What's your LEAST favorite thing about the US?
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What's your LEAST favorite thing about the US?
I have lived here for 14 years now. I generally like it but I've heard people complain about many different issues. Here are some of the things that irk me:
- dealing with health insurance and health coverage issues
- totally broken immigration system (too many illegal immigrants, too much family class immigration, not enough skilled worker immigration, etc.)
- a relative lack of culture (too many homogeneous cities and suburbs)
- the political system (total gridlock where nothing gets done; especially with a 2 party system)
- the absence of a social safety net (lose your job and you're likely weeks from living on the street)
- "at will" employment
- poor public transportation
- pedestrian unfriendly
- relatively high crime and murder rates (guns, gangs, etc)
- urban blight and poverty on a scale rarely seen in other developed countries
- dealing with health insurance and health coverage issues
- totally broken immigration system (too many illegal immigrants, too much family class immigration, not enough skilled worker immigration, etc.)
- a relative lack of culture (too many homogeneous cities and suburbs)
- the political system (total gridlock where nothing gets done; especially with a 2 party system)
- the absence of a social safety net (lose your job and you're likely weeks from living on the street)
- "at will" employment
- poor public transportation
- pedestrian unfriendly
- relatively high crime and murder rates (guns, gangs, etc)
- urban blight and poverty on a scale rarely seen in other developed countries
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Re: What's your LEAST favorite thing about the US?
I agree with most of yours, mine are coloured by where I live, the northeast. Could be argued that if I went to live on the west coast or the southwest, most of these wouldn't be issues.
- Horribly cold winters
- Disgustingly hot summers
- Humid summers
- Mosquitoes
- Deer flies
- Blackflies
- Folks who believe the US Creation Mythology without subjecting it to rudimentary historical rigour
- People who think it was wrong of the British to sack & burn Washington DC during the War of 1812
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Re: What's your LEAST favorite thing about the US?
The degree to which people here are self absorbed.
People are in their own little bubbles, and anything outside the bubble is simply not considered. Hence the poor standard of driving I see daily.
In almost every encounter I have had, once that person's bubble is pricked, they're genuinely helpful, interested, interesting people.
It's not that these behaviours are specifically American, just the extent to which I have encountered it is highest here, by a lot.
Prices that don't include sales tax, or operations where tipping is expected. Paying somebody below minimum wage and expecting them to make it up on tips is just shit for them and sours the relation with the customer, in my mind.
So I guess I'd add the view that business has a god-given right to screw you over. If you don't like it go to court. If you can afford it. In the land of the free.
The TV experience is just utter utter utter crap, thanks to the way the ads are shown, and their quality. Many US shows are shit but there are some real gems. Just like back home. It's just that here, there seems to be more of them.
The policing approach. I know it's tough, dangerous, and easy to have a go at from the safety of my arm chair, but using firearms & tazers 'willy nilly' doesn't help anybody in the end.
People are in their own little bubbles, and anything outside the bubble is simply not considered. Hence the poor standard of driving I see daily.
In almost every encounter I have had, once that person's bubble is pricked, they're genuinely helpful, interested, interesting people.
It's not that these behaviours are specifically American, just the extent to which I have encountered it is highest here, by a lot.
Prices that don't include sales tax, or operations where tipping is expected. Paying somebody below minimum wage and expecting them to make it up on tips is just shit for them and sours the relation with the customer, in my mind.
So I guess I'd add the view that business has a god-given right to screw you over. If you don't like it go to court. If you can afford it. In the land of the free.
The TV experience is just utter utter utter crap, thanks to the way the ads are shown, and their quality. Many US shows are shit but there are some real gems. Just like back home. It's just that here, there seems to be more of them.
The policing approach. I know it's tough, dangerous, and easy to have a go at from the safety of my arm chair, but using firearms & tazers 'willy nilly' doesn't help anybody in the end.
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Re: What's your LEAST favorite thing about the US?
And she's not even from DC...
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Re: What's your LEAST favorite thing about the US?
The degree to which people here are self absorbed.
People are in their own little bubbles, and anything outside the bubble is simply not considered. Hence the poor standard of driving I see daily.
In almost every encounter I have had, once that person's bubble is pricked, they're genuinely helpful, interested, interesting people.
It's not that these behaviours are specifically American, just the extent to which I have encountered it is highest here, by a lot.
People are in their own little bubbles, and anything outside the bubble is simply not considered. Hence the poor standard of driving I see daily.
