Biggest fear
#1
Biggest fear
What's your biggest fear/anxiety with regards to your move?
Mine would have to be my son who will only be about a year or so old when/if we decide to go. A year ago the "if" factor wouldn't have came into it.
We're shitting bricks at the thought of taking such a huge step with him and having no support on the other end.
For the first time, i'm actually having serious thoughts about moving at all. Was thinking of Perth. I suppose all the recent negative posts haven't done much for my enthusiasm.
Mine would have to be my son who will only be about a year or so old when/if we decide to go. A year ago the "if" factor wouldn't have came into it.
We're shitting bricks at the thought of taking such a huge step with him and having no support on the other end.
For the first time, i'm actually having serious thoughts about moving at all. Was thinking of Perth. I suppose all the recent negative posts haven't done much for my enthusiasm.
#2
Re: Biggest fear
Originally Posted by Australia Bound
For the first time, i'm actually having serious thoughts about moving at all. Was thinking of Perth. I suppose all the recent negative posts haven't done much for my enthusiasm.
#3
Re: Biggest fear
Have you been to Australia before? I have personally never been to Perth before so I can't comment on it at all but perhaps it would be worth travelling to Australia and visiting the cities first to decide where you want to be?
May I ask why you want to move to Australia?
May I ask why you want to move to Australia?
#4
Re: Biggest fear
Originally Posted by Australia Bound
What's your biggest fear/anxiety with regards to your move?
Mine would have to be my son who will only be about a year or so old when/if we decide to go. A year ago the "if" factor wouldn't have came into it.
We're shitting bricks at the thought of taking such a huge step with him and having no support on the other end.
For the first time, i'm actually having serious thoughts about moving at all. Was thinking of Perth. I suppose all the recent negative posts haven't done much for my enthusiasm.
Mine would have to be my son who will only be about a year or so old when/if we decide to go. A year ago the "if" factor wouldn't have came into it.
We're shitting bricks at the thought of taking such a huge step with him and having no support on the other end.
For the first time, i'm actually having serious thoughts about moving at all. Was thinking of Perth. I suppose all the recent negative posts haven't done much for my enthusiasm.
#5
Re: Biggest fear
Originally Posted by Australia Bound
What's your biggest fear/anxiety with regards to your move?
Mine would have to be my son who will only be about a year or so old when/if we decide to go. A year ago the "if" factor wouldn't have came into it.
We're shitting bricks at the thought of taking such a huge step with him and having no support on the other end.
For the first time, i'm actually having serious thoughts about moving at all. Was thinking of Perth. I suppose all the recent negative posts haven't done much for my enthusiasm.
Mine would have to be my son who will only be about a year or so old when/if we decide to go. A year ago the "if" factor wouldn't have came into it.
We're shitting bricks at the thought of taking such a huge step with him and having no support on the other end.
For the first time, i'm actually having serious thoughts about moving at all. Was thinking of Perth. I suppose all the recent negative posts haven't done much for my enthusiasm.
Moving the other side of the world - dont care it's only geography, losing friends - hell dont care i'll make new ones, jacking the job in, wooo - i'll get another.
Facing a man eating ninja mother loving spider thats as big as my head oh pooo !
ps did i mention that they jump????
#6
Re: Biggest fear
We holidayed in Perth last year and loved it. Even though it pissed with rain most days.
Reasons for moving are to have healthier lifestyle for our son and for us and basically to give life a crack somewhere else.
We have a good house and security here so i guess i'm just a bit nervous about giving that up.
Reasons for moving are to have healthier lifestyle for our son and for us and basically to give life a crack somewhere else.
We have a good house and security here so i guess i'm just a bit nervous about giving that up.
#7
Re: Biggest fear
Originally Posted by Australia Bound
We holidayed in Perth last year and loved it. Even though it pissed with rain most days.
Reasons for moving are to have healthier lifestyle for our son and for us and basically to give life a crack somewhere else.
We have a good house and security here so i guess i'm just a bit nervous about giving that up.
Reasons for moving are to have healthier lifestyle for our son and for us and basically to give life a crack somewhere else.
We have a good house and security here so i guess i'm just a bit nervous about giving that up.
#8
Hillarys, Perth
Joined: Mar 2005
Location: Hillarys, Perth.
Posts: 1,094
Re: Biggest fear
Originally Posted by Australia Bound
What's your biggest fear/anxiety with regards to your move?
Mine would have to be my son who will only be about a year or so old when/if we decide to go. A year ago the "if" factor wouldn't have came into it.
We're shitting bricks at the thought of taking such a huge step with him and having no support on the other end.
For the first time, i'm actually having serious thoughts about moving at all. Was thinking of Perth. I suppose all the recent negative posts haven't done much for my enthusiasm.
Mine would have to be my son who will only be about a year or so old when/if we decide to go. A year ago the "if" factor wouldn't have came into it.
We're shitting bricks at the thought of taking such a huge step with him and having no support on the other end.
For the first time, i'm actually having serious thoughts about moving at all. Was thinking of Perth. I suppose all the recent negative posts haven't done much for my enthusiasm.
