Hevs and HUP update. The godd, the bad, and the ugly.
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Good to have you back Hevs and Hup, you've been missed (and you Badge)
There are plenty of us here that relate to what you've said so dont hesitate to come on and have a moan when its necesary, even the most positive amongst us need that now and then. As for the ""its all going to be perfect''brigade, I think you're doing a great service pointing this stuff out, the closer to reality your expectations are, the less likely you are to be disapointed.
Keep your chins up,
Michaela
There are plenty of us here that relate to what you've said so dont hesitate to come on and have a moan when its necesary, even the most positive amongst us need that now and then. As for the ""its all going to be perfect''brigade, I think you're doing a great service pointing this stuff out, the closer to reality your expectations are, the less likely you are to be disapointed.
Keep your chins up,
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Hevs and Hup...chins up it will get better. Don't be strangers you have alot of friends on here willing to give support...no dollar can beat that !!
You both been missed....
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You both been missed....
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Hevs, Hup and family
thanks for sharing that with us all and being so honest, hope things turn for you all now, remember you have each other and if anyone can succeed you can, everything is sent to try us and we can only grow stronger through it all
Best of luck coming you way
Swifts xx
thanks for sharing that with us all and being so honest, hope things turn for you all now, remember you have each other and if anyone can succeed you can, everything is sent to try us and we can only grow stronger through it all
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Best of luck coming you way
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Hevs/HUP
Hope things work out for you guys soon. Keep posting - this site needs more people who have made the move and will tell it like it is
Hope things work out for you guys soon. Keep posting - this site needs more people who have made the move and will tell it like it is
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Originally posted by mlbonner
In the meantime, if its pommie choccie that you need, just yell, I'm sure we can arrange for some more to be sent over
In the meantime, if its pommie choccie that you need, just yell, I'm sure we can arrange for some more to be sent over
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Ironic, is it not, that when you're busy dodging the sh*t is when you need to forum's support the most but it's also when you're most likely not to have the time to check for it. Welcome back, though.
Hadn't realised dyspraxia was so common (1 in 30, see The Dyspraxia Foundation). I've had more contact with Asperger's myself; complicated thing, the brain.
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OK!!!
enough already, i'm begining to feel like i'm famous or something, move over posh, Hevs has arrived
I've missed you too *group hug* ahhhhh
Badge, i'm honoured that you replied, i only saw you last night and was out with ya missis tonight!! honoured just the same though
A warm and fuzzy Hevsxxx
enough already, i'm begining to feel like i'm famous or something, move over posh, Hevs has arrived
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I've missed you too *group hug* ahhhhh
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Badge, i'm honoured that you replied, i only saw you last night and was out with ya missis tonight!! honoured just the same though
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good to have you guys back posting, it has been a bit dull around here lately and we need you guys.
you too badge, i was just going to send you a PM and then saw your reply in this thread...you must be lurking a lot so START BLOODY POSTING again.
you too badge, i was just going to send you a PM and then saw your reply in this thread...you must be lurking a lot so START BLOODY POSTING again.
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To Hevs and family
just wanted to say that i am thinking of you all, seems like you've had your fair amount of shit and thinks can only look brighter, hang in there buds
love and cyber hugs
Rach, Mark and Chanelle xxxxx
just wanted to say that i am thinking of you all, seems like you've had your fair amount of shit and thinks can only look brighter, hang in there buds
love and cyber hugs
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So...the double H is back in business......and long overdue.
Most bin said above HH but don't forget Rome wasn't built in a day and I suspect 80% of people dislike their jobs.
Not really a consolation but may help dilute it
All the best to you
Most bin said above HH but don't forget Rome wasn't built in a day and I suspect 80% of people dislike their jobs.
Not really a consolation but may help dilute it
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Welcome back H,
I am sure we have all been in this position at sometime or another. We are having a shit money month too. It costs us over £1000 to rent this house with bills a month and it's a strain especially trying to save for the move too. Last month..yippee.
Anyway I digress, you will be fine I am sure someone as resourceful, and articulate, not to mention gsoh will come out smiling!
I am sure we have all been in this position at sometime or another. We are having a shit money month too. It costs us over £1000 to rent this house with bills a month and it's a strain especially trying to save for the move too. Last month..yippee.
Anyway I digress, you will be fine I am sure someone as resourceful, and articulate, not to mention gsoh will come out smiling!
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The Dyspraxia Foundation). I've had more contact with Asperger's myself; complicated thing, the brain.
Keep fighting!
Keep fighting!
The autistic spectrum is:
Dyslexia, dyspraxia, ADD, ADHD, aspergers, Autism.
My son was diagnosed with dyspraxia and mild ADD. I was told that in 90% of cases that it is totally the norm for kids to have a cross over of two or more of the above. eg, he may well go on to be dyslexic too.
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But no one mentioned god damned "eye wiring", is it part of the above? or something new?
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I have had a couple of people send me some fantastic links for stuff overhere. I am truly greatfull and very very touched, thank you so much. xxx
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Originally posted by hevs
The autistic spectrum is:
Dyslexia, dyspraxia, ADD, ADHD, aspergers, Autism.
My son was diagnosed with dyspraxia and mild ADD. I was told that in 90% of cases that it is totally the norm for kids to have a cross over of two or more of the above. eg, he may well go on to be dyslexic too.![EEK!](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/eek.gif)
But no one mentioned god damned "eye wiring", is it part of the above? or something new?
I have had a couple of people send me some fantastic links for stuff overhere. I am truly greatfull and very very touched, thank you so much. xxx
The autistic spectrum is:
Dyslexia, dyspraxia, ADD, ADHD, aspergers, Autism.
My son was diagnosed with dyspraxia and mild ADD. I was told that in 90% of cases that it is totally the norm for kids to have a cross over of two or more of the above. eg, he may well go on to be dyslexic too.
![EEK!](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/eek.gif)
But no one mentioned god damned "eye wiring", is it part of the above? or something new?
![Roll Eyes](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/rolleyes.gif)
I have had a couple of people send me some fantastic links for stuff overhere. I am truly greatfull and very very touched, thank you so much. xxx
Good luck.
PS. Glad to see you back.
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Hi mrs DB, good to see you too
He doesn't have "behavioural problems" He can't sit still for too long is all.
We are off to see a behavioural opthalmist (eye behaviour!!
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He doesn't have "behavioural problems" He can't sit still for too long is all.
We are off to see a behavioural opthalmist (eye behaviour!!
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Ey-up Hevs and HUP...sorry to hear you were feeling blue, money does matter in lots of ways but nothing is as important as family (immediate family, that is! MIL not included!) so hope all takes a turn for the better with the dyspraxia etc.
FWIW we are starting to think that money might be the main reason we put any plans for NZ on ice. Very difficult to earn a good salary out there for us, with big implications for lifestyle.
FWIW we are starting to think that money might be the main reason we put any plans for NZ on ice. Very difficult to earn a good salary out there for us, with big implications for lifestyle.
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