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Old Jul 28th 2013, 1:23 pm
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Originally Posted by Jim Smith
I think there should be some kind of liing will where when you are fit and have all your marbles in line to actually specify trigger points, like when I reach this point XXX pull the plug.
There is, my parents have written living wills, effectively they state that if they're on life support we pull the plug. By which I mean that we, the children, when asked by the medical staff, tell them to pull the plug.
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Originally Posted by Meow
The law needs to change. Certainly there should be caveats to stop abuse, but it's inhumane to make someone who wants to die, due to having a painful terminal illness, suffer because someone else thinks they should.
I suspect it's the caveats which make it extremely difficult. How do you make sure there is no abuse. Son & daughters a bit short of money decide it would be a good idea to 'let' old mum & dad die so they can inherit. The list goes on.
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Old Jul 28th 2013, 2:26 pm
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Originally Posted by mikewot
I suspect it's the caveats which make it extremely difficult. How do you make sure there is no abuse. Son & daughters a bit short of money decide it would be a good idea to 'let' old mum & dad die so they can inherit. The list goes on.
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Originally Posted by mikewot
There is, my parents have written living wills, effectively they state that if they're on life support we pull the plug. By which I mean that we, the children, when asked by the medical staff, tell them to pull the plug.
http://www.ageuk.org.uk/money-matter.../living-wills/
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All I hope is nobody here ever has to deal with such a tragic situation.

Must be extremely difficult for the individual and those around have to make that call.
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Old Jul 28th 2013, 5:16 pm
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Yes it absolutely should be legal. Until you are in the situation you have no idea how you'll feel whether its you or a loved one. All these prolife groups- it's such a personal choice, everyone is different and everyone should be entitled to end their life if they choose to without their family facing legal action.

As we all live longer draining the states resources i wonder if they would legalise it.
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I have often wondered the following

if you are diagnosed with one of those hideous diseases that will leave you alive but in a useless body; when do you decide its time to go of your own accord. By that I mean that said guy asks his wife/family for assistance to help him go because he is now too ****ed to do it himself.
Wasn't there a point when said person thought, ah bollox the old arms are starting to go so I best pop the pills myself whilst I still can ?
I know you probably say just one day and then I'll do it myself but of course one day you cant pop the pills anymore

Hideous as I guess you will always want just more day
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Old Jul 28th 2013, 6:20 pm
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Euthanasia is legal in Holland and Belgium. It's not a taboo at all, and doctors are free to refuse to assist cause of religious or moral reasons, quite a few people I know have changed their GP because of this. There are rules and regulations in place.
I think it's good to have a choice when it comes to things like this.
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Originally Posted by Blue Cat
I remember watching that documentary about the assisted suicide place and thinking how brave these people were to end their own lives. I don't think I could do it to be honest with you.
If we're thinking about the same documentary, to me by far the saddest thing was that these more or less able-bodied individuals were forced into killing themselves before they needed to (i.e. before they became incapable of traveling to Switzerland). A truly compassionate society would have allowed them the dignity of being killed (for that is what is happening) at home in their own beds when they were really ready to go rather than when they thought they had no choice.
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Originally Posted by MataHari
Euthanasia is legal in Holland and Belgium. It's not a taboo at all, and doctors are free to refuse to assist cause of religious or moral reasons, quite a few people I know have changed their GP because of this. There are rules and regulations in place.
I think it's good to have a choice when it comes to things like this.
The UK, and many other countries, could from these examples.
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Some interesting comments on the BBC site http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-23520391
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Rights imply duties. If you have a right to die, someone must have the duty to kill you.
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Originally Posted by scot47
Rights imply duties. If you have a right to die, someone must have the duty to kill you.
Not necessarily.
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Originally Posted by Meow
Not necessarily.
no duty...just a choice. If somebody is really serious about "right to die" then they know that there is a short window of opportunity between..having a quality of life and being able to end that life.
I have plans in place for various scenarios.... If I have an accident and am on life support ..my family/friends know to pull the plug...no ifs no buts just pull it. I do not want to survive to be in a vegetative state.

I know that I do not want to become a burden to anybody...I don't believe that you should burden your children to care for you through your old age... I don't have children... but I have plans so that when I feel that I can no longer look after myself then I will pull the plug. I am not being melodramatic, my friends know exactly what I mean... for me it is about Quality rather than Quantity.
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Originally Posted by Patsy Stoned
no duty...just a choice. If somebody is really serious about "right to die" then they know that there is a short window of opportunity between..having a quality of life and being able to end that life.
I have plans in place for various scenarios.... If I have an accident and am on life support ..my family/friends know to pull the plug...no ifs no buts just pull it. I do not want to survive to be in a vegetative state.

I know that I do not want to become a burden to anybody...I don't believe that you should burden your children to care for you through your old age... I don't have children... but I have plans so that when I feel that I can no longer look after myself then I will pull the plug. I am not being melodramatic, my friends know exactly what I mean... for me it is about Quality rather than Quantity.
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