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christmasoompa Oct 12th 2025 8:24 am

Re: Relocating to US from UK
 

Originally Posted by Rete (Post 13327185)
I lived in New York and worked in New York City and up until 8 years ago I lived quite nicely on just under $100K a year. Not everyone needs a big house in a tony suburb.

If the OP were single, it may be doable. But not with a family to support IMO.


wcoastwalk22 Oct 12th 2025 6:15 pm

Re: Relocating to US from UK
 

Originally Posted by ST1 (Post 13327143)
Thanks for the reply!

So the salaries vary from state to state as I'm sure you can imagine, but for my role in general (and I haven't checked all of the same roles in different states) but it's roughly -

Annual Salaries -
Texas - $145,000 - 160,000
New York - $105,000 - 160,000
Washington - $102,000 - 125,000

That's the rough base line of what it would be, some are a bit higher and it would depend what project I was assigned to ultimately as well as there could be a higher percentage again. From my experience level I would be at the higher end, I'm also just doing a rough average as until I took one of the roles, I haven't got a guaranteed figure.

I've spoken to a few colleagues who work in Texas as this is where the HQ is based and most of them enjoy it for various reasons, for us it would be my partner and child, child enjoys the outdoors activities, parks etc, and partner enjoys similar things, as long as she has easy access to shops and sites then she is fairly happy.

For us as a family, ideally we want somewhere that has a lot of variety on what we can do in our free time and plenty of places to go. Ideally somewhere with fairly low crime in comparison, and somewhere with good schools/community really. Getting back to the UK is not massively important, I think the option to come back to visit family etc would always be there. For the Visa option I have through the company we would be eligible for a Green card after 12 months, the Visa it's self lasts for 7 years.

I live in socal and have children working in CA tech companies. If location for Washington is around Seattle, the salary would not support a family's reasonably comfortable life. A fresh new grad working in tech easily earn more than that and Seattle is one of the tech concentrated cities. This pushes up rent and house price significantly. In fact lots of families have two earners working in tech and over 250k/yr each is fairly common and they don't generally think they are wealthy. In cities where many tech companies tend to locate, their employee salaries are well above average people, which includes like SF/Bay area, west LA, NY City, Boston and of course Seattle, even Austin though it is considered much affordable (by tech industry standard).

As some comments already mentioned, TX living costs are much lower but the hot weather is a challenge even for local people. Months after months of daily temp over 36C plus humidity makes enjoying outdoor activities a luxury except swimming. Mosquito is more than annoyance in many places due to humid weather for half of the year. You need to run AC non-stop for weeks if not months because otherwise mould would destroy stuff in home. On the other hand late autumn to spring is nice without snow. I would suggest spend a couple of weeks during summer (May to Sept) to get real feeling of it first.

morpeth Oct 12th 2025 8:01 pm

Re: Relocating to US from UK
 

Originally Posted by ST1 (Post 13327143)
Thanks for the reply!

So the salaries vary from state to state as I'm sure you can imagine, but for my role in general (and I haven't checked all of the same roles in different states) but it's roughly -

Annual Salaries -
Texas - $145,000 - 160,000
New York - $105,000 - 160,000
Washington - $102,000 - 125,000

That's the rough base line of what it would be, some are a bit higher and it would depend what project I was assigned to ultimately as well as there could be a higher percentage again. From my experience level I would be at the higher end, I'm also just doing a rough average as until I took one of the roles, I haven't got a guaranteed figure.

I've spoken to a few colleagues who work in Texas as this is where the HQ is based and most of them enjoy it for various reasons, for us it would be my partner and child, child enjoys the outdoors activities, parks etc, and partner enjoys similar things, as long as she has easy access to shops and sites then she is fairly happy.

For us as a family, ideally we want somewhere that has a lot of variety on what we can do in our free time and plenty of places to go. Ideally somewhere with fairly low crime in comparison, and somewhere with good schools/community really. Getting back to the UK is not massively important, I think the option to come back to visit family etc would always be there. For the Visa option I have through the company we would be eligible for a Green card after 12 months, the Visa it's self lasts for 7 years.

Texas probably the best bet, though for Washington if eastern Washington it is very nice part of the country for a family, NY can be expensive.

ST1 Oct 12th 2025 11:34 pm

Re: Relocating to US from UK
 
Thanks everyone.

I will see if I can get a more confirmed number on potential salaries and then come back and hopefully that will help a little bit, but the feedback has helped greatly, thanks all.

durham_lad Oct 13th 2025 3:25 am

Re: Relocating to US from UK
 
For the last 13 years of our time in the USA we lived in The Woodlands, just north of Houston and where many large corporations have their headquarters. Very nice place, population about 120,000 and very well laid out, a series of “villages” around a town center. We had adult children so can’t comment on the schools there. Our daughter went to university in Austin and she worked there for a few years afterwards. Both Austin and The Woodlands were good places to live but I much preferred Austin.

Rete Oct 13th 2025 4:08 am

Re: Relocating to US from UK
 
Whatever was I thinking. I know, I was thinking as an American with only a college degree who worked in an industry unrelated to the degree. Shame on me for assuming foreigners might be comfortable with my way of life.

postbox134 Oct 13th 2025 4:46 am

Re: Relocating to US from UK
 

Originally Posted by Rete (Post 13327286)
Whatever was I thinking. I know, I was thinking as an American with only a college degree who worked in an industry unrelated to the degree. Shame on me for assuming foreigners might be comfortable with my way of life.

