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Old Sep 26th 2013, 6:03 pm
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Originally Posted by dfrbrowne
What do you mean, not being able to order water in restaurants? Its something we always ask for hear in england, A jug of tap water for the table so the kids can still have a drink after they have drank their juice or coke.
I take it you aren't here yet.

They will SERVE water, but getting them to understand you WANT water?

Yeah... Good luck with that.
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Old Sep 26th 2013, 6:05 pm
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Originally Posted by Nutek
I take it you aren't here yet.

They will SERVE water, but getting them to understand you WANT water?

Yeah... Good luck with that.
You're going to way too fancy restaurants. I go to the places here where they give everyone a glass of water as soon as they know how many are at the table ...
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Old Sep 26th 2013, 6:09 pm
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It can be difficult to get people to understand English...it's all in the pronunciation.

Wadder...water
Baddery...battery
Budder...butter
Dawg...dog

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Old Sep 26th 2013, 6:11 pm
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over on sunday for a weeks orientation, then the move in dec, jan

I might try that and see what happens...

"Can I have some water for the table please"
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Originally Posted by dfrbrowne
Weird... it was like I was all tensed up about stuff (driving / backward dates / not being able to order water in restaurants ), without even realizing it.


What do you mean, not being able to order water in restaurants? Its something we always ask for hear in england, A jug of tap water for the table so the kids can still have a drink after they have drank their juice or coke.
It seems "water" is hard to understand over here...a few threads on it....just say "wadder"...
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Originally Posted by Jerseygirl
It can be difficult to get people to understand English...it's all in the pronunciation.

Wadder...water
Baddery...battery
Budder...butter
Dawg...dog
Ledduce ... lettuce, etc. etc.

Originally Posted by SultanOfSwing
You're going to way too fancy restaurants. I go to the places here where they give everyone a glass of water as soon as they know how many are at the table ...
IME It is only the "fancy" ones that do that. .... Or are you dining at places where tea or soda is out of most customers' price range?


Originally Posted by dfrbrowne
.... we always ask for here in England, A jug of tap water for the table so the kids can still have a drink after they have drank their juice or coke.
From New England to Florida, and west to California, I have never seen a jug of water placed on the table. By having to come back frequently to "check on the drinks", the waiter(ess) can demonstrate "good service" in the hope that he/she will get a good tip.

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In one shop I could not make them understand the word 'milk'.

MIIIIILLLLK?
MULK?
MILK?
MEERRRLLLK?

My American friend walked in and asked for milk and they said 'Oh! MILK!'
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Originally Posted by SultanOfSwing
You're going to way too fancy restaurants. I go to the places here where they give everyone a glass of water as soon as they know how many are at the table ...
It's one word on a long list that I just cannot get people to understand when I try to use it.
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Originally Posted by dfrbrowne
over on sunday for a weeks orientation, then the move in dec, jan

I might try that and see what happens...

"Can I have some water for the table please"
Putting "please" at the end seems to make it worse.
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Originally Posted by Jerseygirl
It can be difficult to get people to understand English...it's all in the pronunciation.

Dawg...dog

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Originally Posted by Nutek
It's one word on a long list that I just cannot get people to understand when I try to use it.
Maybe you should just stay home, and hide in the closet if anyone visits. It would be safer for all concerned that way.
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Maybe you should just stay home, and hide in the closet if anyone visits. It would be safer for all concerned that way.
You mean like on weeknights.
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Old Sep 26th 2013, 6:20 pm
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Originally Posted by Nutek
Putting "please" at the end seems to make it worse.
Childish, I know .. but I always say "please" and "thank you" at every single conceivable opportunity, the poor waitperson then has to say "you're welcome" every single time. They certainly earn their tip!!
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Old Sep 26th 2013, 6:22 pm
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Originally Posted by robin1234
Childish, I know .. but I always say "please" and "thank you" at every single conceivable opportunity, the poor waitperson then has to say "you're welcome" every single time. They certainly earn their tip!!


I do too, but that's cos my mum beat it into me.
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Old Sep 26th 2013, 6:24 pm
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Originally Posted by Nutek
Putting "please" at the end seems to make it worse.
Yup!

I have real difficulty ordering diet drinks. I'm back to drinking regular, I've given up. No one ever seems to be able to understand me.

For the longest time I also had difficulty ordering Dr Pepper. They'd always think I would say Coke or Sprite (seriously?! WTF?!) My wife found it hilarious. Me, not so much. I just wanted my Dr Pepper.
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