Moving to the Bay area - need help with public school minefield!
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Thank you for this. I am not sure how my post about schools has turned into one about how much my husband earns but it's helpful to know. We have been looking at what costs we will have so it's good to get an idea of things. He gets health care for all 4 of us through work but not sure if he has to pay tax on that in the US? It is a taxable benefit in the UK, does it work similarly there?
In addition to this monthly cost to your husband, you will probably be paying for deductibles and co-pays when you receive treatment.
The plan may or may not cover dental and vision needs.
This is another cost you need to budget for.
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Unless he has a special arrangement, his employer will have a health plan into which both employer and employee pay monthly premiums.
In addition to this monthly cost to your husband, you will probably be paying for deductibles and co-pays when you receive treatment.
The plan may or may not cover dental and vision needs.
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In addition to this monthly cost to your husband, you will probably be paying for deductibles and co-pays when you receive treatment.
The plan may or may not cover dental and vision needs.
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There are employers who will pay the full premiums for an employee for both an HI plan and a dental/vision plan, no contribution required. But then, the employee is indeed responsible for the excess over what the plan covers and what the doctor visit/procedure costs.
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As the OP applied for the transfer themselves and is NOT getting a relocation package I thought they are more likely to be paying for their insurance costs.
The OP also mentioned that in the UK one might get private health cover as a benefit and one is taxed on that; that's not how it works in the US.
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Remember also, all the above applies simply to the 'premiums' - the cost of insurance coverage. Actual 'use' (doctor/hospital visits, etc) incurs costs based on the schedules laid out in the actual insurance policy, and is between you and the insurance company, with no involvement of the employer. Typical high-tech employers tend to negotiate good 'plans' with the insurance companies, but you are still likely to be liable for per-visit copays, and for meeting deductibles, etc. Deductibles in the thousands are not uncommon. And God help you if you go 'out of network'.
Unless he has a special arrangement, his employer will have a health plan into which both employer and employee pay monthly premiums.
In addition to this monthly cost to your husband, you will probably be paying for deductibles and co-pays when you receive treatment.
The plan may or may not cover dental and vision needs.
This is another cost you need to budget for.
In addition to this monthly cost to your husband, you will probably be paying for deductibles and co-pays when you receive treatment.
The plan may or may not cover dental and vision needs.
This is another cost you need to budget for.
From what I'm reading here they'll be getting full premium coverage but you are right - for actual services, you can end up paying way more than 'contracted rates', especially if you go outside of the 'network'; a concept that is probably alien to someone using the NHS. The OP is going to need to understand HMO vs PPO, at the very least.
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I over-estimated many of the numbers in my post (eg, our Gas + Electricity bill ranges from $60 to $220/mo only for a 1,400 sq foot condo, but I put $400/mo in my estimate above - the climate is very mild here). I also think that $1,500/mo is a crazy number for food; we eat out all the time and spend about 1,000/mo on food). But car insurance is crazy, and some other things are going to be a shock so best to over-estimate!
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From what I'm reading here they'll be getting full premium coverage but you are right - for actual services, you can end up paying way more than 'contracted rates', especially if you go outside of the 'network'; a concept that is probably alien to someone using the NHS. The OP is going to need to understand HMO vs PPO, at the very least.
From what I'm reading here they'll be getting full premium coverage but you are right - for actual services, you can end up paying way more than 'contracted rates', especially if you go outside of the 'network'; a concept that is probably alien to someone using the NHS. The OP is going to need to understand HMO vs PPO, at the very least.
The OP does not appear to know how health insurance in the US works, (asking about tax on a benefit) so nothing she has said gives that impression.
The OP is NOT getting any relocation package, so, personally, I would be surprised if they get full premiums coverage.
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Why do you assume they will be getting full premium coverage by the employer?
The OP does not appear to know how health insurance in the US works, (asking about tax on a benefit) so nothing she has said gives that impression.
The OP is NOT getting any relocation package, so, personally, I would be surprised if they get full premiums coverage.
The OP does not appear to know how health insurance in the US works, (asking about tax on a benefit) so nothing she has said gives that impression.
The OP is NOT getting any relocation package, so, personally, I would be surprised if they get full premiums coverage.

