Bad Times for Bundy
Feb 4th 2004, 4:16 pm
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Originally posted by TraceyW
Bump.....thought this should be kept at the top.
I hope and pray theres good news to come.....
Bump.....thought this should be kept at the top.
I hope and pray theres good news to come.....
Feb 4th 2004, 7:55 pm
#77
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We are all still thinking of you and your family Bundy.
Take care
Take care
Feb 4th 2004, 8:32 pm
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Just a bump so she knows as sson as she logs on that we are all thinking about her.
Feb 4th 2004, 8:38 pm
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Just heard your news Bundy.
Thinking of you
donna
Thinking of you
donna
Feb 4th 2004, 8:55 pm
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Originally posted by Pollster
Just a bump so she knows as sson as she logs on that we are all thinking about her.
Just a bump so she knows as sson as she logs on that we are all thinking about her.
Feb 4th 2004, 9:31 pm
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Hey everyone...
Sorry - did quite make it on line yesterday. I'm afraid the news from this end is not good. It has been confirmed that my mum has both breast cancer and bone cancer, as we'd all feared. This being Jersey, things are sprinting ahead - CT scan this week, off to Guernsey for a bone scan next Weds, seeing the specialist in two weeks' time for the final verdict.
Yesterday was easily the worst day of my life. Just getting my dad into the hospital was a bit of a struggle and he spent most of the time before the appointment slumped over a radiator and funny shade of green. But they went in and I joined them for the talk with the Special Care Breast Nurse.
At this stage, they just don't know how far things have gone and whether the cancer has spread elsewhere. But it's safe to say that we have a real struggle on our hands.
So, that's the news. I've been so busy that I've barely stopped to think about it. In a way, things are better now that we know - a weird relief of sorts, I suppose. I've never seen my mum so low though, which is hard. Harder still to cope with my dad who has gone to pieces. And the worst moment was having to ring my younger brother to tell him. Not an experience I care to repeat in a hurry, so there had better be better news in a fortnight.
And just as we walked in from the hospital, the garage rang to say that my car is officially beyond repair. A good day all round, then.
Anyway, continued thanks for all your support and I will try to get round to your emails and PMs as soon as I can.
Go hug your mothers/fathers/brothers/sisters/wives/husbands/children.
And please will someone have a word with the Big Man upstairs for me?!
Sorry - did quite make it on line yesterday. I'm afraid the news from this end is not good. It has been confirmed that my mum has both breast cancer and bone cancer, as we'd all feared. This being Jersey, things are sprinting ahead - CT scan this week, off to Guernsey for a bone scan next Weds, seeing the specialist in two weeks' time for the final verdict.
Yesterday was easily the worst day of my life. Just getting my dad into the hospital was a bit of a struggle and he spent most of the time before the appointment slumped over a radiator and funny shade of green. But they went in and I joined them for the talk with the Special Care Breast Nurse.
At this stage, they just don't know how far things have gone and whether the cancer has spread elsewhere. But it's safe to say that we have a real struggle on our hands.
So, that's the news. I've been so busy that I've barely stopped to think about it. In a way, things are better now that we know - a weird relief of sorts, I suppose. I've never seen my mum so low though, which is hard. Harder still to cope with my dad who has gone to pieces. And the worst moment was having to ring my younger brother to tell him. Not an experience I care to repeat in a hurry, so there had better be better news in a fortnight.
And just as we walked in from the hospital, the garage rang to say that my car is officially beyond repair. A good day all round, then.
Anyway, continued thanks for all your support and I will try to get round to your emails and PMs as soon as I can.
Go hug your mothers/fathers/brothers/sisters/wives/husbands/children.
And please will someone have a word with the Big Man upstairs for me?!
Feb 4th 2004, 9:35 pm
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Words aren`t enough at times like these...
Once again my thoughts and hugs are with you and your family. Times like this can be hard but your friends and family are with you
footie chick
Once again my thoughts and hugs are with you and your family. Times like this can be hard but your friends and family are with you
footie chick
Feb 4th 2004, 9:36 pm
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i dont really know what to say bundster, words are a bit hollow at times like this.
puts things into perspective a bit.
puts things into perspective a bit.
Feb 4th 2004, 9:38 pm
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Originally posted by bundy
Hey everyone...
