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Old Jan 20th 2006, 5:10 pm
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Life is too bloody short!! You never know what is round the corner!!

Today I found out a friend has cancer she is early 30s and gave birth to her first child at the end of November!! She had been having back ache and stuff throughout pregnancy then last week couldnt stop being sick was taken to hospital and found to have a blockage they operated immediatley and found a tumour which they removed and today found was cancerous , she is going to have chemo and hopefully can be treated!! So fingers crossed all will be fine,

Also this week a young lad from my daughters school was knocked down by a car and is in hospital with a fractured skull!!

This is in no way ment to depress anyone in fact for me it makes me realise how short life can be and how fast our so called great life can change in the flick of a switch!!

So for those who have the doubts am i doing the right thing (me included)
just go for it lifes far too short not to take a chance!!

Be Happy

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Live today as though it was your last!!

Take Care All

Kris xx
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Old Jan 20th 2006, 5:34 pm
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Oh thats awful hope your friend recovers fully.

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Old Jan 20th 2006, 5:34 pm
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Originally Posted by kris maynard
Life is too bloody short!! You never know what is round the corner!!

Today I found out a friend has cancer she is early 30s and gave birth to her first child at the end of November!! She had been having back ache and stuff throughout pregnancy then last week couldnt stop being sick was taken to hospital and found to have a blockage they operated immediatley and found a tumour which they removed and today found was cancerous , she is going to have chemo and hopefully can be treated!! So fingers crossed all will be fine,

Also this week a young lad from my daughters school was knocked down by a car and is in hospital with a fractured skull!!

This is in no way ment to depress anyone in fact for me it makes me realise how short life can be and how fast our so called great life can change in the flick of a switch!!

So for those who have the doubts am i doing the right thing (me included)
just go for it lifes far too short not to take a chance!!

Be Happy

Be mad
Be mental
Live today as though it was your last!!

Take Care All

Kris xx

Hi Kris

How sad about your friend I hope all goes well with her treatment. It is events like this that make you stand still and take stock of life.

I never save my best perfume for a special day I wear it everyday. I always make amends with my loved ones in case I never get to say sorry the next time I see them. I make sure my 'family" are healthy and most importantly "happy". I do think life is too short and try my best to be as happy as I can and to live it the way the suits me..!!!!

Good for you I wish you all the best for Oz....
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what can i say


i hope your friend fully recovers from this

i know what you mean about life being too short

i totally agree live for today

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Originally Posted by kris maynard
Life is too bloody short!! You never know what is round the corner!!

Today I found out a friend has cancer she is early 30s and gave birth to her first child at the end of November!! She had been having back ache and stuff throughout pregnancy then last week couldnt stop being sick was taken to hospital and found to have a blockage they operated immediatley and found a tumour which they removed and today found was cancerous , she is going to have chemo and hopefully can be treated!! So fingers crossed all will be fine,

Also this week a young lad from my daughters school was knocked down by a car and is in hospital with a fractured skull!!

This is in no way ment to depress anyone in fact for me it makes me realise how short life can be and how fast our so called great life can change in the flick of a switch!!

So for those who have the doubts am i doing the right thing (me included)
just go for it lifes far too short not to take a chance!!

Be Happy

Be mad
Be mental
Live today as though it was your last!!

Take Care All

Kris xx
Kris so sorry to hear about your friend, true what you say live every day like your last! Take care
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Old Jan 20th 2006, 7:49 pm
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Originally Posted by kris maynard
Life is too bloody short!! You never know what is round the corner!!

Today I found out a friend has cancer she is early 30s and gave birth to her first child at the end of November!! She had been having back ache and stuff throughout pregnancy then last week couldnt stop being sick was taken to hospital and found to have a blockage they operated immediatley and found a tumour which they removed and today found was cancerous , she is going to have chemo and hopefully can be treated!! So fingers crossed all will be fine,

Also this week a young lad from my daughters school was knocked down by a car and is in hospital with a fractured skull!!

