Need advice...
Oct 18th 2005, 4:08 pm
#31
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Re: Need advice...
[QUOTE=Pigtails]
I hope you don't work in PR... 
Originally Posted by Cappucino
Basically it's come to a point where my wife has said she is leaving with or without me.
QUOTE]
Dump the bitch.
QUOTE]
Dump the bitch.
Oct 18th 2005, 4:12 pm
#32
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Re: Need advice...
To be honest, I think she's looking for excuses to leave you.
This ultimatum sounds like her escape route and that way in her head when she leaves you for the USA she can feel less guilty about dumping you.
This ultimatum sounds like her escape route and that way in her head when she leaves you for the USA she can feel less guilty about dumping you.
Oct 18th 2005, 4:14 pm
#33
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Re: Need advice...
[QUOTE=Celsius]
I hope you don't work in PR...
She is a Republican advisor....
Originally Posted by Pigtails
I hope you don't work in PR...
Oct 18th 2005, 4:17 pm
#34
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Re: Need advice...
[QUOTE=Ray]
'bout time they got someone with some common sense advising them.
Originally Posted by Celsius
She is a Republican advisor....
Oct 18th 2005, 4:24 pm
#35
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Re: Need advice...
Originally Posted by Sarah
To be honest, I think she's looking for excuses to leave you.
This ultimatum sounds like her escape route and that way in her head when she leaves you for the USA she can feel less guilty about dumping you.
This ultimatum sounds like her escape route and that way in her head when she leaves you for the USA she can feel less guilty about dumping you.
I would tell her to go back to NYC and get a job that will comfortably support both of you. Then you will consider moving.
In other words, call her bluff...
Oct 18th 2005, 4:27 pm
#36
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Re: Need advice...
[QUOTE=ironporer]
'bout time they got someone with some common sense advising them.
Originally Posted by Ray
'bout time they got someone with some common sense advising them.
Oct 18th 2005, 4:29 pm
#37
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Re: Need advice...
Originally Posted by Sarah
To be honest, I think she's looking for excuses to leave you.
This ultimatum sounds like her escape route and that way in her head when she leaves you for the USA she can feel less guilty about dumping you.
This ultimatum sounds like her escape route and that way in her head when she leaves you for the USA she can feel less guilty about dumping you.
I have to completely agree. She's looking for a way out. Let her go. You'll be glad you did in the long run, especially when you find the woman that loves you the way you deserve to be loved!
Oct 18th 2005, 4:33 pm
#38
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Re: Need advice...
[QUOTE=Ray]
An intern, no doubt.
Originally Posted by Celsius
She is a Republican advisor....
Oct 18th 2005, 4:40 pm
#39
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Re: Need advice...
[QUOTE=Celsius]
I hope you don't work in PR...
Piss Rags? No I dress in clean, professional work clothes every day thank you very much.
Originally Posted by Pigtails
I hope you don't work in PR...
Piss Rags? No I dress in clean, professional work clothes every day thank you very much.
Oct 18th 2005, 4:40 pm
#40
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Re: Need advice...
[QUOTE=Celsius]
An intern, no doubt.
Well, I do have all the qualifications and "talents" to be an intern.
Originally Posted by Ray
An intern, no doubt.
Well, I do have all the qualifications and "talents" to be an intern.
Oct 18th 2005, 4:42 pm
#41
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Re: Need advice...
[QUOTE=Pigtails]
Well, I do have all the qualifications and "talents" to be an intern.
You can type?
Originally Posted by Celsius
Well, I do have all the qualifications and "talents" to be an intern.
Oct 18th 2005, 4:50 pm
#42
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Re: Need advice...
Originally Posted by Pigtails
I have to completely agree. She's looking for a way out. Let her go. You'll be glad you did in the long run, especially when you find the woman that loves you the way you deserve to be loved!
Look at that...thats beautiful....a lefty and a righty coming together and agreeing over a simple human cause ~sniff~ brings tears to my eyes...lets hold hands across America like they did in the 90's.....Kum-By-Ah My Lord Kum-By-Ah
Oct 18th 2005, 4:54 pm
#43
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Re: Need advice...
[QUOTE=anotherlimey]
You can type?
a few years back they updated it to require having a good drycleaner......
Originally Posted by Pigtails
You can type?
a few years back they updated it to require having a good drycleaner......
Oct 18th 2005, 4:57 pm
#44
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Re: Need advice...
Originally Posted by Sarah
Look at that...thats beautiful....a lefty and a righty coming together and agreeing over a simple human cause ~sniff~ brings tears to my eyes...lets hold hands across America like they did in the 90's.....Kum-By-Ah My Lord Kum-By-Ah
and buy the world a Coke?
Oct 18th 2005, 4:57 pm
#45
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Re: Need advice...
Being realistic if you move here and she goes to college who is going to support you both and pay tuition fees. Not wishing to be rude but she does sound a little spoilt to me and thinks by clicking her Manolo's she can get her own way. Maybe you have been spoiling her a little like a child instead of making her grow up and accept responsibility as an adult. To sell up and move here is a really big step, and puts enormous pressure on a relationship. If yours if fragile all ready I wonder if it could cope. If you were to consider moving here you would both have to put some serious research into it and work out everything first. Its really not as easy as booking a flight.
I think you both need to sit down and be very honest with each other. Good luck.
I think you both need to sit down and be very honest with each other. Good luck.