adamcarts

Hello all newbie here. I am hoping I can get some really great help and advice in the minefield of trying to move to the USA.

My story is that at 54 I thought I would never find love again. Well I have. And I have been with a lovely american lady for over 14 months now. We have visited each other several times and we want to marry in the future. I have used the ESTA. Unfortunately she is only separated currently as her estranged husband won't give her a divorce.

So I obviously want to be near to her while we wait. As far as I can tell its almost an impossibility. I used to be an EMT for an NHS Ambulance service and I was hoping I could get an EMT or a healthcare job there. So far I have been unsuccessful hence my reason for coming here. I guess I am looking in the wrong places.

If anyone could offer any help or advice I would be very grateful as these tearful goodbye's at the airport are killing both of us (I know I am a soppy old git).

Thanks
Adam

christmasoompa

Hi, and welcome to BE.

I'd suggest you ask your question in the immigration section of the US forums, where the very knowledgable folks there will be able to help you and advise if there's any visa you may be eligible for or if you'll need to wait until you're married.

Best of luck.

adamcarts

Thank you christmasoompa