After dinner tonight, my 8 year old went roller blading, then just as the sun was setting... he was swimming in the Indian Ocean.
What would he have been doing 4 weeks ago when we were in the UK? Probably stuck in front of the TV (after homework) or playing with the PSP, generally bored, hibernating for months trying to keep warm.
Go for it.... what's the absolute worst thing? You just go back... but at least you gave it a try!
Neil.
#9
Re: Biggest fear
Originally Posted by Australia Bound
We holidayed in Perth last year and loved it. Even though it pissed with rain most days.
Reasons for moving are to have healthier lifestyle for our son and for us and basically to give life a crack somewhere else.
We have a good house and security here so i guess i'm just a bit nervous about giving that up.
Reasons for moving are to have healthier lifestyle for our son and for us and basically to give life a crack somewhere else.
We have a good house and security here so i guess i'm just a bit nervous about giving that up.
Having said all this.........you only live once, you are only here a short time so might as well at least try and enjoy every minute, if you don't go you'll never know, it's only money, etc etc etc..........PS we are moving for more outdoors life, hope its better for our kids, the adventure, change of scenery, get away from the cold winters..........we ain't going because we expect less chance of being mugged/raped/bullied............as per other thread.
Good luck
#10
Re: Biggest fear
we are off in 2 wks time with our 14mth old.
I think it is a good time in her life to go - she will be a good means for us to meet other people, we can stay several years in Australia and if it does not work out then there is no or little disruption to her education
I think it is a good time in her life to go - she will be a good means for us to meet other people, we can stay several years in Australia and if it does not work out then there is no or little disruption to her education
#11
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Joined: Nov 2005
Location: Northamptonshire
Posts: 138
Re: Biggest fear
Originally Posted by Australia Bound
What's your biggest fear/anxiety with regards to your move?
Mine would have to be my son who will only be about a year or so old when/if we decide to go. A year ago the "if" factor wouldn't have came into it.
We're shitting bricks at the thought of taking such a huge step with him and having no support on the other end.
For the first time, i'm actually having serious thoughts about moving at all. Was thinking of Perth. I suppose all the recent negative posts haven't done much for my enthusiasm.
Mine would have to be my son who will only be about a year or so old when/if we decide to go. A year ago the "if" factor wouldn't have came into it.
We're shitting bricks at the thought of taking such a huge step with him and having no support on the other end.
For the first time, i'm actually having serious thoughts about moving at all. Was thinking of Perth. I suppose all the recent negative posts haven't done much for my enthusiasm.
Hey go for it if your hearts pumping then guess what YOUR LIVING - it's worth it at the end of the day like everyone says you can always come back.
All the best.
#12
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Joined: Jan 2006
Location: Thornlie, Perth WA
Posts: 140
Re: Biggest fear
Originally Posted by wargod
Biggest fear has got to be friggin spiders and other creepy crawlies.
Moving the other side of the world - dont care it's only geography, losing friends - hell dont care i'll make new ones, jacking the job in, wooo - i'll get another.
Facing a man eating ninja mother loving spider thats as big as my head oh pooo !
ps did i mention that they jump????
Moving the other side of the world - dont care it's only geography, losing friends - hell dont care i'll make new ones, jacking the job in, wooo - i'll get another.
Facing a man eating ninja mother loving spider thats as big as my head oh pooo !
ps did i mention that they jump????
But still a great place and i want to live there so please give us our visa's lol !!!!!
#13
Re: Biggest fear
Originally Posted by Australia Bound
What's your biggest fear/anxiety with regards to your move?
Mine would have to be my son who will only be about a year or so old when/if we decide to go. A year ago the "if" factor wouldn't have came into it.
We're shitting bricks at the thought of taking such a huge step with him and having no support on the other end.
For the first time, i'm actually having serious thoughts about moving at all. Was thinking of Perth. I suppose all the recent negative posts haven't done much for my enthusiasm.
Mine would have to be my son who will only be about a year or so old when/if we decide to go. A year ago the "if" factor wouldn't have came into it.
We're shitting bricks at the thought of taking such a huge step with him and having no support on the other end.
For the first time, i'm actually having serious thoughts about moving at all. Was thinking of Perth. I suppose all the recent negative posts haven't done much for my enthusiasm.
#14
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Joined: Oct 2005
Posts: 43
Re: Biggest fear
Originally Posted by glittababe
that strong maternal instinct to protect your littlen is all the 'family support' you need! We took 3 children across the world and they had a fabulous time. Both Mark and I had such strong urges to protect the kids that you go out of your way to make sure the kids are safe and secure. You push yourself just that little bit further to set yourselves up. You've all got each other, you don't need anyone else!
#15
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Joined: Jul 2004
Location: cheshire, uk
Posts: 97
Re: Biggest fear
well i bought two teenagers out here with us and my only regret is that i didn't do it years ago when they were young enough to really benefit from this fabulous life style.
you will very soon build up a support network - if you put yourself out there -
go for it i say better to regret the real things than regret the things you didn't do!!
jax
you will very soon build up a support network - if you put yourself out there -
go for it i say better to regret the real things than regret the things you didn't do!!
jax