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PaulandNic Aug 14th 2008 10:31 pm

Buying a round, Aussie style?
 
I'm still trying to fathom this one ... :unsure:

I've had the odd recent embarrassing moment when out with Aussie couples and am just wondering if it's 'just the way they do it!'

Ok,

Recently out with friends. We arrive at venue and I buy everyone a drink ... a 'round'!!

I've now not finished my drink, but notice company has just been to the bar and got themselves and partner a drink, but not one for me or Nic ... :eek::o

Throughout the night it was quite one sided with who was buying 'rounds' and who was buying, basically themselves a drink!!!

The best bit was the coincidence that appeared sooooo many times! ... :huh:

'Their' glass would be half full, but after we returned from a ciggy outside, it was full! ... :sneaky::o:eek:

Am I buying 'rounds' that aren't needed, and if so why am I NOT being told "oh it's ok, I'll get me own in a minute!" ... :confused:

As I say this has happened a few times, it wasn't the first!

Incidently, company are lovely people, a good laugh! ... but ... stingy or what! ... :o ... OR! ... as I say, am I buying 'rounds' that I simply shouldn't be
! ... :blink:

Debate?

Petals Aug 14th 2008 10:39 pm

Re: Buying a round, Aussie style?
 
No we do not seem to buy rounds we each buy our own, that is what happens with our friends. Sometimes we do buy rounds but we might put money in the middle for the grog. I think the best way of finding out is to set the rules and ask in the beginning. I guess some people have more money to spend and others do not drink so easier to buy own drinks.

Petals Aug 14th 2008 10:40 pm

Re: Buying a round, Aussie style?
 
No we do not seem to buy rounds we each buy our own, that is what happens with our friends. Sometimes we do buy rounds but we might put money in the middle for the grog. I think the best way of finding out is to set the rules and ask in the beginning. I guess some people have more money to spend and others do not drink so easier to buy own drinks.

We always buy our own wine when dining out and our friends buy theirs as we do not have the same tastes.

Nu-Shooz Aug 14th 2008 10:43 pm

Re: Buying a round, Aussie style?
 
Don't buy rounds. It must be a British thing. Like the driving over here, no curtiousy.
Must have been a bloody expensive night for you and a cheap one for them...cheeky swines:lol:

moneypenny20 Aug 14th 2008 11:06 pm

Re: Buying a round, Aussie style?
 
Whenever we're out with Aussie mates someone 'may' offer to buy a drink but it's definitely not a 'round'. If you want a drink you get your own. Maybe they weren't taking the mick, just assumed you were being generous but would never assume they were expected to do the same. Thank god. Keeps more money in your pocket.:D

jonah38 Aug 15th 2008 3:08 am

Re: Buying a round, Aussie style?
 
Did they have scouse or jock ancestors or where they dentists:D

ice mocha Aug 15th 2008 5:08 am

Re: Buying a round, Aussie style?
 
LOL this is interesting to know!!!
:rofl:

benlast Aug 15th 2008 5:13 am

Re: Buying a round, Aussie style?
 

Originally Posted by Nu-Shooz (Post 6681924)
Don't buy rounds. It must be a British thing.

Although... I was amusing myself in the bookshop t'other day reading a Guide To Australian Business Etiquette, which firmly advised that Aussies will expect you to stand your shout and it's a terrible thing not to.

Of course, the (Australian) author may just have been out to wind up Americans ;)

Cheers
b

bluekipper Aug 15th 2008 6:32 am

Re: Buying a round, Aussie style?
 

Originally Posted by jonah38 (Post 6682613)
Did they have scouse or jock ancestors or where they dentists:D


Ive never met a scouser or jock who was`nt the 1st up to offer drinks all round,, must be the odd ones you know:confused:

give you the dentist one tho:rofl:

bluekipper

Wol Aug 15th 2008 4:09 pm

Re: Buying a round, Aussie style?
 

Originally Posted by benlast (Post 6683021)
Although... I was amusing myself in the bookshop t'other day reading a Guide To Australian Business Etiquette, which firmly advised that Aussies will expect you to stand your shout and it's a terrible thing not to.

Of course, the (Australian) author may just have been out to wind up Americans ;)

Cheers
b

All I can say is that I've bought a hell of a lot more drinks at my club than I've had myself. Same as at my club in England, come to think about it!

confuzzled Aug 15th 2008 4:42 pm

Re: Buying a round, Aussie style?
 

Originally Posted by PaulandNic (Post 6681903)
I'm still trying to fathom this one ... :unsure:

I've had the odd recent embarrassing moment when out with Aussie couples and am just wondering if it's 'just the way they do it!'

Ok,

Recently out with friends. We arrive at venue and I buy everyone a drink ... a 'round'!!

I've now not finished my drink, but notice company has just been to the bar and got themselves and partner a drink, but not one for me or Nic ... :eek::o

Throughout the night it was quite one sided with who was buying 'rounds' and who was buying, basically themselves a drink!!!

The best bit was the coincidence that appeared sooooo many times! ... :huh:

'Their' glass would be half full, but after we returned from a ciggy outside, it was full! ... :sneaky::o:eek:

Am I buying 'rounds' that aren't needed, and if so why am I NOT being told "oh it's ok, I'll get me own in a minute!" ... :confused:

As I say this has happened a few times, it wasn't the first!

Incidently, company are lovely people, a good laugh! ... but ... stingy or what! ... :o ... OR! ... as I say, am I buying 'rounds' that I simply shouldn't be
! ... :blink:

Debate?

As an aussie, it depends who i am out with. Sometimes we just each get our own drinks, and other times (usually the men!!) will go rounds. I hate it when people buy rounds tho cos i only drink water or diet coke, so i end up paying a fortune for my non alcoholic drinks. But if someone else bought us a round i would by the next one.

Mid Lifer Aug 15th 2008 5:59 pm

Re: Buying a round, Aussie style?
 
Come to North Lakes Tavern mate.Mainly pomms here ,we buy proper rounds AND we drink pints ..:thumbup:

hantsfamily1 Aug 15th 2008 6:04 pm

Re: Buying a round, Aussie style?
 
I have found exactly the same thing and was equally caught out.

I could not believe it when everyone bought their own. I have been to loads of barbies and most of them take their own eskys and drink their own beer....!!!! The take home their own stuff.

Had to change quickly and not spend a fortue on everyone elses night out.

daddyofthree Aug 15th 2008 7:56 pm

Re: Buying a round, Aussie style?
 
C'mon Bluekipper when have you ever known a scouser or jock to buy something with their own money (LoL)!!!. Really though, your right no problems with scousers, jocks and of course Geordies (def Mackems though!).
Been out myself with Ausie couple and we both bought rounds and I don't think they felt that their was anything wrong with it. :thumbsup::thumbsup:

Boweaver Aug 16th 2008 1:55 am

Re: Buying a round, Aussie style?
 
An informative thread this one, ta. Have to say no matter where you are when you get stung that first round of theirs it's time to readdress the situation. Weird to bring home bottles that haven't been drunk though.


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