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Just so everyone has an idea of who you are and what you are doing, why not post a few lines here just introducing yourself to the other SA forum members :D

Then get posting!

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I moved to SA when I was 7 in 1971 and left when I was 11 my dad got a job with the SA Post Office we stayed in Pretoria for 6 weeks then moved to Middelburg.We moved to the UAE Ras al Khaimah in 1976 (my dad worked for C&W) then on to Doha.Im a nurse and also qualified as a plumber last year and Im female! Im married with 3 children.I have very happy childhood memories of my time in SA and the Middle East Dubai wasnt quite so up market in the late 1970s

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Hi, Although I've been posting on here for a while I felt it only good manners to introduce myself as well.
I've left the autumn section and am now entering the Winter of my life and until 4 years ago I had experienced 2 attempted hi-jackings, 2 close calls, one mugging with a knife ,had a car stolen and a burglary while I slept the sleep of Anaesthesia and still figured I would be the one to put the lights out.
I grew up in SA and Mocambique, my playmates were friends who taught me to speak Zulu and Siswana before I learnt to speak English ( The Brit Passport was ancestral on granny's side)
I served in the SADF Citizen force for 13 years and had fun in Namibia, Angola, Rhodesia and Mocambique , I buried 13 friends, served with troops of all races ,respected them and as far as I know, earned their respect.
My friends throughout have also come from all the tribes, some SA and neither I nor my family ever supported what happened except by our silence.
And for the arrogant idiots who ask why did'nt you protest my answer is when you have walked in a white mans shoes during that time, talk to me again , for most people in South Africa of that time, of all colours, just tried to live their lives unobtrusively.
I digress.
I left SA 3 years ago , not because of the Armed Robbery/Hi-jacking, Not because they tried to drag my wife to the bushes in the yard and I was powerless, not because my child had to hide in the bushes being told if she makes a noise we will be killed, Not because my wifes pretty little black PA was kidnapped and gang raped at 7 pm from a gym in Midrand,

I left because two weeks after my attackers were arrested I was washing my classic car in the driveway one sunday morning, a car hooted , and there were 4 of my little gang, in my driveway , waving and blowing kisses to me as they each got bail of ZAR100.
The message was clear about testifying in their trial.
I have a daughter.
I have a wife.
6 months later I arrived in Ireland with 4 suitcases to start a new life as a refugee from crime.
I AM a cantankerous old man when I'm faced with idiots.
I AM an angry old man who knows that it's actually fairly simple to fix SA's problems , it will take time and a huuuge attitude adjustment "klap" for those in power and some of the old guard white citizens, it just takes discipline, accountability and a genuine spirit of sharing.
Unfortunately not in my lifetime, probably not in my daughters lifetime and my grandchildren wont care.

But I do so hate waste!

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Ahhh well, suppose I'd better practice what I preach.

Lived in the Uk all my life, owned a shipping company which allowed me a lot of travel, Far East, Scandinavia, the US and Europe

Eventually sold my business, wife got made redundant, and we decided to take early retirement to somewhere we could afford to live, which turned out to be somewhere I'd only ever been once before in my life!

So Spain is where we ended up, and although its been a stressful time its beginning to settle down now. I've experienced a whole new set of challenges & problems, but I've been considerably warmer whilst I've been doing it.

I'm afraid my experience of SA is extremely limited ..... I'm just here to try and keep the peace :D

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I'm too scared to! :eek::eek::lol:

A Zimbo, who has lived in Mozambique albeit for a few months, and who lived in SA for 15 years and then onwards to the States 10 years ago.

Love Africa passionately and most of its people (detest most of its politicians).

Left because I had 3 toddlers whose future was seriously at risk; academic and physical safety considerations played a huge part in the decision - as well as wanting them to be raised in a country that is not as racially divided as S.A. is.

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Hi,

We left SA 7 years ago. We only left because hubby recieved a job offer "out of the blue", and decided to give Canada a go. I think if he didn't receive the job offer we would be still in SA. Still loves SA a lot, think it is the most beautifull place in the world.
Canada is OK, the winters are the worst so long :eek: :eek: :eek: :thumbdown: :eek::eek:, but at the moment we are happy here, the kids are safe and have a future ahead of them.

