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Originally Posted by TheWilliamsons
The UK is going to the DOGs. Everyone you speak to wants out because its not our country any more. Even on the UK news there were brits talking about wanting to get out if they could. The Government letting everyone in while we are fighting to get out and make a better life. The UK has nothing to offer my kids any more. The local school talk to you as if your rubbish and know nothing while the Florida school spoke to us as if we were adults and even more so spoke to my kids as humans and not just a pain in the rear end. Thes nothing for my kids to do in the area where as were our house is in Florida they have loads for them to do and also for us.
I want the best for my family and at this point in time its out of the UK as quickly as I packed the bags.
If it doesnt work for us in the states then i would still not come back id try other places rather then come back here.
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I want the best for my family and at this point in time its out of the UK as quickly as I packed the bags.
If it doesnt work for us in the states then i would still not come back id try other places rather then come back here.
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You mention the Government letting everyone in - but just as many get let in here, it's just a case of those people being from different countries. In CA I see more Mexicans than anything else, and many of them cannot even speak English - every letter I get from the school is written in Spanish and English!
Much of what is bad about the UK does not really affect the average person's day to day life - for many, it's more about reading the paper and getting angry, than actually being confronted with the problem on their own doorstep. I suspect it's just the same in the US; although in my case, I only ever read about immigration problems in the UK, whereas now I am in CA I am confronted by it every single day!
As for children having nothing to do, that all comes down to the type of area where you live. There are areas where there are things for children to do, and areas where there is nowt - this applies to the UK and the US. Education is another subject - and all I'll say is that having now lived in the US for a while, given the choice I would go back to England.
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Originally Posted by Bob
well the nice rosie picture that I replied to...health care is still shite here, education is still shite here...all the gloss with a big swimming pool and big house in a sunny climate doesn't make the place any different or better than the shite back in the UK.....it's just a different tint...
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Originally Posted by TheWilliamsons
The UK is going to the DOGs. ... The Government letting everyone in while we are fighting to get out and make a better life.
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Or are you 'good' immigrants, and 'they' are 'bad' immigrants?
I wonder who decides...
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Originally Posted by DonnaElvira
Let me get this straight: the UK is going to the dogs because of immigrants. So you have emigrated to another country. I believe this makes you immigrants - or not?
Or are you 'good' immigrants, and 'they' are 'bad' immigrants?
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Originally Posted by DonnaElvira
Let me get this straight: the UK is going to the dogs because of immigrants. So you have emigrated to another country. I believe this makes you immigrants - or not?
Or are you 'good' immigrants, and 'they' are 'bad' immigrants?
I wonder who decides...
Or are you 'good' immigrants, and 'they' are 'bad' immigrants?
I wonder who decides...
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Also, if the expat is forced through lack of money to return it must be very disheartening and sometimes even embarrassing. Might even feel like a big loser.
My point in saying this is merely that citizenship and a green card and living near to where you grew up aren't always magic bullets. They help immensely, but being flexible and taking advantage of every opportunity to get to know people and network are crucial.
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Originally Posted by snowbunny
I agree with this wholeheartedly and understand that dealing with a system that one didn't grow up in must be bewildering....
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Still at least if you survive the beaurocracy then you can look back and laugh...and if you ever do move back the UK the beaurocracy there will be childs play by comparison
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It's never really gone wrong for me. But getting a job after 10 months of EAD issue's and then resume sending certainly turned all the things that my wife and I had talked about doing once I got here, into reality. I've never been happier.
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Originally Posted by Ray
As usual.. Pimpbot never moans about anything... just gets on and enjoys his life... a person I admire very much...A few more like him would not go amiss.
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Originally Posted by DonnaElvira
"I think you get a very rose tinted view of the UK and it reminded me in general what a shithole it is."
Well, you can only speak for yourself, and if you feel that way about your home country, I'm sorry.
However, as someone who loves England I also find your comment rather insulting. You might perhaps want to moderate your comments somewhat in future...
Well, you can only speak for yourself, and if you feel that way about your home country, I'm sorry.
However, as someone who loves England I also find your comment rather insulting. You might perhaps want to moderate your comments somewhat in future...
They say you get what you pay for and i would agree with that - until you talk about the UK (well maybe just England [esp London] ) where you pay through the nose (the shirt already taken from your back) for an absolutly crappy service / product.
