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So sorry to hear of your loss. I understand how you are feeling at this moment I have lost 3 close family members this year. My thoughts are with you and your family
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Dear Whisky
Your posts have always been positive and informative - in short you seem a lovely person. I'm so sorry to hear about your loss and my heart goes out to you.
Larissa
Your posts have always been positive and informative - in short you seem a lovely person. I'm so sorry to hear about your loss and my heart goes out to you.
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Dear Whiskey,
So very sorry for your loss. I know it's hard but please try and take some comfort from the fact that she was happy and by the sounds of it lived a good life.
Kind Regards
ACE
So very sorry for your loss. I know it's hard but please try and take some comfort from the fact that she was happy and by the sounds of it lived a good life.
Kind Regards
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Whiskey, so sorry to hear your sad news. We send you our condolences at this sad time
Heather and Matt
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Really sorry about your tragic news. I was reading that article in the paper today- Daily Mail- and thinking to myself how awful it was.
You are right about living for today. You have convinced me further that we are doing the right thing emigrating. I don't want to have any 'what ifs' when I am older.
My thoughts are with you.
You are right about living for today. You have convinced me further that we are doing the right thing emigrating. I don't want to have any 'what ifs' when I am older.
My thoughts are with you.
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Originally posted by whisky
Just want to say, everyone who has their doubts, and their worries, just do what is in your hearts. Life is for living.
I don't know whether you have watched the news this evening about a boat capsizing on the River Severn at Stourport on Severn, killing a woman.
That woman was my cousin.
There is so much I could tell you about her, but at the moment I am totally stunned by it all.
She lived her life, and was very happy, and luckily, I know that she was very happy on this last weekend.
Whisky
Just want to say, everyone who has their doubts, and their worries, just do what is in your hearts. Life is for living.
I don't know whether you have watched the news this evening about a boat capsizing on the River Severn at Stourport on Severn, killing a woman.
That woman was my cousin.
There is so much I could tell you about her, but at the moment I am totally stunned by it all.
She lived her life, and was very happy, and luckily, I know that she was very happy on this last weekend.
Whisky
i am so sorry to hear about your cousin, you are very brave and i am sure that she is looking down on you with admiration
i'm not all that close to my dad but he once said to me along time ago, that 'life is not a dress rehearsal, enjoy every moment of it', it sounds to me that your cousin did just that,
thinking of you
rach & family
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I found this today, and thought you might like to read it.
Follow your Destiny, wherever it leads you.
There comes a time in your life when you realize that if you stand still, you will remain at this point forever. You realize that if you fall and stay down, life will pass you by....
Lifes circumstances are not always what you might wish them to be. The pattern of life does not necessarily go as you plan. Beyond any understanding you may at times be led in different directions that you never imagined, dreamed, or designed. Yet if you had never put any effort into choosing a path, or tried to carry out your dream, then perhaps you would have no direction at all.
Rather than wondering about or questioning the direction your life has taken, accept the fact that there is a path before you now. Shake off the ''Whys'' and the ''What ifs,'' and rid yourself of confusion. Whatever was ~ is in the past. Whatever is ~ is whats important. The past is a brief reflection. The future is yet to be realized. Today is here.
Walk your path one step at a time ~ with courage, faith, and determination. Keep your head up, and cast your dreams to the stars. Soon your steps will become firm, and your footing will be solid again. A path that you never imagined will become the most comfortable direction you could have ever hoped to follow.
Keep your belief in yourself and walk into your new journey. You will find it magnificent, spectacular, and beyond your wildest imaginings.
By Vicki Stevens.
I would like to dedicate this to all of you on expats.
Whisky
Follow your Destiny, wherever it leads you.
There comes a time in your life when you realize that if you stand still, you will remain at this point forever. You realize that if you fall and stay down, life will pass you by....
Lifes circumstances are not always what you might wish them to be. The pattern of life does not necessarily go as you plan. Beyond any understanding you may at times be led in different directions that you never imagined, dreamed, or designed. Yet if you had never put any effort into choosing a path, or tried to carry out your dream, then perhaps you would have no direction at all.
Rather than wondering about or questioning the direction your life has taken, accept the fact that there is a path before you now. Shake off the ''Whys'' and the ''What ifs,'' and rid yourself of confusion. Whatever was ~ is in the past. Whatever is ~ is whats important. The past is a brief reflection. The future is yet to be realized. Today is here.