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Hi, I'm a Welsh, Canadian, African, American!:eek: I left South Africa in 1982 although I still go back and forth for business and family interests. The business part is coming to an end as I just don't want my dosh there anymore. Family there runs successful armed response companies but it's getting rather pointless anymore.
Spent my youth in Zambia, Kenya (short spell),Zims (even shorter spell) South Africa in between bouncing back to motherland. Then married a Scotsman and moved to Canada and ended up here in the States. Had entertained going back to retire but I've seen enough to know that I have better odds of seeing old age here.

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Hi, I came to SA in 1982 at the age of 12 with my folks. I have had a good life in SA and can say I've been one of the lucky one's who has never yet been hi-jacked or had a sort of major crime effect my life, however I do live in constant fear of this happening. I think it's a crime in it's self that we have to life in daily fear. Yesterday my 11 yr old son was playing in the front garden and suddenly he came flying in the front door locking the security gate, I asked him what was up and he said a group of guys who looked like a gang were coming down the road. I felt so bad as my nervousness/alertness has obviously rubbed off on him. We (OH and I) made a decision last year November to pack up and move back to the UK, OH is South African but he's keen. Our house has been on the market since April this year and we are battling to sell. I'm living day to day in the hope that we will sell soon so that we can move on and start our second phase of our lives in the UK. Trying to stay positive but it's VERY hard.

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I moved to Cape Town a little over a month ago, from the UK. I work with people in planning their offshore finances hence the screen name! I love it here, I like the standard of living, I like the area etc, to be truthful I plan to stay certainly for a good few years.

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Born and educated in Bulawayo (CBC). 3rd generation Southern African on my fathers side. Descended from a very long line of Cornish miners on both sides.

Obtained a Pharmacy degree from Rhodes University in Grahamstown. Worked in the Rhodesian Health service as a Hospital Secretary/Pharmacist for 4 years. Decided I did not want to work for or be governed by Bob Mugabe and headed South in January 1980.

Owned and ran retail pharmacies in Pietermaritzburg, Natal for nearly 20 years. Held various senior elected positions within the Pharmaceutical Society of South Africa between 1989 and 1998. Lack of business security/crime/pension viability made us decide to emigrate to the UK in 1998.

Becoming a grumpy old man. Fed up with neo-liberals telling me how to think, raise my kids and live my life.

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Hello Tiger and welcome.:) Interesting threads you have posted there, and I see one more highly educated individual that joined the exodus to more secure environs. Southern Africa's loss.

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Cheers Tegwyn. South Africa has had a major brain drain. In the field of pharmacy they have lost 50% of the pharmacists registered in 1994 either through emigration or leaving the profession.

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Bunches working here in the States ;)

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Yep; in the period '96 - '98 they were going to the States at the rate of 10/week. There were only 9500 pharmacists registered in the RSA in 1994 so this was a serious loss. I had two mates from 'maritzburg go over to San Diego. The downside was that their wives were not permitted to work in terms of their entry. In both cases the women folk couldn't handle the boredom and came back to the RSA and they ended up divorced. Happened a lot apparently.

South African pharmacy qualifications after 1968 ('71 RSA left the Commonwealth) are not recognised in the UK and anyone wanting to practise here has to go back to varsity here and re-qualify.

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Interesting about that last bit. So, did you have to re-qualify then? How many years do you have to take, or do you have to do the full course?

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Am getting on a bit now so wasn't really that interested. Would have been given 1 years credit for the RSA degree and then would have had to do 2 years to get the B.Pharm degree and then another 1 year internship. My RSA degree is the equivalent of a British Hons degree because we went straight on to Masters in South Africa. When I did my internship in Rhodies there was another intern in the unit with a British degree and she was pretty hopeless. Pharmacy services in the UK are pretty poor in comparison with South Africa. This is mainly due to the fact that the pharmacies are corporately owned and money and not service is the main driving force. They have gone the same way in South Africa now.

In the 2 years before I left I was working as a consultant in Medical IT. I was working with various programmers and also someone in the Health Research Unit at MIT in the USA developing computer aided patient management systems to reduce the cost of healthcare. I thought that the NHS would be an ideal candidate for further work in this area. Sadly the UK is now some 20 years behind the rest of the world in the Medical IT environment and are only now starting to use electronic data interchange. The techniques we were working on require data warehousing and analysis to be effective.

