Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
#196
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Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Let's at least be realistic here: the ability of states to enact their own gun laws is pretty darned circumscribed at this point.
#197
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Here is a list of nullification efforts from 2010, and it looks as though IA is the first out of the trap in 2011.
#198
Joined: Jan 2009
Posts: 55
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
I have not told anyone what to do, nor have I lectured anyone so don't give me that crap. I have lived and worked all over the world so have a perspective on overseas living.
Jesus Christ, do you think because I have not moved yet it does not give me a right to express an opinion? Especially an opinion about the UK. If their life is that bad in the US why don't they bog off elsewhere instead of winging about it?
This forum is polarized into people who love the USA and this who have not had a good time. Unfortunately the balance of posting is from those who had a bad time winging about it and trying to convince others it's all crap and they should leave or not even bother making the move.
For years I wondered why my kiwi friend who moved to the UK referred to us as winging poms. God do I know now.
Life is what you make of it.
Jesus Christ, do you think because I have not moved yet it does not give me a right to express an opinion? Especially an opinion about the UK. If their life is that bad in the US why don't they bog off elsewhere instead of winging about it?
This forum is polarized into people who love the USA and this who have not had a good time. Unfortunately the balance of posting is from those who had a bad time winging about it and trying to convince others it's all crap and they should leave or not even bother making the move.
For years I wondered why my kiwi friend who moved to the UK referred to us as winging poms. God do I know now.
Life is what you make of it.
#199
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
I don't know if you could "ban guns" per se. The right to bear arms is still a constitutional right. But you could move to have limits put on the types of weapons; for instance assault weapons or even feasibly hand guns.
#200
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Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
#202
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
I have not told anyone what to do, nor have I lectured anyone so don't give me that crap. I have lived and worked all over the world so have a perspective on overseas living.
Jesus Christ, do you think because I have not moved yet it does not give me a right to express an opinion? Especially an opinion about the UK. If their life is that bad in the US why don't they bog off elsewhere instead of winging about it?
This forum is polarized into people who love the USA and this who have not had a good time. Unfortunately the balance of posting is from those who had a bad time winging about it and trying to convince others it's all crap and they should leave or not even bother making the move.
For years I wondered why my kiwi friend who moved to the UK referred to us as winging poms. God do I know now.
Life is what you make of it.
Jesus Christ, do you think because I have not moved yet it does not give me a right to express an opinion? Especially an opinion about the UK. If their life is that bad in the US why don't they bog off elsewhere instead of winging about it?
This forum is polarized into people who love the USA and this who have not had a good time. Unfortunately the balance of posting is from those who had a bad time winging about it and trying to convince others it's all crap and they should leave or not even bother making the move.
For years I wondered why my kiwi friend who moved to the UK referred to us as winging poms. God do I know now.
Life is what you make of it.
You could try be a little more understanding and calm down a wee bit. Some aren't in the US by choice...they are trapped. Some find themselves having to choose between their marriage/children or the UK. Many of our members have fallen in love with an American or have moved because of their spouse's job and cannot just upsticks and return. Some are really struggling financially to keep their heads above water.
I recommend you read some of the heartbreaking posts in the MBTTUK forum. People who have been so unhappy in their adopted country that they have returned to the UK leaving their spouses and sometimes their children/grandchildren behind.
We moved here because of my husband's job. We had a good life in the UK and we moved to a good life in the US...but that didn't prevent homesickness. The only thing that kept me here was by husband's attitude...he said I only had to say the word and we would be on the next flight back to the UK. Knowing that I had that option gave me something to cling onto...many do not have that option. We have homes in the UK/US/Canada...I am lucky I can come and go as I please...many cannot.
What is the saying..."walk a mile in a man's shoes before you judge them".
