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Marrying an illegal alien

Old Oct 1st 2002, 3:32 pm
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LeightonJ wrote:
    > > --John
    > hi john,my name is jerome
    > what u are say is so true,my lawyer say that he have to put
    > my in deprtation and then get me out.but may i ask u a
    > question (what is your meaning of extreme hardship?).i told my
    > wife what is her meaning of extreme hardship? she told me if
    > they deport me she will kill her self .

You need to get your wife professional mental health help.
There are many alternatives if you can't live in the US.
Believe it or not, many people are able to live in Jamaica without
kiilling themselves.
Under certain circumstance, there might also be the possibility of
living in another country.
You previously held legal status in Canada, are you still eligible for
it? Did you ever check?

Additionally, I doubt her telling INS that she will kill herself is
going to get
them to waive the deportation.
 
Old Oct 1st 2002, 6:40 pm
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[email protected] (johng3110) wrote in message news:...
    > LeightonJ wrote in message news:...
    > > hi john,my name is jerome
    > > what u are say is so true,my lawyer say that he have to put
    > > my in deprtation and then get me out.but may i ask u a
    > > question (what is your meaning of extreme hardship?).i told my
    > > wife what is her meaning of extreme hardship? she told me if
    > > they deport me she will kill her self .and she said, she will
    > > tell the immigration judge extreme hardship is when u can
    > > live without the person that keep her going,and that when she
    > > first met me that i change her life.i know i can do what i
    > > want.and i know i am goiing to win this shit.
    > * * *
    > What follows is not legal advice. It is merely commentary. And
    > although I am an attorney, your reading this does not make me your
    > attorney.
    > * * *
    > Hi, Jerome,
    > The problem with "extreme hardship" and similar standards is that no
    > one really knows what they specifically mean. Instead, each
    > immigration court must decide for itself what these standards mean.
    > From their decisions, a general understanding develops.
    > Thus, the general understanding of "extreme hardship" is simply this:
    > hardship to the U.S. citizen (not the alien / not the foreigner) which
    > is beyond the normal hardship that a separation would cause. That
    > means it is more than people missing each other or being heartbroken;
    > it is also usually more than difficulties in financial matters.
    > Instead, it must be something that causes unusual and intense
    > suffering to the U.S. citizen. And that is different for every case.
    > Thus, it is important to consult with an immigration attorney who is
    > experienced in these kinds of cases and with the local immigration
    > court. That person can evaluate your case, and he / she can determine
    > what facts in your specific case might count as "extreme hardship"
    > with that local court. Since you already have an attorney, I suggest
    > you discuss this more with him.
    > Good Luck.
    > --John
    > 1 October 2002

I think it is an extreme hardship for those of us trying to legally to
gain visas. This crap ties up the system and illegals should be
dported only! I live in Dallas and there are 1000's of illegals, shoot
them all and be done with it!
 
Old Oct 2nd 2002, 2:36 am
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Ahh, 245i. The establishment's attempt at social engineering. We need your
labor, but we don't want your culture. If you sell out and marry an
American, we will release you from slavery sooner. Otherwise, you'll just
have to stay enslaved until your U.S. born children turn 21.

Paulgani
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Last I checked no one is forcing anyone to come to America either legally or
illegally.

Most importantly, no one is forcing anyone to come to America to be a slave.

A slave is owned by his master and cannot leave without his masters approval.

If one feels like a slave in America, they're free to LEAVE, there are more
"slaves" who would be happy to take their place.
 
Old Oct 2nd 2002, 4:10 pm
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I married an illegal, (check my post history). Now she is in her
country and we are waiting for our i-129f, k3 visa to be approved so
we can have our interview. She left this country under her will, no
deportation proceedings, etc.

Has anyone here been in this situation? I'm %100 sure the will deny
our visa at the interview (she has been in the US for more than 180
days), but what are our chances for a waiver? How long does a waiver
take to process?


r



waldo wrote in message news:...
    > I need some advice! I met someone seven months ago who is living and
    > working illegally in the U.S. for the past twelve years. She crossed
    > the Mexican/u.s. border on foot secretively by night. She recently is
    > finishing her divorce with her husband who took flight back to Mexico
    > after a run in with the law other than his resident status. They have
    > been separated for four years. We have become good friends in which she
    > has confided in me about her life. I would like to ask the "big"
    > question(will you marry me?). But I do not know where we would go from
    > here. What kind of legal mess would get into. By the way, I am a
    > legal U.S. citizen by birth.
 

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