eve209

We have Cafcass visit next week

We have had many a dealing with them before and social services relating to child issues, however not for RFJO before,

Any advice on what to ask them, tell them, show them we are hoping that we can hurry the case along a bit due to previous acrimonious legal proceedings for the sake of the children.

eve

edie209

Has anyone had dealings where absent parents dont see kids or have not for 2-4 years but have opposed move anyway.

NikiL

Can't really help, but good luck.

If you've dealt with them before then you know the score & how they work. Just make sure you stay focused on whats right for the kids and avoid any hint of mudslinging about the ex.

Stating no contact isn't mudslinging btw, just stating a fact

Very best of luck
Niki

edie209

We had the meeting last night and I must say it was a very pleasant experience the lady we dealt with was very nice and listened to what we had to say. She now wants to see the children, which we are encouraging as we want Cafcass to know exactly what they want. That will happen next week.

Obviously Cafcass will have to see my ex and eve's ex but hopefully that is just a formality seeing neither has had any contact with their children for many years.

I feel that visa getting just a little closer

moneypenny20

No idea but good luck.