The net result is that I have left the medical field altogether. My wife is a Hotel Manager and I am semi-retired. I work part time as a receptionist. I have spent spare time learning Linux and run my own Internet, email and mysql database servers. I am planning to launch my own Internet based tourism business in the next few months.

-Rob

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Hey guys, chat on threads in the forum please ..... just use this for introductions please :)

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Grew up in Scotland left school and went into the family security (electronic) business. Due to my father’s poor health the business was sold so I decided to do the OE thing and put some feelers out for Canada and South Africa. Within a week I got a response from SA that my skills were in demand and basically gave me a green light which I was not prepared for. As a young lad I saw the opportunity as a potential adventure. Besides the SA government paid 80% of my re-allocation in return for a two year commitment.

Landed in SA in Dec 1980 after leaving the snow in Scotland. Stayed in Hillbrow and absolutely loved the pulse and colour of it all. My skills were in demand and very shortly was offered a new job at double my salary. Wow, what a comparison to dull old Scotland.

Although I adapted pretty well to SA, at that stage in my life I equated foreign exchange for how much a dozen beers & 20 smokes cost.

I stayed in London in 1984 for six months and couldn’t get to grips with the miserable lifestyle by comparison. It was at this point I realised that Africa gets in your blood and it had mine. Although I did often miss the vibe of Europe and the history that South Africa lacked by comparison.

Arriving in SA after the UK in the 80s was like going through a time warp but it was a pleasant one. So okay you couldn’t gas your car after midday on a Saturday and the folk my age had never heard of the Police ( whaatt ?). Anything beyond Springbok hits was unheard on radio in those days. Thank God for the Hillbrow record centre.

I divorced in 86 and in 92 decided to hang up the collar & tie to go travelling for a wee while, which I did for two years ( fell in love with Greece). After travelling I decided to go back to SA just before the elections in 1994. Many folk told me they thought I was crazy but I was positive that SA was going to be OK and that I really felt SA as my home.

Managed to do quite a bit of overseas travelling with business and decided the collar and tie offered some decent perks. Re-married in 95 to a South African lass. We spent our Honeymoon at the Royal Hotel in Pilgrim’s Rest and then a few days at Sodwana Bay.

Was hi-jacked at gun point in Highlands North in 96 and this was my first realisation that the winds of change were blowing. Went to the UK in 97 for a good look see and again in 99 and decided we would immigrate to Cape Town where we stayed for a year. My wife started her own business there. We loved it but the property prices were crazy and the salaries a tad Jurassic. Back to Jo’burg we went. We bought a place just outside Fourways and was offered a great role with an international company.

We lived in a gated cull-de-sac and one of the first major realisations of things to come was when the local authorities came and tore down our street gate ( after many meetings with layers and various others blah blah blah) with great enthusiasm and soon after that we experienced several crimes in our small street.

I was re-trenched in 2001 and decided to start my own business. We discovered that my wife was pregnant in mid 2002. One morning (my missus was around six months) at around 04.00 we were woken by ADT security at our gate and alerted us on the intercom that there were burglars in our property, we realised that they had been just outside our open bedroom window (burglar barred) but it was the realisation that if one of the dogs had wanted to be let out in the middle of the night (as they often did), we could have walked into a bad situation. With a pregnant wife this was not the most pleasing thought.

We found out later that the criminals had been using the house behind ours to store stolen goods and our garden as a thoroughfare. We had steel bars bolted into the top of our six foot wall with razor spikes welded onto the bars. This alone cost several thousands of Rands. We installed sensors all over the garden (we had half an acre with lots of trees) which set off floodlights at different places all over the property. We installed sensors that set off very powerful lights that would light up areas around our bedroom window as this was our main area of concern and wanted to be woken if these particular areas were breached.

