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cranni Nov 20th 2005 6:56 pm

Re: Gutted!
 

Originally Posted by herrchook
I've been trying to pluck up the courage to post this all week, it's only tonight I feel able to. We applied for STNI from Victoria nearly 8 weeks ago, and on Tuesday, despite hubby being on their on demand list, we were rejected!!!

Apparently they rejected something like 70% of their most recent applicants and we were amongst the unlucky ones. They are prepared to look at it again for us if we get a job offer so that's where we're concentraing our efforts right now. However, we're realistic enough to know that the chances of getting something in what is apparently a saturated market without a visa are remote.

We're not giving up, but we are slowly coming to terms with the fact that moving to Oz might not happen.

So how do we feel? We feel broken hearted, like someone's died. I'm angry that we left it too late (by 2 months) to pass the point test, and I'm angry that Victoria say they want people with our skills and then say they think we're "unemployable" when we applied. Mostly, I'm just sad. I've dreamt of this for 14 years and I can't really describe how it feels to be losing it!

I've cried a lot this week, felt pretty depressed too. Had a shopping trip today which helped, but now I'm home and it's all feeling very real again.

I haven't even been able to watch anything Australian on the TV - the kids haven't even been allowed to watch the Wiggles.

I'm not leaving the forum, yet anyway!! We're going to keep trying so that even if we don't get a visa, we'll know we tried our best.

Billy, for obvious reasons, we won't be coming to the meet on the 3rd but I hope you have a great night.

Will let you all know if there's any change. :(

Dont give up it will happen, We had 3 visas went wrong, 1st Auntie and uncle would not sponsor us , after they said they would, they are old and scared.
2nd points went up, so we could not go to Perth.
Then friend said he would sponsor us , job offer, he lost contract, so that went out the window, then we got into Melbourne, government sponsor, hubby a gas fitter. But i really wanted WA. SO we rang round all companies in WA south west, regional and we got a sponsor 2 months later we arrived in Oz, been here nearly 12 months and never looked back. I thought it would never happen, and was ready to give up. chin up, Denise

lacey21 Nov 20th 2005 6:59 pm

Re: Gutted!
 
Wow what resilient people you are, there are some fantastic stories on here how nice it is to know you didn't give up,

hugs to you all Lace xxx

Bordy Nov 20th 2005 8:59 pm

Re: Gutted!
 
Stick in there Herrchook, it will happen.

Karma for your birthday Lacey. :beer:

cranni Nov 20th 2005 9:09 pm

Re: Gutted!
 

Originally Posted by Bordy
Stick in there Herrchook, it will happen.

Karma for your birthday Lacey. :beer:

get the white pages up and ring round all the companies in the regional areas, try and get a sponsor, it gives you PR as well. never, never give up on your dream, it will happen. We are 46 and 42, and we did it. Denise

herrchook Nov 20th 2005 9:14 pm

Re: Gutted!
 
Thanks for all the amazing support guys. It really means so much to us. We're looking at regional Victoria and also WA as well.

You're an amazing bunch, you've really lifted my spirits :)

wengerboy Nov 20th 2005 9:18 pm

Re: Gutted!
 

Originally Posted by herrchook
Thanks for all the amazing support guys. It really means so much to us. We're looking at regional Victoria and also WA as well.

You're an amazing bunch, you've really lifted my spirits :)

SA are pushing the state very hard at the mo,ideal start and the option to move on after 2 years!! or before ;) depending on work situation :)

cranni Nov 20th 2005 9:20 pm

Re: Gutted!
 

Originally Posted by herrchook
Thanks for all the amazing support guys. It really means so much to us. We're looking at regional Victoria and also WA as well.

You're an amazing bunch, you've really lifted my spirits :)

regional WA is beautiful.

mr mover Nov 20th 2005 10:14 pm

Re: Gutted!
 

Originally Posted by wengerboy
SA are pushing the state very hard at the mo,ideal start and the option to move on after 2 years!! or before ;) depending on work situation :)

I have personally packed 7 I.T people for jobs in the eastern states,in the last 2 months . We are static at the moment , from mid 2006 when the Frigate contract comes on line for A-SUB corp, and BHP-BILITON commence digging the the "biggest open cut mine in the world" [9 sq km x1km deep ]at Olympic dam , STH AUST is fairly quiet , unless your a Nurse,Docter, Clinician.etc.................... :beer: mm

wengerboy Nov 20th 2005 10:20 pm

Re: Gutted!
 

Originally Posted by mr mover
I have personally packed 7 I.T people for jobs in the eastern states,in the last 2 months . We are static at the moment , from mid 2006 when the Frigate contract comes on line for A-SUB corp, and BHP-BILITON commence digging the the "biggest open cut mine in the world" [9 sq km x1km deep ]at Olympic dam , STH AUST is fairly quiet , unless your a Nurse,Docter, Clinician.etc.................... :beer: mm

or removalist :beer:

fraser Nov 20th 2005 10:25 pm

Re: Gutted!
 

Originally Posted by herrchook
I've been trying to pluck up the courage to post this all week, it's only tonight I feel able to. We applied for STNI from Victoria nearly 8 weeks ago, and on Tuesday, despite hubby being on their on demand list, we were rejected!!!

Apparently they rejected something like 70% of their most recent applicants and we were amongst the unlucky ones. They are prepared to look at it again for us if we get a job offer so that's where we're concentraing our efforts right now. However, we're realistic enough to know that the chances of getting something in what is apparently a saturated market without a visa are remote.

We're not giving up, but we are slowly coming to terms with the fact that moving to Oz might not happen.

