do we get married?
 

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Re: do we get married?
 

Individual choice bonza69. Depends on who you value most in terms of the people who will be present & what you want for yourself, other half & kids. Maybe put scores out of 10 against the options and chose on scoring basis. There's no right or wrong! ;)

Enjoy the day whichever you chose. Good luck:D

Phoenixuk2oz

How close are you to your friends and family in Perth? I had a similiar dilemma years ago and decided to wait. Seeing the looks on the mothers faces was a priceless moment. It was an unforgettable day.

Thank u 4 ur replys,but i must stress,that my family as much as i love them do have there own lives,1 brother is in the army and going to IraQ at the end of March,my dad has re-married and has 2 children since i left home ,my mum left me when i was 10,(we get on ok,but not mum n daughter by ant means)my friends as much as what i love them do have there own lives,and i know that a couple of them with out a doubt would be present .we,ll c how it goes.

Do it in gretna and start your new life together in Perth as man and wife. Have fun and good luck

Hi Natasha,

As you say, whatever you do there will be someone who'll wish you'd done it differently.

Be "selfish" and go for what you want. You mentioned you wanted to start your new life in Perth as a completed family. If that means getting married before you go then so be it.

It's your and your partner's day not anyone else's.

Good luck and have a great life in Perth!

Elaine M:)

If what you want is the above then do it........it's not selfish.......it's your day and no one elses.......do what you want to do on your big day;)

,my family are my number one ive always wanted a big wedding in mexico,but i see it as a omen,:D Its a good idea to do it here and then maybe a ceremony over there

Good for you; go for it, if it's what you want!

Have a fantastic day,

Elaine M:D

Good for you Nats.........go for it girl. It's your life and at the end of the day it's gotta be your day.Enjoy it with your new hubby & kids...............then go start a new and exciting life in Oz!:D

Good luck 2 U & Your family xx

Here is one option:

Get married now. Then, if you want another bigger wedding celebration later, you can always do just that.

These days it is not uncommon to have two celebrations, often in different countries, to satisfy everyone involved.


Good luck.

Almost exactly what I was going to say - get married in Gretna and then have a blessing ceremony and a do in Oz when you get there with all your friends and family about.

Have a great wedding!!! :D