Edit: Please remember that there are hundreds of thousands of Brits who move to other countries and love their new life. Most of them are out enjoying themselves and are not posting on internet forums. Most of our membership are people who don't fit into that category. We come on here so we can have a good moan and share a laugh with fellow Brits...we have long before you joined and will continue to do so long after you have left.
Last edited by Jerseygirl; Jan 25th 2011 at 5:00 pm.
#203
I have a comma problem
Joined: Feb 2009
Location: Fox Lake, IL (from Carrickfergus NI)
Posts: 49,598
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Have guns if you want but don't try to justify that with any reason other than you think they're cool. If having a 9mm under your pillow helps you sleep at night, all well and good. Won't do you f**k all good if the assailant knifes you in your sleep though, will it . . . ?
To use free speech as an example, we all have the right to it but that doesn't mean people shouldn't also shut up once in a while
And yes, that includes me. As you were
#204
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Quality of life indexes are interesting ...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quality-of-life_index
This was 2005 and not particularly surprising for 2005. I couldn't find a more recent (straightforward) list but apparently France is at the top now. I'd like to see how the list has changed since the recession.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quality-of-life_index
This was 2005 and not particularly surprising for 2005. I couldn't find a more recent (straightforward) list but apparently France is at the top now. I'd like to see how the list has changed since the recession.
#205
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Quality of life indexes are interesting ...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quality-of-life_index
This was 2005 and not particularly surprising for 2005. I couldn't find a more recent (straightforward) list but apparently France is at the top now. I'd like to see how the list has changed since the recession.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quality-of-life_index
This was 2005 and not particularly surprising for 2005. I couldn't find a more recent (straightforward) list but apparently France is at the top now. I'd like to see how the list has changed since the recession.
http://www.prosperity.com/rankings.aspx
#206
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
All this talk of rights sounds great, but when the shit hits the fans they mean nothing.
#207
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
To sum up my views of the US/UK comparison: I would say they are both shite in their own special way.
#208
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Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
That sounds about right.
#209
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
these kind of surveys come out all the time and I generally view most of them with some scepticsm. Here's one that came out this week that uses many of the same criteria:
http://www.prosperity.com/rankings.aspx
http://www.prosperity.com/rankings.aspx
I agree - they're not really scientific but they do tend to confirm each other in a general way.
I was thinking about the polarity on BE between those that are happy here and those that are not. The reasons are vast but IMO most often personal in nature. I think that if the OP is looking for subjective information the lists are an interesting read. Also, they are pretty consistent in showing that America isn't the greatest country in the world but rather just a decent place to try to make a life.
Some things the OP may want to ask themselves is how do they feel about their place in the world? Is fitting in important? Or do they enjoy being different? How important are long established and/or familial relationships to them?
I am constantly meeting immigrants (from all over the world but quite a few of them are European) that are extremely happy here. I think those types of conversations are more likely to happen IRL. Then I come on here and hear about a lot of unhappy folks and I've come to realize that those are the conversations more likely to happen online.
#210
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Joined: Dec 2010
Posts: 288
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
We come on here so we can have a good moan and share a laugh with fellow Brits...we have long before you joined and will continue to do so long after you have left.
To many of the responses on here are tainted by the personal circumstances of some of the posters. A real shame as there is so much potential to share.
Put it like this. I don't care if people have guns or not, I don't care if they are bored or lonely or can't afford health care and I don't care to be bullied into agreeing with them. I reserve the right to bash the British and the UK unreservedly. I am British and thats my right. I have no intention of bashing the rules, laws or customs of another nation as that is not my right. That does not make me ant social, anti american, anti british or anti anything for that matter. I am entitled to have my own opinions. I have not tried to change anyones view to match my own, I have merely used the right to free speech to express my opinion.
Sorry if I am not some soppy kiss ass but that's life. If I wanted to walk in someone else's shoes and understand how tough life is for them I would become a counsellor.
I also don't appreciate having segments of my posts highlighted and taken out of context to make a point or an argument. When I write something I expect the whole post to be taking in context.