We ripped off the burglar bars on the outside of the house and installed 25 mm square bars rawbolted to the inside of the windows ( as several houses in the area had their burglar bars attacked with angle grinders). Again this cost us thousands of Rands. We installed a security gate in the passageway between the rest of the house and the bedrooms. We put up CCTV camera in the garden. We were starting to create a prison that we would retreat into and bolt ourselves down for the evening, The ritual before getting into bed was checking the mobile phones were charged and in their usual place. The torch was ready for use and the remote panic button in its usual place. ( I now can’t believe I actually lived like that ) etc etc.

Many times I used to lie in bed on a Friday or Saturday night and listen to gunfights taking place. We often used to hear the police helicopter flying around the area. We were two minutes from Monte Casino and that was hit by armed gangs several times.

A couple of times we were woken up in the middle of the night with our alarm going off ( we only had a buzzer connected with a silent radio to armed response). It was a terrible feeling that from one moment in deep sleep you would awaken into almost combat mode.

The crime just seemed to be quickening at such a rapid pace all around us and all we heard was local shopping centres being held up, including Fourways Mall. Many of our neighbours had experiences and attempted break ins whilst they were at home. Hijackings were a daily occurrence and local stores and take away outlets had private armed guards posted at their doors. The civilian world was becoming like a war zone.

There was no doubt about it, the criminals were getting really cocky and didn’t seem to care what they were faced with. We were beginning to get the impression that the law was there to assist them to achieve their target.

The problem was that we were on this alert mode all the time. We would check outside the doors in the morning before we let the dogs out. We would drive down the driveway before opening the automatic gate and drive out at speed closing the gate at the same time as well as doing a 360 to see that there is no one about to leap out of the bushes somewhere. At the first stop street at the end of the road we would check our car windows, check the rear mirror and watching all pavements and pathways for potential hijackers. This may sound crazy but it became the sub conscious thing to do and driving at night it was worse.

When our son was three months we witnessed a hit on someone whilst they were driving their car 5 meters in front of us. It happened at ten o’clock in the morning in broad daylight. We were right at the front of the traffic lights and about 75 metres from the Douglassdale Police station. If the shooting of driver had happened two seconds earlier the car that veered out of control ( due to driver being shot) would have come through the side of our car where our wee lad was in his car chair.

This was one of those turning points for me. Later that day I phoned the Douglasdale police station and couldn’t get anyone that could actually understand me. Due to my involvement with the local community police forum I rang back and asked for the commander of the station by name. To my shock they knew nothing of the incident. The fact that the shooter had used a big cannon and was pretty audible and at that distance from the police station we really thought they would have responded.

Over the next couple of months I had the displeasure of putting our armed response to the test, the first time took them 20 minutes with an excuse that it was raining. The second time the guard arrived without the necessary keys to get into our property or a torch. I was beginning to realise that I was getting closer to making the decision I had sworn, that was that I vowed never to stay in SA if I had to carry a gun.

The Standard Bank in Fourways Crossing (our branch) was hit in broad daylight, The Brass Monkey (pub)was hit, the Beef & Lobster in Paulshof and loads more all in a few kilometres radious. Every Monday morning there was news of the horror over the weekend ( by hits I mean being held up at gunpoint or shot).

We had to take our son (at fourteen months) to Olivedale Clinic (where he was born) as he had a bad case of gastro late on a Sunday afternoon. We were advised by our GP (a brilliant Italian) to go and get a shot of Maxilon to stop the vomiting to reduce the risk of de-hydration.

We were told that nobody in the clinic would look at him unless we gave a deposit of R8000. Fortunately my credit card could take that. This was a circus story that I won’t bore you with the details. It ended the following (Monday) morning when we were advised by the same GP to take our son straight to him. Our GP told us that the clinic story was just a scam to get our money, I was furious. I dropped my wife & son back home and drove straight to the clinic and met with the manager. They did everything to apologise after I mentioned a few names in the press and assured us of a credit on the bill.

Driving out of the clinic I really thought about how SA had changed and lost its soul regardless of race or culture. People were on this mission to increase their own wealth at any cost and with no regard for life itself. We lost my father-in-law due to negligence at a private clinic shortly after this.

I took the bull by the horns and told my wife that I had made the decision that we had to get out of SA and if she was not coming (as she had protested for years) I was going anyway. That was a tough call that I thought through with having our wee lad it wasnt a really nice one but one of those that had to be done. Not to bore you with those details my wife said she agreed to leave SA and within a week we had the house on the market.

