL Utopia.
Posts: 9,910
Re: Why did you emigrate? (or are thinking of emigrating?)
But the weather is the most important thing in the world.....isn't it ?
I agree, what comes across loudest from some is the petty whingeing about things like traffic on the M25 and the weather. Its the infantile culture of affluenza. Its not like some poor refugee/economic migrant who's escaped wartorn desperation and the ravages of poverty in africa to get a job cleaning hotel rooms. Its the infantile I want, i want, I want, ooh will i be better off in Australia scenario. oh no they won't extend my visa poor me whatever will i do, i'll have to return to another wealthy western nation. i've moved to Australia and i don't know if i like it or not. I like the weather (when its not too hot and I can breath without the a/c units being on), but the 5 mile drive to kfc is a killer. i only used to walk 5 minutes up the road for my bucket of chicken.
I love the wide open spaces, but I'm gutted i can't go to France for the weekend anymore...poor me. I love the view from the verandha, but the range at the supermarket isn't as good etc, etc...
I love the wide open spaces, but I'm gutted i can't go to France for the weekend anymore...poor me. I love the view from the verandha, but the range at the supermarket isn't as good etc, etc...
#80
Banned
Joined: Sep 2012
Location: UK now, Australia in 2014
Posts: 1,000
Re: Why did you emigrate? (or are thinking of emigrating?)
In answer to you're original question it is apparent that a significant proportion of people on these blogs are deeply disatisfied and spend a great deal of time justifying their decision to emigrate and inflating their lifestyle.
Its the glass half empty, grass always greener mentality. You only have to read these blogs to realise that most people who have emigrated to Australia, really just needed some decent counselling...They were dissatisfied in the UK and now they are by and large dissatisfied in Australia. Why because they have never dealt with their own feeling of dissatisfaction. P
They blamed their environment, jobs, work/life balance etc etc anything but the rootcause. They have found that they have not escaped the ratrace, just gained a differenet aesthetic covering. As someone quotes on these blogs. Same shit, different bucket...
Its the glass half empty, grass always greener mentality. You only have to read these blogs to realise that most people who have emigrated to Australia, really just needed some decent counselling...They were dissatisfied in the UK and now they are by and large dissatisfied in Australia. Why because they have never dealt with their own feeling of dissatisfaction. P
They blamed their environment, jobs, work/life balance etc etc anything but the rootcause. They have found that they have not escaped the ratrace, just gained a differenet aesthetic covering. As someone quotes on these blogs. Same shit, different bucket...
#81
Re: Why did you emigrate? (or are thinking of emigrating?)
Married an aussie,moved to oz,****ed up,divorced aussie,moved back to UK,presently very happy on Guernsey(except for price of loaf)but i WILL return,you have been warned
#82
Banned
Joined: Jul 2012
Posts: 3,300
Re: Why did you emigrate? (or are thinking of emigrating?)
There are a lot of people who are like this, me I love life in the UK, I'm really happy here, I'm not trying to escape from anything, the UK is a brilliant place to live, I don't expect it to be any better or worse in Australia, but unless I have a huge personality change, I do expect to be happy there, if not I won't moan about it and let it effect my outlook on life and I will just come back to the UK and carry on enjoying my life.
#83
Lost in BE Cyberspace
Joined: Dec 2010
Posts: 14,040
Re: Why did you emigrate? (or are thinking of emigrating?)
Yes I like UK life as well and will be there again one day I hope. There's so much bickering about which country is best the main point is overlooked - and that is how lucky most of us are to be able to choose between two countries so different and diverse in so many ways, as are Britain and Australia, and both are excellent places to live, all in all. Arguing about the price of lettuce or petrol is just obsessing on tiny details, frankly, and those with the choice to live in either country (or both) should reflect that the vast majority of people in both nations are stuck in one or the other for ever!
#84
Re: Why did you emigrate? (or are thinking of emigrating?)