Walk your path one step at a time ~ with courage, faith, and determination. Keep your head up, and cast your dreams to the stars. Soon your steps will become firm, and your footing will be solid again. A path that you never imagined will become the most comfortable direction you could have ever hoped to follow.
Keep your belief in yourself and walk into your new journey. You will find it magnificent, spectacular, and beyond your wildest imaginings.
By Vicki Stevens.
I would like to dedicate this to all of you on expats.
Whisky
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Thats really lovely, thanks
I'm especially looking forward to this bit
"Soon your steps will become firm, and your footing will be solid again" cos all of this stuff definately shakes you up a bit. Hope you are ok Whisky.................
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I'm especially looking forward to this bit
"Soon your steps will become firm, and your footing will be solid again" cos all of this stuff definately shakes you up a bit. Hope you are ok Whisky.................
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So sorry to hear of your sad loss Whisky. Your posting is beautiful to read and reminds us all of the fragility of life and how we should embrace every new day.
thinking of you, Leigh.
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Originally posted by whisky
I found this today, and thought you might like to read it.
Follow your Destiny, wherever it leads you.
There comes a time in your life when you realize that if you stand still, you will remain at this point forever. You realize that if you fall and stay down, life will pass you by....
Lifes circumstances are not always what you might wish them to be. The pattern of life does not necessarily go as you plan. Beyond any understanding you may at times be led in different directions that you never imagined, dreamed, or designed. Yet if you had never put any effort into choosing a path, or tried to carry out your dream, then perhaps you would have no direction at all.
Rather than wondering about or questioning the direction your life has taken, accept the fact that there is a path before you now. Shake off the ''Whys'' and the ''What ifs,'' and rid yourself of confusion. Whatever was ~ is in the past. Whatever is ~ is whats important. The past is a brief reflection. The future is yet to be realized. Today is here.
Walk your path one step at a time ~ with courage, faith, and determination. Keep your head up, and cast your dreams to the stars. Soon your steps will become firm, and your footing will be solid again. A path that you never imagined will become the most comfortable direction you could have ever hoped to follow.
Keep your belief in yourself and walk into your new journey. You will find it magnificent, spectacular, and beyond your wildest imaginings.
By Vicki Stevens.
I would like to dedicate this to all of you on expats.
Whisky
I found this today, and thought you might like to read it.
Follow your Destiny, wherever it leads you.
There comes a time in your life when you realize that if you stand still, you will remain at this point forever. You realize that if you fall and stay down, life will pass you by....
Lifes circumstances are not always what you might wish them to be. The pattern of life does not necessarily go as you plan. Beyond any understanding you may at times be led in different directions that you never imagined, dreamed, or designed. Yet if you had never put any effort into choosing a path, or tried to carry out your dream, then perhaps you would have no direction at all.
Rather than wondering about or questioning the direction your life has taken, accept the fact that there is a path before you now. Shake off the ''Whys'' and the ''What ifs,'' and rid yourself of confusion. Whatever was ~ is in the past. Whatever is ~ is whats important. The past is a brief reflection. The future is yet to be realized. Today is here.
Walk your path one step at a time ~ with courage, faith, and determination. Keep your head up, and cast your dreams to the stars. Soon your steps will become firm, and your footing will be solid again. A path that you never imagined will become the most comfortable direction you could have ever hoped to follow.
Keep your belief in yourself and walk into your new journey. You will find it magnificent, spectacular, and beyond your wildest imaginings.
By Vicki Stevens.
I would like to dedicate this to all of you on expats.
Whisky
with admiration to you
rach
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Originally posted by whisky
Just want to say, everyone who has their doubts, and their worries, just do what is in your hearts. Life is for living.
I don't know whether you have watched the news this evening about a boat capsizing on the River Severn at Stourport on Severn, killing a woman.
That woman was my cousin.
There is so much I could tell you about her, but at the moment I am totally stunned by it all.
She lived her life, and was very happy, and luckily, I know that she was very happy on this last weekend.
Whisky
Just want to say, everyone who has their doubts, and their worries, just do what is in your hearts. Life is for living.
I don't know whether you have watched the news this evening about a boat capsizing on the River Severn at Stourport on Severn, killing a woman.
That woman was my cousin.
There is so much I could tell you about her, but at the moment I am totally stunned by it all.
She lived her life, and was very happy, and luckily, I know that she was very happy on this last weekend.
Whisky
Sorry to read your post and sad news. You are really having a bad couple of weeks. Hope things pick up.
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