We knew we were leaving SA but not really sure where to. Our house sold within ten days so the pressure was on. I burnt lots of midnight oil doing research and looking at our obvious options on an EU passport. This was when I joined BE. The shortlist was Canada & New Zealand. Here we are in Auckland nearly three years later. It has not been a walk in the park but every time I look at our wee lad’s happy face I know it was the right decision.

My wife is now the one with stronger feelings as to what SA has become and where it is going to and even if we should go back for a visit.

We still have family in SA and many dear friends that we really miss. Slowly but surely we hear of friends deciding to leave and recently three of my family have been accepted into Australia.

I am truly saddened at what SA has become and know folk that are privy to certain crime stats that are certainly not the same as the public hear .

We often ask ourselves the question if we would go back to SA if they sorted the crime and the answer to that is no as the other basics like electricity are rapidly falling away just like they did in Zimbabwe.

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Hi All,

Cambells and I have been friends for almost 20 years.. Yep I too got fed up with the feeling of living under the constant threat of danger and finally left SA 18 months ago.

I went back for a quick visit in June and felt like I'd walked onto the set of a bad Science fiction movie..

I love SA dearly as it is after all the land of my birth. I am also saddened by what SA has become.

I live in London now in a HouseShare with a bounch of Saffers and Ozzies who range in age from 19 to 23 years of age..

... The absolute looney I hear most of you mutter under your breath or gag on your next sip of coffee..

I share my room with a pack of rats and don't take it too personally when they steal my meusley bars!!

I'd much rather be woken up by the sound of rats as opposed to Rat Tat TAt!!! (... ie. the dulcet tones of rapid gunfire!! )

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Moved to Pietermaritzburg in 1980 with 2 suitcases, 2 cats and 200 GBP:lol:
OH was lecturer at University of Natal. I worked as registered nurse at "old" Grey's. Our 3 children were born in Pmb, although we moved to Jhb when youngest was just 6 weeks old, as OH was offered prof's post at Wits.
I worked at Garden City Hospital in paediatrics. We were in Jhb for 10 years, lived in Emmarentia, right by the dam.
Had phones taped by police in early days - if you hung up then quickly picked the receiver up again you could hear them still on the line:rofl:
Remember the days of the "Groot Krokodil":sneaky:
Had great times on Natal south coast (would give anything for a bunny chow) as well as field trips to St Lucia, Hluhluwe, Umfolozi and the Berg.
Bad days were making sure you always had passports on you and enough fuel in the car so you could drive to Botswana if things got too bad.
Teaching the children to lie down in the car under a canvas if people started shooting at us. Making sure they always locked the security gates on doors and armed the alarm and turned on the electric fence. Treating robots as 4 way stops.
Queued all day in Auckland Park to cast our vote in 1994, the atmosphere was amazing. Everyone seemed to have so much hope for the future.
However, by 1995 I was starting to see some pretty upseting things at the hospital.
Children shot through the head, babies raped as it was believed they were a cure for AIDS/HIV. Worked night duty and used to hear the helicopter bringing people in who'd been hijacked, shot etc. Prisonners getting admitted before the people they'd injured. Had prison ward in basement, always full up - overspill of prisoners under armed guard on wards, some of whom would try to escape given half the chance. Had one incident at 5 am in the morning where we had armed police swarming over the paeds ward looking for an escapee.
By 1998 wouldn't let the children go meet friends even during the daytime. They were told at school they had no future as they were white, middle class children of immigrants. Decided we had to leave Jhb when youngest had knife held to his throat for a packet of biltong. Close friend's 18 year old daughter was raped in Parkview and colleague of OH was robbed at gun point in her office at Wits - after that the staff all had security gates put on their office doors so they could lock themselves in.
OH managed to get job in Namibia. It broke all our hearts to leave SA - have never lived anywhere that gets into your blood as much. Still go back to visit friends, worry about them all the time, especially the one's who farm in Wartburg, KZN.
Spent 3 years in Windhoek before OH was offered a job in France. The fact none of us spoke French wasn't an issue. The important thing was we felt the children were safe and had a future.
Will never forget driving into our local town with them after just being there a couple of weeks. We were listening to something on the BBC - a journalist was interviewing a politician. The kids wouldn't get out of the car until it had finished. They just couldn't believe you could have that sort of freedom of speech. That was probably the moment I really knew we'd done the right thing in leaving when we did.

