want to wed and need as much help as poss
 

Hi guys
I hope someone can help us with this subject, i did try to post before but to no avail... here is the situation and i'm sure most of you have read this over and over before.

I'm from england my girlfriend is in usa. we want to get married and have looked at the visa's etc, we see that this can be done in several ways and we dont want to get it wrong where as i cant go live in the usa with her, but at the moment we are thinking of just getting married on a visa waiver, but i am worried once we do that i wont be able to live with her, or even worse not be allowed in usa again...the visa system is so complicated as i guess you all know, but we do have one major problem, she cant afford to sponor me, and it seems like a chicken and egg situation.... no work no visa, no visa no work etc....

we are thinking of getting wed on the visa waiver program so i have posted this to see what advice as regards pitfalls etc, i thank you all in advance of any advice you give....

thanx and kindest of regards
Wayne