I'm trying to find online info for typical bay area companies but it's not easy to find. "Glassdoor" apparently cover 100% employee, 80% dependents, but not much else is forthcoming. So now I'm thinking 100% coverage for dependent insurance is not the norm, even for the 'highly competitive' companies. I did put, in my 'estimate' above for expenses, an allowance for $1,000/mo of medical premium so that may still be good advice! And it could be over $1,000/mo for a whole family.
The key for the OP is to understand the difference between the 'provision' or 'availability' of insurance and the payment of the premiums, as I explained in my earlier post above.
A quick bit of research suggests a few companies do cover 100% of dependent premiums, but not that many. Bill and Melinda Gates foundation: "100 percent healthcare premium coverage to employees, spouses, domestic partners and dependents"; Boston Consulting Group "provides full healthcare premium coverage for all eligible employees ... and any family members enrolled in its insurance plan." Ultimate Software "offers a full benefits package with no-cost healthcare premiums for its employees and their spouses, domestic partners and eligible dependents". Finding others that offer this is not easy.
But several offer less than 100% - GoDaddy: " 100-percent healthcare premium coverage policy on the first day of employment. Dependents and spouses are afforded 50 percent coverage"; Kimley Horn "pays its employees healthcare coverage in full and that of their partners and dependents at a reduced, 90-percent rate." and so on ...
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Hi, I haven’t been on BE for a long time - came to look for something specific and of course got distracted.
I live in Mountain View, right on the Los Altos border. It’s a long time since I had to deal with the school district here, but they wouldn’t engage with me before we actually moved here either. You are just assigned a school in the catchment area, but they do have to give you a place - they will only do this with a signed lease though not a Airbnb/hotel. As well as looking at that take a look at charter schools - Bullis in Los Altos particular. (Charter schools are free). I wasn’t a huge fan of the public school system, but it works very well for a lot of kids/families here.
Burlingame is very commutable from Los Altos and he can also choose to get the train from San Antonio station (around 40 mins). It is expensive here, but you don’t need to be earning the numbers being thrown around in this thread - if your husbands salary begins with a 2 you’ll be ok if it begins with a 3 you’ll be comfortable enough. People move for all kinds of reasons and it’s not always about making bank.
Housing is competitive, but $6k is in the right ballpark for a decent rental.
Good Luck!
I live in Mountain View, right on the Los Altos border. It’s a long time since I had to deal with the school district here, but they wouldn’t engage with me before we actually moved here either. You are just assigned a school in the catchment area, but they do have to give you a place - they will only do this with a signed lease though not a Airbnb/hotel. As well as looking at that take a look at charter schools - Bullis in Los Altos particular. (Charter schools are free). I wasn’t a huge fan of the public school system, but it works very well for a lot of kids/families here.
Burlingame is very commutable from Los Altos and he can also choose to get the train from San Antonio station (around 40 mins). It is expensive here, but you don’t need to be earning the numbers being thrown around in this thread - if your husbands salary begins with a 2 you’ll be ok if it begins with a 3 you’ll be comfortable enough. People move for all kinds of reasons and it’s not always about making bank.
Housing is competitive, but $6k is in the right ballpark for a decent rental.
Good Luck!
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Hi, I haven’t been on BE for a long time - came to look for something specific and of course got distracted.
I live in Mountain View, right on the Los Altos border. It’s a long time since I had to deal with the school district here, but they wouldn’t engage with me before we actually moved here either. You are just assigned a school in the catchment area, but they do have to give you a place - they will only do this with a signed lease though not a Airbnb/hotel. As well as looking at that take a look at charter schools - Bullis in Los Altos particular. (Charter schools are free). I wasn’t a huge fan of the public school system, but it works very well for a lot of kids/families here.
Burlingame is very commutable from Los Altos and he can also choose to get the train from San Antonio station (around 40 mins). It is expensive here, but you don’t need to be earning the numbers being thrown around in this thread - if your husbands salary begins with a 2 you’ll be ok if it begins with a 3 you’ll be comfortable enough. People move for all kinds of reasons and it’s not always about making bank.
Housing is competitive, but $6k is in the right ballpark for a decent rental.
Good Luck!
I live in Mountain View, right on the Los Altos border. It’s a long time since I had to deal with the school district here, but they wouldn’t engage with me before we actually moved here either. You are just assigned a school in the catchment area, but they do have to give you a place - they will only do this with a signed lease though not a Airbnb/hotel. As well as looking at that take a look at charter schools - Bullis in Los Altos particular. (Charter schools are free). I wasn’t a huge fan of the public school system, but it works very well for a lot of kids/families here.
Burlingame is very commutable from Los Altos and he can also choose to get the train from San Antonio station (around 40 mins). It is expensive here, but you don’t need to be earning the numbers being thrown around in this thread - if your husbands salary begins with a 2 you’ll be ok if it begins with a 3 you’ll be comfortable enough. People move for all kinds of reasons and it’s not always about making bank.
Housing is competitive, but $6k is in the right ballpark for a decent rental.
Good Luck!