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I left SA in 1974 having been schooled at St Stithians in Randburg. Ive lived in England and BC since. My mind boggles when I now read about Hillbrow and Braamfontein and some other places - wow how things have changed. We whities sure had it good back in those days.

I have fond memeories of summer hols in Ramsgate and Plet but I fear those places have pretty much gone to the dogs by now too.

I feel quite blessed living in a place where we never lock our doors and leave the keys in the ignition when we go shopping.

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Thank you so much for your story Val. You have validated pretty much what we have been trying to warn people about. There are so many people that simply do not understand what they are facing. I hope they heed that warning before heading into SA. It is so hard to comprehend until you have experienced it which is understandable.
Also welcome to Riogan. BE is a wonderful site even if there are a few of us that grumble about the issues from time to time. :) A good grumble helps air the dirty laundry though. ;)

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Hi everyone
Just joined up a short while ago. My family and I will be moving to Cape Town in Feb 08. I'm originally from Hong Kong, of British nationality. Grew up as an expat there. Being in the hospitality industry has meant alot of relocating over the last umpteen years. Presently living in Bangkok and simply loving it. Will be in CT as of Feb and taking a preview trip in Jan. Lots of comments on the site have made me very nervous but I'm in a no choice situation and hope to make the best of it. Hope to meet some warm friendly people through the Forum and maybe linking up with other newly arrived expats too.

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Hello and welcome. I hope you have a smooth, safe transition to your new abode. If anything, understand that safety is a necessary focus and that knowledge will help you stay out of harm's way. Good luck to you.:)

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Hi Folks,

I've just signed up and thought I'd pop in here to say hi first.

Although I've been running a company here in RSA for some years, I lived in the UK until 2000, when I got soooo sick of the political correctness, weather and 'long distance' commuting, I decided to up sticks and move to RSA on a permanent basis. Despite having ongoing visa problems (don't have residency) I like living in SA and unlike a lot of people, I haven't had any security issues or worries.

Home is on a secure estate and I spend at least 6 months a year travelling in Africa - most of it, living in tented safari camps. I leave my house empty, locked and alarmed and (fingers crossed) the place stays empty and safe.

The only thing that might make me leave SA are the visa problems, and if I do leave, it'll be to go to another African country. - Probably Tanzania because we spend a lot of time there anyway and it makes sense to make that country our base.

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I lived in SA from 1975 to 1996 .

Our last place was in Magaliesburg. We had two adjacent small-holdings, one of 56 acres, and one of 20 acres, with a 5 bedroomed/ 3 bathroom etc house on one, and a 3 bedroom/ 2 bathroom house on the other.

We decided in 1996, after one-too-many burglaries and armed confrontations, that enough was enough. Unfortunately, nobody at the time was interested in moving out to the sticks, so we literally dumped the door keys in the veldt, got on a plane, and came back to the UK ...... so if anybody wants a smallholding, give me a call. I doubt that there is much left of either.

I loved SA, and had some of the best years of my life there. Fantastic scenery, mostly nice people, brilliant weather, great standard of living in general ..... but I would never go back.

It saddens me to see it going downhill, and the people responsible still blaming somebody else. Africa will always be in my blood .... but I decided that my blood was no longer going to be in Africa.

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It saddens me to see it going downhill, and the people responsible still blaming somebody else. Africa will always be in my blood .... but I decided that my blood was no longer going to be in Africa.[/QUOTE]

Oy, I own the BE trademark for that last line ;)

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Hi all

I have been very lucky and worked in many countries around the world (apart from the Americas) lived in a few and experoenced many great and sad things.

Currently 'settled'? (will I ever be settled) in the UK.

My Dad left the UK for SA 43 years ago and died there 3 years ago. I have worked in SA a few times and have always had a great love for the country (warts and all). I now have a half brother in SA and have a good friendly relationship with him, his mum and wife..

