Moving to New Jersey, school and area questions ??
Dec 10th 2009, 8:01 pm
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Moving to New Jersey, school and area questions ??
Hi All,
Just found out that a proposed 3 year move to our NY office in the New Year is on and now suddenly we've got loads of decisions to make.
I'll be moving with my wife and 2 boys, 7 and 4 and we've decided that although living in Manhattan would be an adventure we don't want to live in the city with the children. I'll be commuting to downtown Manhattan and so New Jersey looks like our best option.
So first issue is schools. We're thinking about Private schools, (Pingry, Peck, Saddle River Day School) anyone have any experience of any of these ?
Do we really need to pay the dollars for this however, or are the Public schools in the right area just as good as the Private ones? Our youngest is very shy do we're a little concerned at throwing him into a big public school.
One other question is area, reading through all the really helpful posts on here most people seem to be in the Chatham, Short Hills, Summit sort of area rather than further north in bergen county? I like to sound of Ridgewood from what I've read on t'internet, am I missing something like a really bad commute from that sort of area or something else ?
Any advice really really appreciated.
TIA
Just found out that a proposed 3 year move to our NY office in the New Year is on and now suddenly we've got loads of decisions to make.
I'll be moving with my wife and 2 boys, 7 and 4 and we've decided that although living in Manhattan would be an adventure we don't want to live in the city with the children. I'll be commuting to downtown Manhattan and so New Jersey looks like our best option.
So first issue is schools. We're thinking about Private schools, (Pingry, Peck, Saddle River Day School) anyone have any experience of any of these ?
Do we really need to pay the dollars for this however, or are the Public schools in the right area just as good as the Private ones? Our youngest is very shy do we're a little concerned at throwing him into a big public school.
One other question is area, reading through all the really helpful posts on here most people seem to be in the Chatham, Short Hills, Summit sort of area rather than further north in bergen county? I like to sound of Ridgewood from what I've read on t'internet, am I missing something like a really bad commute from that sort of area or something else ?
Any advice really really appreciated.
TIA
Dec 10th 2009, 8:04 pm
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Re: Moving to New Jersey, school and area questions ??
Some of the NY'ers will be on soon with some recommendations, but you might also want to check out:
http://www.city-data.com/forum/new-jersey/
Search for some specific cities are ask some questions there. It's not just for UK expats but for people relocating from all over the country (and world). Pretty good for getting some specifics.
http://www.city-data.com/forum/new-jersey/
Search for some specific cities are ask some questions there. It's not just for UK expats but for people relocating from all over the country (and world). Pretty good for getting some specifics.
Dec 10th 2009, 8:12 pm
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Re: Moving to New Jersey, school and area questions ??
Hi All,
Just found out that a proposed 3 year move to our NY office in the New Year is on and now suddenly we've got loads of decisions to make.
I'll be moving with my wife and 2 boys, 7 and 4 and we've decided that although living in Manhattan would be an adventure we don't want to live in the city with the children. I'll be commuting to downtown Manhattan and so New Jersey looks like our best option.
So first issue is schools. We're thinking about Private schools, (Pingry, Peck, Saddle River Day School) anyone have any experience of any of these ?
Do we really need to pay the dollars for this however, or are the Public schools in the right area just as good as the Private ones? Our youngest is very shy do we're a little concerned at throwing him into a big public school.
One other question is area, reading through all the really helpful posts on here most people seem to be in the Chatham, Short Hills, Summit sort of area rather than further north in bergen county? I like to sound of Ridgewood from what I've read on t'internet, am I missing something like a really bad commute from that sort of area or something else ?
Any advice really really appreciated.
TIA
Just found out that a proposed 3 year move to our NY office in the New Year is on and now suddenly we've got loads of decisions to make.
I'll be moving with my wife and 2 boys, 7 and 4 and we've decided that although living in Manhattan would be an adventure we don't want to live in the city with the children. I'll be commuting to downtown Manhattan and so New Jersey looks like our best option.
So first issue is schools. We're thinking about Private schools, (Pingry, Peck, Saddle River Day School) anyone have any experience of any of these ?
Do we really need to pay the dollars for this however, or are the Public schools in the right area just as good as the Private ones? Our youngest is very shy do we're a little concerned at throwing him into a big public school.
One other question is area, reading through all the really helpful posts on here most people seem to be in the Chatham, Short Hills, Summit sort of area rather than further north in bergen county? I like to sound of Ridgewood from what I've read on t'internet, am I missing something like a really bad commute from that sort of area or something else ?
Any advice really really appreciated.
TIA
Both are small schools...my daughter didn't have any problems fitting in.
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Dec 11th 2009, 1:03 am
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Re: Moving to New Jersey, school and area questions ??
Hi All,
Just found out that a proposed 3 year move to our NY office in the New Year is on and now suddenly we've got loads of decisions to make.
I'll be moving with my wife and 2 boys, 7 and 4 and we've decided that although living in Manhattan would be an adventure we don't want to live in the city with the children. I'll be commuting to downtown Manhattan and so New Jersey looks like our best option.
So first issue is schools. We're thinking about Private schools, (Pingry, Peck, Saddle River Day School) anyone have any experience of any of these ?
Do we really need to pay the dollars for this however, or are the Public schools in the right area just as good as the Private ones? Our youngest is very shy do we're a little concerned at throwing him into a big public school.
One other question is area, reading through all the really helpful posts on here most people seem to be in the Chatham, Short Hills, Summit sort of area rather than further north in bergen county? I like to sound of Ridgewood from what I've read on t'internet, am I missing something like a really bad commute from that sort of area or something else ?
Any advice really really appreciated.
