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Old Apr 9th 2006, 7:06 pm
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My American husband threatens me all the time, he says I'd never be able to leave him or he'll kill me. I now believe him. I have no family in the States, my mother suggests that I take the girls back home, we have two babies, but as my immigration sponser he'd have to sign our travel documents right? I have no American friends either - it doesn't help that I'm shy, but I'm also not allowed to go anywhere without him.

I am very afraid for myself and my daughters and also confused. I have no desire for this marriage. Is there a way out? I don't want to risk losing my daughters...

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Old Apr 9th 2006, 7:20 pm
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Originally Posted by KatrinaTX
My American husband threatens me all the time, he says I'd never be able to leave him or he'll kill me. I now believe him. I have no family in the States, my mother suggests that I take the girls back home, we have two babies, but as my immigration sponser he'd have to sign our travel documents right? I have no American friends either - it doesn't help that I'm shy, but I'm also not allowed to go anywhere without him.

I am very afraid for myself and my daughters and also confused. I have no desire for this marriage. Is there a way out? I don't want to risk losing my daughters...

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Shoot the flucker ..if he threaten you with physical violence ..or assaults you ..

But if your a softy have him arrested for domestic violence ..every time he threatens ..

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My American husband threatens me all the time, he says I'd never be able to leave him or he'll kill me. I now believe him. I have no family in the States, my mother suggests that I take the girls back home, we have two babies, but as my immigration sponser he'd have to sign our travel documents right? I have no American friends either - it doesn't help that I'm shy, but I'm also not allowed to go anywhere without him.

I am very afraid for myself and my daughters and also confused. I have no desire for this marriage. Is there a way out? I don't want to risk losing my daughters...

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Where's home? And are your daughters American Citizens?
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Old Apr 9th 2006, 7:27 pm
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Where's home? And are your daughters American Citizens?
Coventry, England. Yes, my daughters are American citizens - they do not have British passports.
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Old Apr 9th 2006, 7:36 pm
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You might want to visit your local library or ring the local Bar for assistance in finding a lawyer, preferably an immigration lawyer with family law experience. Good luck.
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Old Apr 9th 2006, 9:16 pm
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Deposit $40,000 in this bank account
Bank of Zurich
Account #: 200366010406
Then post a description (photo if possible) and the home address of your husband to this e mail address:
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and I'll sort your problem pronto
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Old Apr 9th 2006, 9:22 pm
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Originally Posted by rushman
Deposit $40,000 in this bank account
Bank of Zurich
Account #: 200366010406
Then post a description (photo if possible) and the home address of your husband to this e mail address:
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and I'll sort your problem pronto
I only have $17, but my boss is p*ssing me off no end.
Can you help ??
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I only have $17, but my boss is p*ssing me off no end.
Can you help ??
Send the cheque and I'll call him up and mildly abuse him for $17
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Old Apr 9th 2006, 9:29 pm
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Send the cheque and I'll call him up and mildly abuse him for $17
Just get him to join BE and he can get that for less than $17.
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Old Apr 9th 2006, 9:31 pm
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Just get him to join BE and he can get that for less than $17.
Then I'd be doing myself out of the $17 wouldn't I? I'm in this to make a few quid
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Old Apr 9th 2006, 9:32 pm
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Originally Posted by rushman
Deposit $40,000 in this bank account
Bank of Zurich
Account #: 200366010406
Then post a description (photo if possible) and the home address of your husband to this e mail address:
[email protected]

and I'll sort your problem pronto
I'm sure there's a few mexican's here that would do it for much less.

To the OP sounds like a tough situation is there any family back home that could come a visit you?
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Old Apr 9th 2006, 9:32 pm
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Originally Posted by rushman
Send the cheque and I'll call him up and mildly abuse him for $17
If you can do it in a sarf london gangster style accent we have a deal.

In addition I must say that you're awfully decent accepting a cheque from me - many would want the cash upfront.
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Old Apr 9th 2006, 9:32 pm
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Originally Posted by KatrinaTX
My American husband threatens me all the time, he says I'd never be able to leave him or he'll kill me. I now believe him. I have no family in the States, my mother suggests that I take the girls back home, we have two babies, but as my immigration sponser he'd have to sign our travel documents right? I have no American friends either - it doesn't help that I'm shy, but I'm also not allowed to go anywhere without him.

I am very afraid for myself and my daughters and also confused. I have no desire for this marriage. Is there a way out? I don't want to risk losing my daughters...

Please Help!
Katrina in TX
I'm so sorry to read this I wish you the very best of luck, please guard them Baby's, these sort of Men are the scum of the earth, and please be careful he dont find out what you've been writing on the computer.
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Old Apr 9th 2006, 9:34 pm
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Then I'd be doing myself out of the $17 wouldn't I? I'm in this to make a few quid
Whoops - meant to address that to Davy - he's the one making the investment here.
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Originally Posted by elfman
Just get him to join BE and he can get that for less than $17.
Indeed - if I can get him to join with the username "Guardianista" it would work out nicely

Slightly off topic, but if any of you are golf fans you might want to put the masters on TV - a tight finish is brewing.
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