I love SA as a country - and a m VERY sad about the stoopid politics of the ANC and the way SA is coming down to the lowest common denominator.

I am not a racist / religionist / political player in any way - and pray that common sense and honesty will pave a way to make SA the great place it should be. Unfortunately history has shown that African politics are tricky and I doubt that will happen in my lifetime.

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Born in South African of british ancestors that came to South Africa to fight in the boer war.
Lived in in Blyvooruitzight, of the TV series about "Village Reef gold mine" until 5 as dad was a mining engineer.
Moved to Germiston then Bedfordview whilst growing up with 3 brothers.

Moved back to Germiston after leaving parents after starting work in Electronics industry, then Edenvale when I married a nurse.
I always wanted to leave South Africa and was waiting for the best opportunity, and let several slip by in the early 80's.
My wife did not want to even hear of leaving South Africa, so I decided to try and make a difference and joined the South African Police Reservist.
Stood duty at the first election for 3 days and did many many hours of police duty and faced attacks several times. Saw several dead and dying in Hijacking and bad accidents, took many statements from break ins and theft and shot at a few times.
My wife hated this and it helped her to change ther thoughts about leaving.
Was offered a position /partnership in a company to assist them take agencies of big USA companies.
Then assted with getting a contract to manage military equipment
Had an almost fatal accident in 1999 being knocked down by a car. and then after a few years was made redundant because I was not meeting targets set for sales to a government organisation.
The company had no BEE plan and insisted it was not a problem, but I was.
I saw the writing on the wall a few years before and started looking into migration to the USA NZ and AU.
Started the paperwork trail in 2000 and after a long struggle to get it submitted a visa application in 2003, we were granted a visa in 2004 and sold up and left. The children were in 40 child classes which were going to get bigger because the ANC were shipping students in from Tembisa and forcing white teachers to go to work in the townships.
Since then the company has been sold to a BEE concern.
2004 we moved to Australia visiting Mackay because my brother and his wife (also a nurse) were here.
Since arriving the South African migrant population has swelled dramatically.
Been here ever since and have convinced and assisted a few more skilled whites to leave RSA and will carry on doing this for a few years

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I was born/grew up in Scotland, and moved to Hong Kong when I was 21. Got married, returned to the UK for two years, and came to SA in 1980 (my mother is 2nd generation South African). Been here for nearly 30 years now, and haven't been back to the UK since 1989 - 90, or had any desire to.

My wife decided she'd had enough, and moved back to Scotland about 18 months ago. She's not enjoying it, and has come back to SA for visits a couple of times, but doesn't want to return permanently because of crime and the general situation here. Puts me in a bit of a quandry. I work in a security risk management environment and I'm very much aware of crime - I have to deal with it all the time and I've had a few bad personal experiences -but I just don't know. My kids (grown up) have no intention of leaving, for the time being anyway.

I've, sort of, promised to go to the UK for a couple of weeks in February - March on a recce but I'm not really looking forward to it. Logic, and my head, tell me to get out but it will break my heart to leave this beautiful, bloodstained, country despite everything. Hell of a situation.

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Born and grew up in SA. Moved to the UK to earn some good cash and see the world. Now I've seen the world and spent all my cash doing so.... am tempted to move back to friends, family and everything that is both positive and negative about SA.

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Hi everyone,

I am a British lass in her mid twenties married to an SA guy from Cape Town. I have spent a couple of months there and find it a home away from home, although I am acutely aware that going on holiday there is completely different from living there on a daily basis. I was fortunate enough to get married on a gorgeous wine farm in Franschoek rather than Croydon registry office!

We live in London but we are intending to move to Cape Town Dec 08/Jan 09 due to his family wanting him back after 10 years in the UK.

I am excited as I do love the place from my own experience but am very nervous as I am very aware of the current state of affairs and risks. If hubbies family were not there then I doubt that we would be moving there at all to be honest but family first and all that. They are lucky enough to live in the lowest crime rate suburb in CPT and we will also live there to hopefully minimize the risk of anything happening. The worst thing that has happened to any of hubby's friends and family in Cape Town is that someones house was burgled twice in a month so we are eternally grateful for this but I hope that we have not got our blinkers on that those kind of things do not happen to us.