1. What made you first think about emigrating?
WHV back in 1996, sister lives here (far north QLD), the surf (came from Cornwall), the weather (grew up in Yorkshire)
2. When did this happen?
2003 landed in Sydney
3. Did (do) you intend to stay permanently or go back after a few years?
Intended to go back and did after 2 years to have children and be near family.....found it too hard to settle back home. Been back here 6 years
4. Did (do) you know what you are coming to?
Saw loads on the working holiday (Cairns - Perth via Alice) and traveled all the east coast in the first year to find our perfect spot (north coast NSW)
5. Do you think you made the right decision?
yep, but still miss lots of things about the UK
Loved the Sydney life when it was just me and the mrs and now the small coastal community life for the kids suits us.
in the future who knows, Citizens now so no pressure. Happier, healthier and finacialy better off here than the UK but we have always said if we won the loto we could very well split out time 50/50 between the two
WHV back in 1996, sister lives here (far north QLD), the surf (came from Cornwall), the weather (grew up in Yorkshire)
2. When did this happen?
2003 landed in Sydney
3. Did (do) you intend to stay permanently or go back after a few years?
Intended to go back and did after 2 years to have children and be near family.....found it too hard to settle back home. Been back here 6 years
4. Did (do) you know what you are coming to?
Saw loads on the working holiday (Cairns - Perth via Alice) and traveled all the east coast in the first year to find our perfect spot (north coast NSW)
5. Do you think you made the right decision?
yep, but still miss lots of things about the UK
Loved the Sydney life when it was just me and the mrs and now the small coastal community life for the kids suits us.
in the future who knows, Citizens now so no pressure. Happier, healthier and finacialy better off here than the UK but we have always said if we won the loto we could very well split out time 50/50 between the two
#85
Banned
Joined: Sep 2012
Location: UK now, Australia in 2014
Posts: 1,000
Re: Why did you emigrate? (or are thinking of emigrating?)
Yes I like UK life as well and will be there again one day I hope. There's so much bickering about which country is best the main point is overlooked - and that is how lucky most of us are to be able to choose between two countries so different and diverse in so many ways, as are Britain and Australia, and both are excellent places to live, all in all. Arguing about the price of lettuce or petrol is just obsessing on tiny details, frankly, and those with the choice to live in either country (or both) should reflect that the vast majority of people in both nations are stuck in one or the other for ever!
I agree totally.
#86
BE Enthusiast
Joined: May 2012
Posts: 312
Re: Why did you emigrate? (or are thinking of emigrating?)
Look I wasn't being serious with my examples just lending a view. I could and have quite happily lived in Australia. For me it wouldn't make sense to move back to Australia at the moment. We're both very settled in London and have good jobs. Having a young baby it make sense having our close family reachable and we have a nice lifestyle here in London and also a home on the south coast. If I moved to australia at this moment in time I'd lose out on the exchange rate and we wouldn't have the family support.
I think people with young families shouldn't estimate how important it is to have your family close. Childcare costs a fortune and isn't quality of life more than anything else about having your friends and family close by?
I think people with young families shouldn't estimate how important it is to have your family close. Childcare costs a fortune and isn't quality of life more than anything else about having your friends and family close by?
#87
Forum Regular
Joined: Mar 2011
Location: ramsgate kent
Posts: 89
Re: Why did you emigrate? (or are thinking of emigrating?)
[QUOTE=Pomster;10289451]1. What made you first think about emigrating?
2. When did this happen?
3. Did (do) you intend to stay permanently or go back after a few years?
4. Did (do) you know what you are coming to?
5. Do you think you made the right decision?
1. Never thought about emigrating- a secondment with work cam up and it seemed worth a punt. I had never even visited Aus.
2. 2000
3. Only planned to stay the 2 years of my original posting, but this stretched to 10 years, PR, citizenship, marriage, a child.... Work eventually recalled me and we decided an 18 month sojourn back to UK would be a good change.
4. 2 years back in UK have now passed and we will be returning at the end of the month....feel ready to return.
