US a bit trigger happy with the fiance visa? How do I...
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ps,
There are a few million long-term unemployed people here in the USA who might disagree with that. A number of them have started threads here bemoaning the fact.
Regards, JEff
There are a few million long-term unemployed people here in the USA who might disagree with that. A number of them have started threads here bemoaning the fact.
Regards, JEff
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Re: US a bit trigger happy with the fiance visa? How do I...
You're right. I think my immediate knee-jerk reaction was "OMG I have to get married in 90 days!", not realizing the entire process before getting to that point. LOL
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Thanks for your messages. Yes, you're right, I'm totally frustrated. I thought the US was all about bending the rules. Hard to swallow that aliens that cross the borders illegally have more rights and benefits than actual life-long citizens. But what can you do? Nada...
EDIT: I stand corrected; they do have certain basic human rights, as they should. However, they do NOT have the right to remain in the U.S.
I'd recommend that you read the horror stories on this board, and I believe that you will want to do it the "right" way. "Bending the rules" is about as advisable as Russian roulette -- works out for some, REALLY goes bad for others. (And if you really want to see how much they DON'T bend the rules, please see my recent thread whose subject line begins with "$585".)
Best wishes!
-- Jim
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However, they do NOT have the right to remain in the U.S.
And if you really want to see how much they DON'T bend the rules, please see my recent thread whose subject line begins with "$585".
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My opinions on that topic are posted in *that* thread, so no need to re-hash them here... suffice it to say that I respectfully disagree with the "you alone" portion of your post.
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Just a small note for the new Midwest posters here who've never left the town they were born in: this site is full of bloody immigrants.
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I am all for immigrants who come here legally, which I would imagine includes most, if not all, who are on this site. In fact, oddly enough, I am madly in love with a *certain* prospective immigrant.
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It may cause you to rethink some of your stereotypes. Let's face it: everyone knows at least one good immigrant.
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And though I don't know them personally, everyone here seems to be of decent character, so they'd also be on that list.
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Wow! An international man of mystery, no less. So with all these great influences, where did it all go wrong?
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I guess I was thinking mainly of Oklahoma - know they are not so immigrant friendly anymore. And I did think several more states had made it harder for kids to get into schools w/out proper documentation.
I do believe hospitals won't turn anyone away though - don't think they can. So that part is true enough.
No rant from me - I'm zen, remember?
I do believe hospitals won't turn anyone away though - don't think they can. So that part is true enough.
No rant from me - I'm zen, remember?
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Yep - that's what I thought I'd said (re: health care).
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My comment wasn't about you... it was intended to demonstrate to bohemianprincess that your comment had no bearing whatsoever on her questions (read = non sequitur). She suggested that the US was "all about bending the rules", you responded that they "don't bend the rules"... so I clarified for her that your response wasn't actually related to the US not bending the rules.