The UK is always going to be here if it does not work out in SA but I do intend to give it my best shot, and try to take heed of all the warnings from sites like these whilst not getting too stressed out about it all as we are moving there and want to enjoy it.

I will no doubt be asking for lots of advice for questions that I can not seem to find answers for and look forward to reading the posts and other people's stories and experiences. Thank you in advance! :thumbsup:

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Welcome and I hope we can answer most questions for you. I do understand the pull of family but hope you make sure you have an exit strategy in place should you need it. Good luck to you and yours.:)

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Just really beginning to looking to emmigrate to Cape Town. My partner is Afrikaans and after many years in London wants us to give the city a shot.

We're a youngish professional london couple looking to move before we turn 30 and realistically in 2009. We have not got any children as of yet but that doesn't mean our choices will not involve future generations.

I myself as a typical Brit as many initial concerns although I have visited the country many times due for holidays, weddings, family reasons etc. Just want some information from those who know best...i.e. those who come from our culture/lifestyle and into a completely new/different environment.

Fa0019

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Hello All,

I'm new to Cape Town, and already love this place...I'm from England, but have been lucky enought to have postings in Kuala Lumpur and Dublin...both awesome cities, and Cape Town is no different..

I've already been here for 6 months and just found so much to do...its a shame that foreigners who have never been here have got such an impression of Cape town, because based on my LIMITED experiences, this place is so different from what the picture they paint in the newspapers...

now looking to shed some post Christmas weight and get involved in 5 a-side football...or tennis around Sea Point...failing that a Pimms and lemonade will do!

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Hi,
Been posting on and of for a while. Born in Gwelo, Rhodesia in the 60's lived in Essexvale, Gwanda and Umtali ( Father British born immigrated to Kenya then Rhodesia). Left in 1981 to live in South Africa, educated in Durban, left school joined airforce for national service then pilot until 1993, lived all over the place, Durban, Pretoria, Dunnottar, Langebaanweg. Met wife(Irish) in Pretoria then dragged the family to London in 1995. London as security and telecoms engineer until 2007. Landed in Aussieland Sept 2007 living in WA, mandurah and loving it.

Bruce:)

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Nice to meet you Bruce. I lived in Gwelo for a few minutes before moving to QueQue and then onto Gatooma, and back again. It was a very pretty little town.

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Hi there everyone, I am also new to this site only came across it because I have no work to do at the moment!! I too lived in SA for 25 years with husband and 5 children 3 born in Sa. Left in 1999 because of the horrendous amount of crime and murder that went on in and around Germiston, we lived in a suburb of this city. Had my boss murdered in front of me in Wadeville outside the office on a Friday afternoon, all for a bakkie he gave them the keys but they shot him anyway. I have had so many friends and friends of friends highjacked, burglered, raped etc. etc. My husband and I decided that because of the law of average one of us would eventually be killed. We had a dear friend of my daughter murdered after we left. She was butchered along with her husband ,mother-inlaw , father-in-law and one of the murderers had worked for her father-in-law for years as had his father before him. Its the vindictiveness that really gets to me. Take my car or my money but why the killing as well!!!! Anyway, I dont regret for a minute leaving although we have found it difficult to adjust to the UK after so long away especially the weather and the confined spaces but a small price to pay for peace of mind. I can always go to Europe for some sun!! Good luck to everyone leaving the turmoil that is now SA. Dont think of the negatives such as the exchange rate or the cost of living just remember your life is worth more than swimming pools and sunshine!!

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Welcome, hope you enjoy your time on this site. I read your comments with sadness as your story seems to be the norm for most in SA anymore. I think it becomes a challenge to find out who has NOT been affected. I hope you and yours find a safe happy place to call your own. Starting over is difficult but so worthwhile when it comes to seeking safety in your everyday lives. All the other issues dwarf by comparison.

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Welcome dinwiddie. My father's cousin has lived in that suburb for over 20 years. Still there the ostrich.

I read your story and can so relate. Been there, experienced that. Friends, neighbors, acquaintances murdered for nothing really. One of them was gunned down in his driveway and they didn't even take his car.

Welcome to BE. It is a great place to hang out on :)