5. Nothing needs to be forever and I am glad (for a huge variety of reasons) to have been in UK for 2 years, but we are ready to go back home to
Hi sorry just sent you a private message to see if you were still here, and here you are
2. When did this happen?
3. Did (do) you intend to stay permanently or go back after a few years?
4. Did (do) you know what you are coming to?
5. Do you think you made the right decision?
1. Never thought about emigrating- a secondment with work cam up and it seemed worth a punt. I had never even visited Aus.
2. 2000
3. Only planned to stay the 2 years of my original posting, but this stretched to 10 years, PR, citizenship, marriage, a child.... Work eventually recalled me and we decided an 18 month sojourn back to UK would be a good change.
4. 2 years back in UK have now passed and we will be returning at the end of the month....feel ready to return.
5. Nothing needs to be forever and I am glad (for a huge variety of reasons) to have been in UK for 2 years, but we are ready to go back home to
Hi sorry just sent you a private message to see if you were still here, and here you are
#88
Forum Regular
Joined: Mar 2011
Location: ramsgate kent
Posts: 89
Re: Why did you emigrate? (or are thinking of emigrating?)
1. What made you first think about emigrating?
2. When did this happen?
3. Did (do) you intend to stay permanently or go back after a few years?
4. Did (do) you know what you are coming to?
5. Do you think you made the right decision?
1. Never thought about emigrating- a secondment with work cam up and it seemed worth a punt. I had never even visited Aus.
2. 2000
3. Only planned to stay the 2 years of my original posting, but this stretched to 10 years, PR, citizenship, marriage, a child.... Work eventually recalled me and we decided an 18 month sojourn back to UK would be a good change.
4. 2 years back in UK have now passed and we will be returning at the end of the month....feel ready to return.
5. Nothing needs to be forever and I am glad (for a huge variety of reasons) to have been in UK for 2 years, but we are ready to go back home to Aus.
2. When did this happen?
3. Did (do) you intend to stay permanently or go back after a few years?
4. Did (do) you know what you are coming to?
5. Do you think you made the right decision?
1. Never thought about emigrating- a secondment with work cam up and it seemed worth a punt. I had never even visited Aus.
2. 2000
3. Only planned to stay the 2 years of my original posting, but this stretched to 10 years, PR, citizenship, marriage, a child.... Work eventually recalled me and we decided an 18 month sojourn back to UK would be a good change.
4. 2 years back in UK have now passed and we will be returning at the end of the month....feel ready to return.
5. Nothing needs to be forever and I am glad (for a huge variety of reasons) to have been in UK for 2 years, but we are ready to go back home to Aus.
#89
Banned
Joined: Sep 2012
Location: UK now, Australia in 2014
Posts: 1,000
Re: Why did you emigrate? (or are thinking of emigrating?)
Yes I like UK life as well and will be there again one day I hope. There's so much bickering about which country is best the main point is overlooked - and that is how lucky most of us are to be able to choose between two countries so different and diverse in so many ways, as are Britain and Australia, and both are excellent places to live, all in all. Arguing about the price of lettuce or petrol is just obsessing on tiny details, frankly, and those with the choice to live in either country (or both) should reflect that the vast majority of people in both nations are stuck in one or the other for ever!
Your right mate, some people are just miserable no matter where they live, some post negatives over and over to satisfy some twisted urge inside them, they stick out like sore thumbs, it's funny they are like silly kids in the schoolyard saying, my dads bigger than your dad.
#90
Re: Why did you emigrate? (or are thinking of emigrating?)
For us - 1979, my Aussie husband got an offer he couldn't refuse
We thought it would be just another step and we would move on
We knew what we were going to and had lived in a foreign country before
Was it the right decision? Of course it was, at the time but would I do it again knowing what I know now - nope or at least I would be more proactive in getting what I wanted out of life rather than taking the easy option.
Will I go back to Australia? Very likely but you never know what life has in store for you and I will be working like hell to avoid a move but it is our current compromise situation.