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Old Feb 28th 2011, 10:37 pm
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Originally Posted by dollface
I'm torn too Sal UK or US I know i've done my time in Canada - winters too long for me amongst other stuff.
It's very hard to advise - you could love it or be walking into another world of pain. Is it a good job offer (I presume transfer), are there any opportunities back home?
Originally Posted by N1cky
and virtually deserted due to the crap weather and rotting wildlife
People seem to like Carpinteria, Santa Barbara seems OK.

PS The kids have just come in from school, I asked them if it's good for teenagers here. My daughter said, "The guys say the Thousand Oaks girls are HOT"

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It's very hard to advise - you could love it or be walking into another world of pain. Is it a good job offer (I presume transfer), are there any opportunities back home?


People seem to like Carpinteria, Santa Barbara seems OK.
Only thinking about it for now - transfer very probable in the future - job opportunity better in TO - I feel very mixed.
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Only thinking about it for now - transfer very probable in the future - job opportunity better in TO - I feel very mixed.
Have you visited?
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Have you visited?
That will happen April/May time...........
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That will happen April/May time...........
That will give you more of an idea - maybe try to see some schools - let me know if I can help with anything.
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Old Feb 28th 2011, 11:28 pm
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That will give you more of an idea - maybe try to see some schools - let me know if I can help with anything.
Thank Sal so Moorpark etc bush fire country?
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Thank Sal so Moorpark etc bush fire country?
Yes. I don't know what kind of house you would be looking at, if you are going to be in a house in the middle of an estate you'll be fine. It's the ones that have the lovely views that potentially have the problems.
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Yes. I don't know what kind of house you would be looking at, if you are going to be in a house in the middle of an estate you'll be fine. It's the ones that have the lovely views that potentially have the problems.
Isn't that just typical! Do you love living in California?
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Isn't that just typical! Do you love living in California?
Oh yes.

Er, tricky question. I didn't like LA, I lived in Woodland Hills very close to Sally. I found it soulless, LA is not really a city, but lots of cities running into each other. Most places don't feel like they have anything unique to offer, you just go from 1 city to the next seeing the same shops in the same malls, and the same chain restaurants and grocery stores. I hated having to go everywhere in the car, and couldn't really cope with the excess heat in the summer months.

There are some fantastic things to do in LA, but to get to Downtown for instance would take a minimum of 1 hour (20 miles away), possibly 2 hours, from TO you are looking at another 20 minutes. I found by the time we had organized ourselves to do something on a weekend, it was already too late and too hot to bother.

And mainly I found it really hard to make friends there.

I'm now in the Bay Area in a small city with a high street with restaurants and shops I can walk to. People are friendlier, Mums at school, neighbors, just people I see walking the dog.

So, now I really like living in California, I didn't like living in LA.
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Oh yes.

Er, tricky question. I didn't like LA, I lived in Woodland Hills very close to Sally. I found it soulless, LA is not really a city, but lots of cities running into each other. Most places don't feel like they have anything unique to offer, you just go from 1 city to the next seeing the same shops in the same malls, and the same chain restaurants and grocery stores. I hated having to go everywhere in the car, and couldn't really cope with the excess heat in the summer months.

There are some fantastic things to do in LA, but to get to Downtown for instance would take a minimum of 1 hour (20 miles away), possibly 2 hours, from TO you are looking at another 20 minutes. I found by the time we had organized ourselves to do something on a weekend, it was already too late and too hot to bother.

And mainly I found it really hard to make friends there.

I'm now in the Bay Area in a small city with a high street with restaurants and shops I can walk to. People are friendlier, Mums at school, neighbors, just people I see walking the dog.

So, now I really like living in California, I didn't like living in LA.
I've heard alot of good things about the Bay Area, I have family in Martinez. Sadly TO is where the work is

Everything you've just stated about LA area is exactly how I feel about here - except the friends, I have a few here - all but 2 are Brits.
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Almost everywhere around here has a high fire risk. Getting caught in a big brush fire shortly after we moved here really rattled me.

Don't forget the earthquakes.

I would agree with Nicky, bit dead and soulless out this way. I liked it better when we lived in mid-Wilshire, but we moved out here for schools. I think somewhere like Ventura would have more of the individual/small town feel.

Most people agree it's hard to make friends here (LA).
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Almost everywhere around here has a high fire risk. Getting caught in a big brush fire shortly after we moved here really rattled me.

Don't forget the earthquakes.

I would agree with Nicky, bit dead and soulless out this way. I liked it better when we lived in mid-Wilshire, but we moved out here for schools. I think somewhere like Ventura would have more of the individual/small town feel.

Most people agree it's hard to make friends here (LA).
Well you're really selling the place to me now why is it hard to make friends Sal? whats up with the folks? are there many Brits there?
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I've heard alot of good things about the Bay Area, I have family in Martinez. Sadly TO is where the work is

Everything you've just stated about LA area is exactly how I feel about here - except the friends, I have a few here - all but 2 are Brits.
It's not a bad place, its just not what I want out of life. I work with people who have lived in TO all their life who think it is the best place on earth. They go home from work everyday, bbq or eat at a chain restaurant and are in bed for 10pm. They spend their weekends either getting up at 5am to go for a run, or doing nothing but sit indoors to keep out of the heat. Some people have never been to The Getty, or the Farmers Market, to go to DisneyLand they have to book a hotel for the night as everything is too far away. To me these are the people TO is perfect for.
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Well you're really selling the place to me now why is it hard to make friends Sal? whats up with the folks? are there many Brits there?
I'm actually being really positive

It's known as the land of fruits and nuts Botox, implants, exercise, self.

There are actually a lot of Brits in Thousand Oaks mainly because of the Pharma companies, that might make the transition easier for you. I know a few at Amgen and Baxter.
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It's not a bad place, its just not what I want out of life. I work with people who have lived in TO all their life who think it is the best place on earth. They go home from work everyday, bbq or eat at a chain restaurant and are in bed for 10pm. They spend their weekends either getting up at 5am to go for a run, or doing nothing but sit indoors to keep out of the heat. Some people have never been to The Getty, or the Farmers Market, to go to DisneyLand they have to book a hotel for the night as everything is too far away. To me these are the people TO is perfect for.
Yep sounds familiar.
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