Re: Are Australians boring?
Originally Posted by itxrd
(Post 10436838)
Yes that's what I thought - maybe they don't want to talk to me but then I overhear their conversations they're definitely boring :-). And when I say boring I mean as paddyo said there is just no banter. Or if there is their patters crap haha
As for the burbs I'm sorry but it is soooo boring here it's unreal. someone walking past the house is an event. your just in the middle of nowhere. I am out all the time and making an effort. If I go to the park/shops etc in most places I'll end up chatting to people. But here...no one wants to know you. They already have all their pals. Thank god were moving away that's all I can say. |
Re: Are Australians boring?
Originally Posted by paddyo
(Post 10436705)
I don't think its a Sydney thing. One of the banal things I miss about the UK is a few drinks midweek or Sunday/Saturday with my mates watching football and having some good banter in the pub. That doesn't exist here. RSL's are huge soulless places and decent 'pubs' are very few and far between and their culture in that respect is very different to the UK.
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Re: Are Australians boring?
If we're talking purely on banter, then I find that they are not as sarcastic as many of us Brits are or understand it quite the same way as we do. I often have to think twice before I speak as I'm naturally a piss taker and sarcastic sod but I feel that they are more sensative to that kind of banter.
When we first arrived in Ozz, I recall asking a bunch of AFL players if they thought that soccer would be the number 1 sport here in 30 years time due to the high influx of Europeans and Asians - what a conversation stopper!! ha ha. |
Re: Are Australians boring?
Originally Posted by fromthetoon
(Post 10436878)
If we're talking purely on banter, then I find that they are not as sarcastic as many of us Brits are or understand it quite the same way as we do. I often have to think twice before I speak as I'm naturally a piss taker and sarcastic sod but I feel that they are more sensative to that kind of banter.
When we first arrived in Ozz, I recall asking a bunch of AFL players if they thought that soccer would be the number 1 sport here in 30 years time due to the high influx of Europeans and Asians - what a conversation stopper!! ha ha. |
Re: Are Australians boring?
Dare I say it, but it will anyway, perhaps ask an Aussie who's been living in London for 6 or 7 years if they think the average brit is boring. I can guarrentee the answer will be yes.
As for the suburbs, well you wouldn't find me living in Croydon or any other London, low cost, family suburb because it's just plain boring - bit like I wouldn't live in any Sydney suburb outside 15km from the CBD Those who have got off their ar8es to be adventuours and travel to the other side of the world are going to expect that everyone is not boring. I'm afraid it doesn't happen and there are people out there without passports :p. |
Re: Are Australians boring?
Originally Posted by fromthetoon
(Post 10436878)
If we're talking purely on banter, then I find that they are not as sarcastic as many of us Brits are or understand it quite the same way as we do. I often have to think twice before I speak as I'm naturally a piss taker and sarcastic sod but I feel that they are more sensative to that kind of banter.
When we first arrived in Ozz, I recall asking a bunch of AFL players if they thought that soccer would be the number 1 sport here in 30 years time due to the high influx of Europeans and Asians - what a conversation stopper!! ha ha. You can have banter and good conversation without 'sarcy' or 'piss taking'. Australians do dry comments, irony and tongue in cheek which is right down my alley as I am a self-confessed master at it (lol). |
Re: Are Australians boring?
Originally Posted by fromthetoon
(Post 10436878)
As for the burbs I'm sorry but it is soooo boring here it's unreal. someone walking past the house is an event. your just in the middle of nowhere.
I am out all the time and making an effort. If I go to the park/shops etc in most places I'll end up chatting to people. But here...no one wants to know you. They already have all their pals. Thank god were moving away that's all I can say. Everyone has this dead look in their eyes. (Part of this was the fact that when everyone has had pre-school kids for years there is too much distraction...and shear fatigue...) |
Re: Are Australians boring?
Originally Posted by itxrd
(Post 10435973)
I have to say compared to people back in the Uk the people here seem pretty boring.
So what do you guys think?? I love the British humour, I'm neither Australian nor British, I socialise mainly with the Brits because of it. I like the way how they go about things. |
Re: Are Australians boring?
When I first came over her, 4 years ago, I really missed the sense of humour. It really adds to the homesickness. I mix with brits and aussies and have good friends on both sides, and I just dont know why it is but when Im going to a party with friends from back home I always have a great time, have sore sides laughing and really feel as if I belong. When I mix with my Australian friends, I enjoy myself but never to the extent I do with the other group. This is just how it is with me.
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Re: Are Australians boring?
Certainly one of the things we missed when living in Australia was the banter, the good humoured piss taking. I often felt as though I was treading on egg shells at times, being careful not to say something about Australia that someone would find offensive. I do find a good few Aussies to be fairly thin skinned and many are givers not takers. It is the way they are but it did wear a little thin at times. Not necessarily boring but a bit too sensitive.
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Re: Are Australians boring?
Originally Posted by chris955
(Post 10437193)
Certainly one of the things we missed when living in Australia was the banter, the good humoured piss taking. I often felt as though I was treading on egg shells at times, being careful not to say something about Australia that someone would find offensive. I do find a good few Aussies to be fairly thin skinned and many are givers not takers. It is the way they are but it did wear a little thin at times. Not necessarily boring but a bit too sensitive.
In general I find Australians are not as gobby as people make them out to be - they are not the most loudest, uncouth, sarcastic people. Whereas English people have a international reputation (once upon a time) as being reserved - yet so many seem to be basically 'gobby' characters who need backchat etc. |
Re: Are Australians boring?
I often felt as though I was treading on egg shells at times, being careful not to say something about Australia that someone would find offensive. So I did. It's nice being back. I don't think Australians are boring per se, they were just a bit dull to me. Now I'm back I really appreciate hearing the way British people talk - as portrayed by Bill Bryson and Alan Bennett. |
Re: Are Australians boring?
Originally Posted by michael_w
(Post 10438122)
I found that as well. If I was taking the mickey out of some crap TV show I'd sometimes get the retort: "Well if you don't like it, why don't you ...."
So I did. It's nice being back. I don't think Australians are boring per se, they were just a bit dull to me. Now I'm back I really appreciate hearing the way British people talk - as portrayed by Bill Bryson and Alan Bennett. |
Re: Are Australians boring?
Originally Posted by michael_w
(Post 10438122)
I found that as well. If I was taking the mickey out of some crap TV show I'd sometimes get the retort: "Well if you don't like it, why don't you ...."
So I did. It's nice being back. I don't think Australians are boring per se, they were just a bit dull to me. Now I'm back I really appreciate hearing the way British people talk - as portrayed by Bill Bryson and Alan Bennett. Also, do love the way Bill Bryson expresses his observations. |
Re: Are Australians boring?
Yes I guess we will all have different experiences. The difference for me is I wouldnt dream of taking the piss out of my Aussie friends cause they wouldnt like it and might be offended whereas my other friends from back home would expect it and give it back and thats what our humour is mostly based on. So because of that I feel more relaxed and enjoy myself more with my friends from back home because its all Ive ever been used to. Also I have a strong accent and have to speak slower and occasionally repeat things which I get tierd of doing.
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