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Hi, I haven’t been on BE for a long time - came to look for something specific and of course got distracted.
I live in Mountain View, right on the Los Altos border. It’s a long time since I had to deal with the school district here, but they wouldn’t engage with me before we actually moved here either. You are just assigned a school in the catchment area, but they do have to give you a place - they will only do this with a signed lease though not a Airbnb/hotel. As well as looking at that take a look at charter schools - Bullis in Los Altos particular. (Charter schools are free). I wasn’t a huge fan of the public school system, but it works very well for a lot of kids/families here.
Burlingame is very commutable from Los Altos and he can also choose to get the train from San Antonio station (around 40 mins). It is expensive here, but you don’t need to be earning the numbers being thrown around in this thread - if your husbands salary begins with a 2 you’ll be ok if it begins with a 3 you’ll be comfortable enough. People move for all kinds of reasons and it’s not always about making bank.
Housing is competitive, but $6k is in the right ballpark for a decent rental.
Good Luck!
I live in Mountain View, right on the Los Altos border. It’s a long time since I had to deal with the school district here, but they wouldn’t engage with me before we actually moved here either. You are just assigned a school in the catchment area, but they do have to give you a place - they will only do this with a signed lease though not a Airbnb/hotel. As well as looking at that take a look at charter schools - Bullis in Los Altos particular. (Charter schools are free). I wasn’t a huge fan of the public school system, but it works very well for a lot of kids/families here.
Burlingame is very commutable from Los Altos and he can also choose to get the train from San Antonio station (around 40 mins). It is expensive here, but you don’t need to be earning the numbers being thrown around in this thread - if your husbands salary begins with a 2 you’ll be ok if it begins with a 3 you’ll be comfortable enough. People move for all kinds of reasons and it’s not always about making bank.
Housing is competitive, but $6k is in the right ballpark for a decent rental.
Good Luck!
As long as 401k or any other type of savings are off the cards, great....
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I wouldn't want anyone to move here strapped for cash or poor. Cash is king in the States, and will only continue in that way. Rich : poor divide is growing and will not stop anytime soon.
That is just me. I would say this is hyperinflated in CA more than anywhere else.
That is just me. I would say this is hyperinflated in CA more than anywhere else.
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As I noted previously, above, with two children in a private school in the UK, I got the impression that Bellybratz and her family were looking for more than a "making do" situation in SF. Maybe I am wrong.

.... Housing is competitive, but $6k is in the right ballpark for a decent rental. ....

.... Good Luck!
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Thank you for agreeing with me, as that is pretty much what I think (high) two's is just about doable, three's would be better. People seem confused because I added that I wouldn't move for more. If you're currently living in a "making do" situation then maybe "making do" in the SF area doesn't look like such a bad idea.
As I noted previously, above, with two children in a private school in the UK, I got the impression that Bellybratz and her family were looking for more than a "making do" situation in SF. Maybe I am wrong.
So you think it's OK to spend 50% of your net pay on rent?
Objectively that makes no sense, locking in the use of so much of your net income on housing alone.
They're going to need some if their gross income is less than about $250k.
As I noted previously, above, with two children in a private school in the UK, I got the impression that Bellybratz and her family were looking for more than a "making do" situation in SF. Maybe I am wrong.

So you think it's OK to spend 50% of your net pay on rent?

They're going to need some if their gross income is less than about $250k.
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(yes, I realize that the 'Research Triangle' in North Carolina has some significant Bio-Tech and High-Tech activity, but it's dwarfed by the activity in the Bay Area).
So - if there's a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to be a 'senior scientist' for a company like Genentech, or for OpenAI, you don't have much of a choice as to where you live - you go where the jobs are.