TIA
Just found out that a proposed 3 year move to our NY office in the New Year is on and now suddenly we've got loads of decisions to make.
I'll be moving with my wife and 2 boys, 7 and 4 and we've decided that although living in Manhattan would be an adventure we don't want to live in the city with the children. I'll be commuting to downtown Manhattan and so New Jersey looks like our best option.
So first issue is schools. We're thinking about Private schools, (Pingry, Peck, Saddle River Day School) anyone have any experience of any of these ?
Do we really need to pay the dollars for this however, or are the Public schools in the right area just as good as the Private ones? Our youngest is very shy do we're a little concerned at throwing him into a big public school.
One other question is area, reading through all the really helpful posts on here most people seem to be in the Chatham, Short Hills, Summit sort of area rather than further north in bergen county? I like to sound of Ridgewood from what I've read on t'internet, am I missing something like a really bad commute from that sort of area or something else ?
Any advice really really appreciated.
TIA
The commute is easy, just 30-45 mins into Penn Station on the MidTown Direct so no changes of trains (I think you have to change at Secaucus for the Ridgewood trains) and also with trains going to Hoboken for easy access to Wall Street(there are express trains in peak hours). Newark airport is just 15 mins drive, served by BA, Virgin, Continental to UK and the interstate highways are also very close by.
A friend of ours sends her three boys to Far Brook school but fees are very high (approx the price of a boarding school place in the UK for day schools) but then again the husband is an investment banker....
Dec 11th 2009, 5:40 am
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Thanks all for your responses.
Englishmum, when you say Blue Ribbon, is that an official designation or more just of a common term given to very good schools? ie should I be googling for that?
Englishmum, when you say Blue Ribbon, is that an official designation or more just of a common term given to very good schools? ie should I be googling for that?
Dec 11th 2009, 5:42 am
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Dec 11th 2009, 8:47 pm
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Private schools are extremely expensive here. Fees will be well over $20K per year...on top of that there are many extras and you will be expected to contribute to the annual giving...which again is not cheap.
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Dec 11th 2009, 9:34 pm
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Good luck on your move! I'll probably see you on the train sometime!
Dec 12th 2009, 2:08 am
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It's also a gorgeous area -- great little town centre, residents tend to be owners and take great care of the house and surrounding property, and it's pretty central to most everything in northern NJ.
I can't speak to the commute time into the city from Ridgewood as I left R'wood as soon as I graduated high school (in 2002), but I do know that many residents commute daily into the city, so it's doable. The commuter train will take you to Secaucus or Hoboken, and it's just a quick hop across the river into NYC.
I don't live there because I couldn't afford it, but it's a really lovely town -- my parents chose R'wood specifically for the school system, although they've remained there even as empty-nesters. If it's in your budget, R'wood is a very safe bet.
Top NJ High Schools 2008: http://njmonthly.com/articles/towns_...s-by-rank.html
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Dec 14th 2009, 12:24 am
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basically, any town in northern bergen county, nj, will be excellent for you to live and send your children to great schools...Be aware that NJ has the second highest residential taxes in the nation. 
Dec 14th 2009, 1:10 am
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We have 2 children at Pingry; it is a very good school.
I was trying to work out from your childrens' ages what grades they would be in, I would guess pre-K and grade 2?
If so, this could be perfect as Pingry has entry years for Kindergarten and Grade 3.
You will need to apply ASAP however as their applications close (may already have done so) early and interviews etc take place in Feb, I think.
We have friends with children at Peck and also at the Chatham public schools. These are also excellent - Peck seemed less of an issue actually getting into and obviously, the public schools are open to all.
Notwithstanding Ridski's comment, Chatham is a nice little place, but then so are Madison, Short Hills and Summit..... you can't really go too far wrong with these places..
Best of luck!
Tony
I was trying to work out from your childrens' ages what grades they would be in, I would guess pre-K and grade 2?
If so, this could be perfect as Pingry has entry years for Kindergarten and Grade 3.
You will need to apply ASAP however as their applications close (may already have done so) early and interviews etc take place in Feb, I think.
We have friends with children at Peck and also at the Chatham public schools. These are also excellent - Peck seemed less of an issue actually getting into and obviously, the public schools are open to all.
Notwithstanding Ridski's comment, Chatham is a nice little place, but then so are Madison, Short Hills and Summit..... you can't really go too far wrong with these places..
Best of luck!
Tony
Dec 14th 2009, 1:26 am
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Has it changed in 2009...I was under the impression NJ has the highest property taxes in the US?
Dec 14th 2009, 9:57 pm
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Thanks to everyone again.
Looks like Im still in time for the application deadlines, thanks for pointing that out Swisstony.
Everything I hear is that the Public schools are great compared to the U.K as long as you pick the right school area (with equally high taxes) and so we will definitely be looking at that option as well. Although it all seems to get a bit complex as once you pick the school you've got to find a house in the right area. As as we'll be renting at least at the start I imagine getting the perfect mix of perfect school and perfect house is gonna be tricky.
Looks like Im still in time for the application deadlines, thanks for pointing that out Swisstony.
Everything I hear is that the Public schools are great compared to the U.K as long as you pick the right school area (with equally high taxes) and so we will definitely be looking at that option as well. Although it all seems to get a bit complex as once you pick the school you've got to find a house in the right area. As as we'll be renting at least at the start I imagine getting the perfect mix of perfect school and perfect house is gonna be tricky.
Dec 14th 2009, 11:27 pm
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I heard recently that Louisianna is now the number one...then NJ. By the way, any town in Northern Bergen County is 45 min by train to Manhattan. The transportation in the area is excellent. Cheers.
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Dec 14th 2009, 11:41 pm
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