-we pay the equilivilant to $6.43 per gallon of unleaded here now.
public transport costs - don't even get me started
crumbling infrastrusture - how much tax do we pay ? and for what ? certinly not for the police or the NHS it would seem.
I'm sorry, I love the UK - I mean I really do love it here but it really isn't worth defending in an argument.
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Originally Posted by londonerdanny
I'm sorry Donna but Eskimo was right...
They say you get what you pay for and i would agree with that - until you talk about the UK (well maybe just England [esp London] ) where you pay through the nose (the shirt already taken from your back) for an absolutly crappy service / product.
-we pay the equilivilant to $6.43 per gallon of unleaded here now.
public transport costs - don't even get me started
crumbling infrastrusture - how much tax do we pay ? and for what ? certinly not for the police or the NHS it would seem.
I'm sorry, I love the UK - I mean I really do love it here but it really isn't worth defending in an argument.
P.S. this is my first post (hello everybody
) - I'm planning to marry my US fiancee and moving to Missouri in the near future.
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They say you get what you pay for and i would agree with that - until you talk about the UK (well maybe just England [esp London] ) where you pay through the nose (the shirt already taken from your back) for an absolutly crappy service / product.
-we pay the equilivilant to $6.43 per gallon of unleaded here now.
public transport costs - don't even get me started
crumbling infrastrusture - how much tax do we pay ? and for what ? certinly not for the police or the NHS it would seem.
I'm sorry, I love the UK - I mean I really do love it here but it really isn't worth defending in an argument.
P.S. this is my first post (hello everybody
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Originally Posted by londonerdanny
P.S. this is my first post (hello everybody
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Originally Posted by londonerdanny
I love the UK - I mean I really do love it here
Anyway, welcome, and I hope it works out for you here in the only perfect country on the planet (not).
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Originally Posted by londonerdanny
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I had an argument with a mate about the cost of motoring and that its about the same in the US and the UK, he wouldnt believe me until I did this calc for him:
US:
Petrol costs (now) 2.14 per US gallon (A US gallon only 3.75 liters) so thats 58c per liter.
Average car ecomony = 22mpg (22 / 3.75= 5.8miles per liter) = 10c per mile for fuel
Average US insurance = (approx) $600 per 6 months = $1200 per year.
Assume 12000 miles per year, average Ins costs = 10c per mile.
UK:
Petrol costs (now) 82p per litre. (4.5 litres per UK gallon)
Average car economy = 33mpg (33 / 4.5 = 7.3 miles per liter) = 12p per mile.
Average UK insurance = (approx) 500 per year.
Assume 12000 miles per year, average Ins costs = 4p per mile.
Plus Tax and MOT (200 per year) = 2p per mile
So US costs per mile = 20c, UK costs per mile = 18p.
Of course this doesnt factor in the cost of servicing and consumables such as tyres (they are about the same in each country). And then over here theres not much of an option but to drive everywhere. At least in the UK you can get a bus...no matter how crappy it may be. Still....no-ones taking my 5.3 liter V8 chevy off me
Now could all the people in Britain please stop complaining about the cost of petrol. Its not all it seems
US:
Petrol costs (now) 2.14 per US gallon (A US gallon only 3.75 liters) so thats 58c per liter.
Average car ecomony = 22mpg (22 / 3.75= 5.8miles per liter) = 10c per mile for fuel
Average US insurance = (approx) $600 per 6 months = $1200 per year.
Assume 12000 miles per year, average Ins costs = 10c per mile.
UK:
Petrol costs (now) 82p per litre. (4.5 litres per UK gallon)
Average car economy = 33mpg (33 / 4.5 = 7.3 miles per liter) = 12p per mile.
Average UK insurance = (approx) 500 per year.
Assume 12000 miles per year, average Ins costs = 4p per mile.
Plus Tax and MOT (200 per year) = 2p per mile
So US costs per mile = 20c, UK costs per mile = 18p.
Of course this doesnt factor in the cost of servicing and consumables such as tyres (they are about the same in each country). And then over here theres not much of an option but to drive everywhere. At least in the UK you can get a bus...no matter how crappy it may be. Still....no-ones taking my 5.3 liter V8 chevy off me
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Now could all the people in Britain please stop complaining about the cost of petrol. Its not all it seems
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