This is in no way ment to depress anyone in fact for me it makes me realise how short life can be and how fast our so called great life can change in the flick of a switch!!

So for those who have the doubts am i doing the right thing (me included)
just go for it lifes far too short not to take a chance!!

Be Happy

Be mad
Be mental
Live today as though it was your last!!

Take Care All

Kris xx
I know exactly what you mean. I'm 30 and I went to school with died just before xmas (her heart!!) That done it for me. As I said to my mum sure I'll miss everyone but at least I won't be living with what if's and if the worst comes to the worst we will always be welcomed home
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Old Jan 21st 2006, 12:25 pm
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Sad stories. Yep, I couldnt agree more. I don't post here that often now as I'm enjoying myself here too much.
For me the fear of "not trying" became greater than the fear of "trying".
We have been here now 13 months and gone through some tough times. If your strong and realistic about your expectations then ther's no reason why you can't get on here. Some people expect it to feel like a permanent holiday. It won't reality kicks in and the mundane chore of work begins again. For me working life is far less stressful and there are some fantastic places to visit during the weekends.
Keep your feet on the ground, be brave, take a deep breath and go for it. Like you said life's too short and whatever happens it will be one thing you wont be asking "what if" when your older.

Good luck,
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Old Jan 21st 2006, 1:07 pm
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Hope your mate gets better soon - you are right we should take more chances in life
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Originally Posted by kris maynard
Life is too bloody short!! You never know what is round the corner!!

Today I found out a friend has cancer she is early 30s and gave birth to her first child at the end of November!! She had been having back ache and stuff throughout pregnancy then last week couldnt stop being sick was taken to hospital and found to have a blockage they operated immediatley and found a tumour which they removed and today found was cancerous , she is going to have chemo and hopefully can be treated!! So fingers crossed all will be fine,

Also this week a young lad from my daughters school was knocked down by a car and is in hospital with a fractured skull!!

This is in no way ment to depress anyone in fact for me it makes me realise how short life can be and how fast our so called great life can change in the flick of a switch!!

So for those who have the doubts am i doing the right thing (me included)
just go for it lifes far too short not to take a chance!!

Be Happy

Be mad
Be mental
Live today as though it was your last!!

Take Care All

Kris xx
Well said couldn't agree with you more.My sympathies go out to the poor people you mentioned.And heres me moaning that I cannot sell the house.Puts it into perspective doesn't it.
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Old Jan 21st 2006, 4:01 pm
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Cheers all , this wasnt ment as a sympathy thread just a stop and just think how quickly your life can change so really make the most of everyday or at least most of them!! for me when awful things happen it kicks me up the ass and shakes me out of the what ifs and negative thoughts we all must have during this process!!

My friend it seems will be fine the doctors arent too concerned at the mo she has to recover from the op then will start chemo in a few months so it all sounds good and she will make a full recovery Big Relief!!

Cheers All
Have a fab weekend

Kris xx
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Originally Posted by kris maynard
Life is too bloody short!! You never know what is round the corner!!

Today I found out a friend has cancer she is early 30s and gave birth to her first child at the end of November!! She had been having back ache and stuff throughout pregnancy then last week couldnt stop being sick was taken to hospital and found to have a blockage they operated immediatley and found a tumour which they removed and today found was cancerous , she is going to have chemo and hopefully can be treated!! So fingers crossed all will be fine,

Also this week a young lad from my daughters school was knocked down by a car and is in hospital with a fractured skull!!

This is in no way ment to depress anyone in fact for me it makes me realise how short life can be and how fast our so called great life can change in the flick of a switch!!

So for those who have the doubts am i doing the right thing (me included)
just go for it lifes far too short not to take a chance!!

Be Happy

Be mad
Be mental
Live today as though it was your last!!

Take Care All

Kris xx

too right! very sad news about your frind kris, i hope treatment will be successful for her.

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Old Jan 21st 2006, 4:23 pm
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too right! very sad news about your frind kris, i hope treatment will be successful for her.

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sorry for your frienf kris, and you're right!
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