Sorry - did quite make it on line yesterday. I'm afraid the news from this end is not good. It has been confirmed that my mum has both breast cancer and bone cancer, as we'd all feared. This being Jersey, things are sprinting ahead - CT scan this week, off to Guernsey for a bone scan next Weds, seeing the specialist in two weeks' time for the final verdict.
Yesterday was easily the worst day of my life. Just getting my dad into the hospital was a bit of a struggle and he spent most of the time before the appointment slumped over a radiator and funny shade of green. But they went in and I joined them for the talk with the Special Care Breast Nurse.
At this stage, they just don't know how far things have gone and whether the cancer has spread elsewhere. But it's safe to say that we have a real struggle on our hands.
So, that's the news. I've been so busy that I've barely stopped to think about it. In a way, things are better now that we know - a weird relief of sorts, I suppose. I've never seen my mum so low though, which is hard. Harder still to cope with my dad who has gone to pieces. And the worst moment was having to ring my younger brother to tell him. Not an experience I care to repeat in a hurry, so there had better be better news in a fortnight.
And just as we walked in from the hospital, the garage rang to say that my car is officially beyond repair. A good day all round, then.
Anyway, continued thanks for all your support and I will try to get round to your emails and PMs as soon as I can.
Go hug your mothers/fathers/brothers/sisters/wives/husbands/children.
And please will someone have a word with the Big Man upstairs for me?!
Hey everyone...
Sorry - did quite make it on line yesterday. I'm afraid the news from this end is not good. It has been confirmed that my mum has both breast cancer and bone cancer, as we'd all feared. This being Jersey, things are sprinting ahead - CT scan this week, off to Guernsey for a bone scan next Weds, seeing the specialist in two weeks' time for the final verdict.
Yesterday was easily the worst day of my life. Just getting my dad into the hospital was a bit of a struggle and he spent most of the time before the appointment slumped over a radiator and funny shade of green. But they went in and I joined them for the talk with the Special Care Breast Nurse.
At this stage, they just don't know how far things have gone and whether the cancer has spread elsewhere. But it's safe to say that we have a real struggle on our hands.
So, that's the news. I've been so busy that I've barely stopped to think about it. In a way, things are better now that we know - a weird relief of sorts, I suppose. I've never seen my mum so low though, which is hard. Harder still to cope with my dad who has gone to pieces. And the worst moment was having to ring my younger brother to tell him. Not an experience I care to repeat in a hurry, so there had better be better news in a fortnight.
And just as we walked in from the hospital, the garage rang to say that my car is officially beyond repair. A good day all round, then.
Anyway, continued thanks for all your support and I will try to get round to your emails and PMs as soon as I can.
Go hug your mothers/fathers/brothers/sisters/wives/husbands/children.
And please will someone have a word with the Big Man upstairs for me?!
If its any consalation bundy ave been thier (even thuogh i know its not) as for the big man
mysterious that he is.
Feb 4th 2004, 9:38 pm
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Bugger.
Feb 4th 2004, 9:38 pm
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Hello Bundy.I'm so sorry to hear your news.Not much point saying a lot at this stage as you don't take it in I don't think.And waiting is just the hardest thing.Have already had a word in the ear of him upstairs(even though i'm no religious nut).LOADS of support your way.Mrs.Neal
Feb 4th 2004, 9:40 pm
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Originally posted by downunderpom
Bugger.
Bugger.
Feb 4th 2004, 9:40 pm
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Hang on in there bundy,
All of our thoughts are with you, come on the man upstairs work your stuff!!
Earlswood
All of our thoughts are with you, come on the man upstairs work your stuff!!
Earlswood
Feb 4th 2004, 9:40 pm
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OMG, I'm so sorry
and crying
I guess I'm like your younger brother, have never experienced anything like this (luckily...)
Don't know what to say
Good luck
Hope in a fortnight there's more positive news.
don't know the man upstairs, but will be thinking positively for you's.
stay in touch
and crying
I guess I'm like your younger brother, have never experienced anything like this (luckily...)
Don't know what to say
Good luck
Hope in a fortnight there's more positive news.
don't know the man upstairs, but will be thinking positively for you's.
stay in touch
Feb 4th 2004, 9:44 pm
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F**K!