In almost every encounter I have had, once that person's bubble is pricked, they're genuinely helpful, interested, interesting people.
It's not that these behaviours are specifically American, just the extent to which I have encountered it is highest here, by a lot.
I guess this doesn't stand out for me as much - maybe because I grew up dealing with the police in Northern Ireland during "The Troubles". There's over zealous policing everywhere. There were issues with the G20 protests in Canada and the UK in recent years. Also, I think police in the US are dealing with a more heavily armed population.
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Re: What's your LEAST favorite thing about the US?
Though that said, I'm sure Germans find life in Britain obnoxious at times for similar reasons.
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Re: What's your LEAST favorite thing about the US?
I wish the sun didn't shine every day, and that it would be grey and gloomy more often. Grey brightens my mood.
I wish that petrol was more expensive, so that I would have to ride the bus more often. I then would be able to stand outside in the cold, wind and rain, getting splashed while waiting for an overdue bus.
I wish I couldn't turn right on red - it would give me more time to be in my own little bubble.
I wish surgery wouldn't be scheduled quite as quickly. I would rather put off an operation for about 18 months - to give me time to get worse, then I could stay in hospital longer.
I wish the police were slower in reaction time. If I'm going to loot a shop, I enjoy knowing that I have time to pick and choose.
I wish they wouldn't wrap bread and baked goods in cellophane. If they leave them unwrapped on the counter. you can pick it up and smell it, squeeze it, and put it back down again if you don't want it.
I wish windows didn't have screens on them. I have a big fly swatter, and I would enjoy chasing flies and wasps around the house.
I wish there wasn't ample parking outside places of business, doctor's, dentist, etc. I would prefer to park in a car park at a high fee for a few hours.
I wish the beaches were more crowded. It's boring when someone's else's kids aren't screaming in your ear, and throwing sand on you.
I wish there was more dog poo around. I could do with the exercise from jumping over it.
I wish people wouldn't smile so much, and be so friendly. It confuses me. They should complain more.
I wish there more threads on BE about what is wrong with the US, and how the UK is better in every aspect. I could buy myself a one-way ticket to the UK to savour utopia. Then I could kick myself for not buying a return ticket!
I wish that petrol was more expensive, so that I would have to ride the bus more often. I then would be able to stand outside in the cold, wind and rain, getting splashed while waiting for an overdue bus.
I wish I couldn't turn right on red - it would give me more time to be in my own little bubble.
I wish surgery wouldn't be scheduled quite as quickly. I would rather put off an operation for about 18 months - to give me time to get worse, then I could stay in hospital longer.
I wish the police were slower in reaction time. If I'm going to loot a shop, I enjoy knowing that I have time to pick and choose.
I wish they wouldn't wrap bread and baked goods in cellophane. If they leave them unwrapped on the counter. you can pick it up and smell it, squeeze it, and put it back down again if you don't want it.
I wish windows didn't have screens on them. I have a big fly swatter, and I would enjoy chasing flies and wasps around the house.
I wish there wasn't ample parking outside places of business, doctor's, dentist, etc. I would prefer to park in a car park at a high fee for a few hours.
I wish the beaches were more crowded. It's boring when someone's else's kids aren't screaming in your ear, and throwing sand on you.
I wish there was more dog poo around. I could do with the exercise from jumping over it.
I wish people wouldn't smile so much, and be so friendly. It confuses me. They should complain more.
I wish there more threads on BE about what is wrong with the US, and how the UK is better in every aspect. I could buy myself a one-way ticket to the UK to savour utopia. Then I could kick myself for not buying a return ticket!
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Re: What's your LEAST favorite thing about the US?
I wish the sun didn't shine every day, and that it would be grey and gloomy more often. Grey brightens my mood.
I wish that petrol was more expensive, so that I would have to ride the bus more often. I then would be able to stand outside in the cold, wind and rain, getting splashed while waiting for an overdue bus.
I wish I couldn't turn right on red - it would give me more time to be in my own little bubble.
I wish surgery wouldn't be scheduled quite as quickly. I would rather put off an operation for about 18 months - to give me time to get worse, then I could stay in hospital longer.
I wish the police were slower in reaction time. If I'm going to loot a shop, I enjoy knowing that I have time to pick and choose.
I wish they wouldn't wrap bread and baked goods in cellophane. If they leave them unwrapped on the counter. you can pick it up and smell it, squeeze it, and put it back down again if you don't want it.