So how do we feel? We feel broken hearted, like someone's died. I'm angry that we left it too late (by 2 months) to pass the point test, and I'm angry that Victoria say they want people with our skills and then say they think we're "unemployable" when we applied. Mostly, I'm just sad. I've dreamt of this for 14 years and I can't really describe how it feels to be losing it!

I've cried a lot this week, felt pretty depressed too. Had a shopping trip today which helped, but now I'm home and it's all feeling very real again.

I haven't even been able to watch anything Australian on the TV - the kids haven't even been allowed to watch the Wiggles.

I'm not leaving the forum, yet anyway!! We're going to keep trying so that even if we don't get a visa, we'll know we tried our best.

Billy, for obvious reasons, we won't be coming to the meet on the 3rd but I hope you have a great night.

Will let you all know if there's any change. :(


I don't know what to say to you, except to wish you the best of luck.

arkon Nov 20th 2005 10:27 pm

Re: Gutted!
 

Originally Posted by herrchook
I've been trying to pluck up the courage to post this all week, it's only tonight I feel able to. We applied for STNI from Victoria nearly 8 weeks ago, and on Tuesday, despite hubby being on their on demand list, we were rejected!!!

Apparently they rejected something like 70% of their most recent applicants and we were amongst the unlucky ones. They are prepared to look at it again for us if we get a job offer so that's where we're concentraing our efforts right now. However, we're realistic enough to know that the chances of getting something in what is apparently a saturated market without a visa are remote.

We're not giving up, but we are slowly coming to terms with the fact that moving to Oz might not happen.

So how do we feel? We feel broken hearted, like someone's died. I'm angry that we left it too late (by 2 months) to pass the point test, and I'm angry that Victoria say they want people with our skills and then say they think we're "unemployable" when we applied. Mostly, I'm just sad. I've dreamt of this for 14 years and I can't really describe how it feels to be losing it!

I've cried a lot this week, felt pretty depressed too. Had a shopping trip today which helped, but now I'm home and it's all feeling very real again.

I haven't even been able to watch anything Australian on the TV - the kids haven't even been allowed to watch the Wiggles.

I'm not leaving the forum, yet anyway!! We're going to keep trying so that even if we don't get a visa, we'll know we tried our best.

Billy, for obvious reasons, we won't be coming to the meet on the 3rd but I hope you have a great night.

Will let you all know if there's any change. :(

I won't give the usual don't bother message as it's clearly something you want very bad, If I could swap with you I would. Keep your chin up and keep trying your age still works for you at the moment.

Does anyone know the rules on offering people jobs to get here? I mean can anyone offer a job, any job, or must it be in the field the person is skilled in. For example if your an electrician by trade could someone offer you an IT job just to get someone out here? Just thinking out loud.

funkybuddah Nov 20th 2005 10:37 pm

Re: Gutted!
 

Originally Posted by herrchook
I've been trying to pluck up the courage to post this all week, it's only tonight I feel able to. We applied for STNI from Victoria nearly 8 weeks ago, and on Tuesday, despite hubby being on their on demand list, we were rejected!!!

Apparently they rejected something like 70% of their most recent applicants and we were amongst the unlucky ones. They are prepared to look at it again for us if we get a job offer so that's where we're concentraing our efforts right now. However, we're realistic enough to know that the chances of getting something in what is apparently a saturated market without a visa are remote.

We're not giving up, but we are slowly coming to terms with the fact that moving to Oz might not happen.

So how do we feel? We feel broken hearted, like someone's died. I'm angry that we left it too late (by 2 months) to pass the point test, and I'm angry that Victoria say they want people with our skills and then say they think we're "unemployable" when we applied. Mostly, I'm just sad. I've dreamt of this for 14 years and I can't really describe how it feels to be losing it!

I've cried a lot this week, felt pretty depressed too. Had a shopping trip today which helped, but now I'm home and it's all feeling very real again.

I haven't even been able to watch anything Australian on the TV - the kids haven't even been allowed to watch the Wiggles.

I'm not leaving the forum, yet anyway!! We're going to keep trying so that even if we don't get a visa, we'll know we tried our best.

Billy, for obvious reasons, we won't be coming to the meet on the 3rd but I hope you have a great night.

Will let you all know if there's any change. :(

Don't give up on your dream. Try to be positive,I know bits easier said then done, but, just take it as the first knock back, and you'll soon jump back into positive mode, and hubby can start searching real hard for a job, and reapply for them visas. As they said, they will look into it again if he sorts out a job situation, and with his IT skills, he shouldnt have too muchg of a big problem. There is light at the end of the tunnel, and We Wish you all the very best of luck.

herrchook Nov 20th 2005 10:38 pm

Re: Gutted!
 

Originally Posted by arkon
I won't give the usual don't bother message as it's clearly something you want very bad, If I could swap with you I would. Keep your chin up and keep trying your age still works for you at the moment.

Does anyone know the rules on offering people jobs to get here? I mean can anyone offer a job, any job, or must it be in the field the person is skilled in. For example if your an electrician by trade could someone offer you an IT job just to get someone out here? Just thinking out loud.

Thanks Arkon, I believe we would need to get an offer from the specific fields of IT we are qualified for, and even then the employer needs to be able to prove they cant fill the job in Oz already. In our favour though is that I think all we need is an "offer" and not the full sponsorship as Victoria will review our application for STNI if we have an offer.

mr mover Nov 20th 2005 10:50 pm

Re: Gutted!
 

Originally Posted by wengerboy
or removalist :beer:

ITS funny you say that W/B ,our business , thrives when every one else is in crises, and quiet when all is well in the world .......... :beer: mm

LesleyM Nov 20th 2005 10:59 pm

Re: Gutted!
 
Im so sorry to hear of your knockback. Im sure if you want to get there badly enough there will be a way. Wishing you the very best of luck and sending you some karma.
Take care


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