The issue is, compared to your experience, someone moving internationally automatically has a higher cost of living than a local. Most Brits assume America is cheap, partially a hangover from the £2:$1 exchange rate of 20 years ago. Plus, no one moves across the world to merely scrape by.
  • Unaware of the cost of certain items, for example groceries anywhere around NYC is enormously more expensive than the UK
  • The cost of travelling home occasionally to visit friends and family
  • Budgeting for healthcare costs which you've never had to do before - even with good employer insurance
  • Not having a network of friends/family to help share the costs of things (for example, most Americans I know split their cell phone plan with someone else).
  • The physical cost of moving and starting from scratch is very expensive.
  • Visa restrictions can mean that there's only one person in the family who can work (i.e. H4)
Finally, there's no way you could buy any reasonable housing within a decent commute of Manhattan on a $100k single salary - you'll probably find even as an American starting again you'd be unable to afford even a modest lifestyle.

christmasoompa Oct 13th 2025 4:51 am

Re: Relocating to US from UK
 

Originally Posted by Rete (Post 13327286)
Whatever was I thinking. I know, I was thinking as an American with only a college degree who worked in an industry unrelated to the degree. Shame on me for assuming foreigners might be comfortable with my way of life.

It's not that, it's that it costs a LOT more for expats when they first move. No credit rating, huge deposits, set up costs, not knowing where to go to shop around, etc, etc.

So the same way of life that you had for $100k may well cost the OP double that by the time everything else is factored in, including being a family of 3.

ST1 Oct 13th 2025 4:54 am

Re: Relocating to US from UK
 
So, managed to get some better information on the salaries, so this ranges from -

Texas - $185,750
New York $170,500 - $250,000 (depending on area)

Others -
Washington
California
San Fran

All range from around $160,000 - $200,000

christmasoompa Oct 13th 2025 5:12 am

Re: Relocating to US from UK
 

Originally Posted by ST1 (Post 13327291)
So, managed to get some better information on the salaries, so this ranges from -

Texas - $185,750
New York $170,500 - $250,000 (depending on area)

Others -
Washington
California
San Fran

All range from around $160,000 - $200,000

Those sound more realistic (maybe not SF). As a very rough rule, I'd say most things cost 3 times what they do in the UK, but I'm in a higher cost state. But if you work on 2-3 times your UK salary for a similar standard of living (depending on location), that should give you a good idea.

Good luck.

ST1 Oct 13th 2025 5:14 am

Re: Relocating to US from UK
 

Originally Posted by christmasoompa (Post 13327292)
Those sound more realistic (maybe not SF). As a very rough rule, I'd say most things cost 3 times what they do in the UK, but I'm in a higher cost state. But if you work on 2-3 times your UK salary for a similar standard of living (depending on location), that should give you a good idea.

Good luck.

Yeah, one of the Vice Presidents of the company lives in San Fran and told me it was incredibly expensive lol.

But yeah, its a bit more of a bettet estimation to work from I think as a general guide anyway.

porkedpie Oct 13th 2025 5:52 am

Re: Relocating to US from UK
 
Agree with 2-3x, that works as a general estimate for most day-to-day, groceries (eye-watering), travel. Petrol is much cheaper, but insurance, car prices and services more than outweigh it.
As mentioned healthcare will go from 0 to meaningful. My insurance costs me around $5k/year for me an my wife via payroll deductions even if we don't need anything. This year we'll probably spend another $5k because we did need some care.
Watch out for property taxes, often not at all comparable to UK council tax. e.g many areas commutable to NYC like NJ or Westchester are 10-15x what you'd pay in a London suburb. You don't pay this as a renter but if you are evaluating becoming a homeowner and browsing sold properties on Zillow, check the tax amount too.

penguinsix Oct 13th 2025 12:59 pm

Re: Relocating to US from UK
 
I might have missed it, but are you talking about Washington (the state) or Washington, D.C. (the nation's capital)?

wcoastwalk22 Oct 13th 2025 2:39 pm

Re: Relocating to US from UK
 

Originally Posted by ST1 (Post 13327291)
So, managed to get some better information on the salaries, so this ranges from -

Texas - $185,750
New York $170,500 - $250,000 (depending on area)

Others -
Washington
California
San Fran

All range from around $160,000 - $200,000

The salary for TX seems reasonable, which make it feasible to choose rent or buying. For the other 3 locations, under 200k is not enough for a generally acceptable living of family of 3 though. As I mentioned in first message above, lots of families have two earners working in tech and over 250k/yr each is fairly common. They are willing to pay higher rent and bid higher prices when buying a home within commuting distances. It's a weird situation in SF/Bay area where final selling price of a home could be 50% higher than initial asking that is at least $1.5m, which shows the competition and that people can afford $1m+ mortgage with their income.

tht Oct 14th 2025 12:46 am

Re: Relocating to US from UK
 
There are always articles on this, this one at least acknowledges that you can “get by” on half of what you need to “live comfortably” and it’s right that rent is more than a mortgage, I had to buy in NYC because the rent was to high…

https://nypost.com/2025/10/11/lifest...ill-shock-you/


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