I wish windows didn't have screens on them. I have a big fly swatter, and I would enjoy chasing flies and wasps around the house.
I wish there wasn't ample parking outside places of business, doctor's, dentist, etc. I would prefer to park in a car park at a high fee for a few hours.
I wish the beaches were more crowded. It's boring when someone's else's kids aren't screaming in your ear, and throwing sand on you.
I wish there was more dog poo around. I could do with the exercise from jumping over it.
I wish people wouldn't smile so much, and be so friendly. It confuses me. They should complain more.
I wish there more threads on BE about what is wrong with the US, and how the UK is better in every aspect. I could buy myself a one-way ticket to the UK to savour utopia. Then I could kick myself for not buying a return ticket!
I wish that petrol was more expensive, so that I would have to ride the bus more often. I then would be able to stand outside in the cold, wind and rain, getting splashed while waiting for an overdue bus.
I wish I couldn't turn right on red - it would give me more time to be in my own little bubble.
I wish surgery wouldn't be scheduled quite as quickly. I would rather put off an operation for about 18 months - to give me time to get worse, then I could stay in hospital longer.
I wish the police were slower in reaction time. If I'm going to loot a shop, I enjoy knowing that I have time to pick and choose.
I wish they wouldn't wrap bread and baked goods in cellophane. If they leave them unwrapped on the counter. you can pick it up and smell it, squeeze it, and put it back down again if you don't want it.
I wish windows didn't have screens on them. I have a big fly swatter, and I would enjoy chasing flies and wasps around the house.
I wish there wasn't ample parking outside places of business, doctor's, dentist, etc. I would prefer to park in a car park at a high fee for a few hours.
I wish the beaches were more crowded. It's boring when someone's else's kids aren't screaming in your ear, and throwing sand on you.
I wish there was more dog poo around. I could do with the exercise from jumping over it.
I wish people wouldn't smile so much, and be so friendly. It confuses me. They should complain more.
I wish there more threads on BE about what is wrong with the US, and how the UK is better in every aspect. I could buy myself a one-way ticket to the UK to savour utopia. Then I could kick myself for not buying a return ticket!
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Re: What's your LEAST favorite thing about the US?
The fact that they drive on he wrong side of the road
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Re: What's your LEAST favorite thing about the US?
I know. I remember visiting a museum in the UK with OH, either the National Maritime Museum in Greenwich or the Royal Naval Museum in Portsmouth, and pointing out that the city on fire in the background of a portrait of an early 19th century naval officer was indeed her nation's capital, which said officer had had a hand in burning. For some reason she thought that was in very poor taste.
And she's not even from DC...
And she's not even from DC...
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Re: What's your LEAST favorite thing about the US?
I have lived here for 14 years now. I generally like it but I've heard people complain about many different issues. Here are some of the things that irk me:
- dealing with health insurance and health coverage issues
- totally broken immigration system (too many illegal immigrants, too much family class immigration, not enough skilled worker immigration, etc.)
- a relative lack of culture (too many homogeneous cities and suburbs)
- the political system (total gridlock where nothing gets done; especially with a 2 party system)
- the absence of a social safety net (lose your job and you're likely weeks from living on the street)
- "at will" employment
- poor public transportation
- pedestrian unfriendly
- relatively high crime and murder rates (guns, gangs, etc)
- urban blight and poverty on a scale rarely seen in other developed countries
- dealing with health insurance and health coverage issues
- totally broken immigration system (too many illegal immigrants, too much family class immigration, not enough skilled worker immigration, etc.)
- a relative lack of culture (too many homogeneous cities and suburbs)
- the political system (total gridlock where nothing gets done; especially with a 2 party system)
- the absence of a social safety net (lose your job and you're likely weeks from living on the street)
- "at will" employment
- poor public transportation
- pedestrian unfriendly
- relatively high crime and murder rates (guns, gangs, etc)
- urban blight and poverty on a scale rarely seen in other developed countries
On the other side there is the lovely weather, the outdoor life style, proximity to so many things to do and so on. Yes, there are problems here, just like in every other country in the world. The grass isn't any greener, it's just a slightly different shade.
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Re: What's your LEAST favorite thing about the US?
No-one said the UK was better. But the US does have problems like anywhere else.
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Re: What's your LEAST favorite thing about the US?
I agree with this 100%. I love grey skies and temperatures in the 40s and 50s. Blue skies & hot temperatures get old quickly.