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Old Dec 19th 2012, 11:56 pm
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Help me out.

Tell me what's great about this country and why I should stop being such a left-wing twat and like it.
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Default Re: I'm trying to like the USA

Originally Posted by Ethelred_the_Unready
Help me out.

Tell me what's great about this country and why I should stop being such a left-wing twat and like it.
*sigh*

You know perfectly well that nobody can tell you how or why you should like the US.

You either do or you don't and someone else telling you why they like it isn't going to help.

The only constructive thing that I can suggest is that you get away from the attitude that this is a clear cut issue where the answer is that the entire US is either "good" or "bad". It doesn't work that way. Some things are good, some are bad and lots are somewhere in between.
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As you say you are of the left then celebrate the long history of the American left. John Reid, Wobblies, Emma Goldman.....

A book helped me partly feel like I belong
The 'S' Word: A Short History of an American Tradition… Socialism.
by John Nichols

I made a thread about it last year

(removed review, best not read, if the book is to gee you up for American Socialism - which is the books point)

Don't stop being a lefty, just stop letting people say it is an outlanders way. It is American, argue as an insider.

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Default Re: I'm trying to like the USA

Originally Posted by md95065
*sigh*

You know perfectly well that nobody can tell you how or why you should like the US.

You either do or you don't and someone else telling you why they like it isn't going to help.

The only constructive thing that I can suggest is that you get away from the attitude that this is a clear cut issue where the answer is that the entire US is either "good" or "bad". It doesn't work that way. Some things are good, some are bad and lots are somewhere in between.
Yes I don't think it works like that either.

"One instinctively knows when something is right."

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Old Dec 20th 2012, 12:16 am
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Default Re: I'm trying to like the USA

Originally Posted by md95065
*sigh*

You know perfectly well that nobody can tell you how or why you should like the US.

You either do or you don't and someone else telling you why they like it isn't going to help.

The only constructive thing that I can suggest is that you get away from the attitude that this is a clear cut issue where the answer is that the entire US is either "good" or "bad". It doesn't work that way. Some things are good, some are bad and lots are somewhere in between.
No no. You missed the point.

Cut the BS and just tell me what YOU like about the USA. I am currently being shafted by it and would like to read some positive things.

Cheers
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Default Re: I'm trying to like the USA

Originally Posted by Ethelred_the_Unready
Help me out.

Tell me what's great about this country and why I should stop being such a left-wing twat and like it.
Even if someone else gave you a list of 50 things that are great about this country, you probably wouldn't see it. If you want to "stop being such a left-wing twat", then stop.

There is a lot I find very difficult about the culture of the States but the scenery is spectacular. I know I live in a beautiful part of the country and sometimes I look at the mountains and they do nothing for me at all. Other times they appear to be magnificent. Same mountains, different day. Same me, different attitude.

It's not always what you see, but how you choose to look at it. Oh, I can be so Boulder it scares me!
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Default Re: I'm trying to like the USA

Originally Posted by Ethelred_the_Unready
No no. You missed the point.

Cut the BS and just tell me what YOU like about the USA. I am currently being shafted by it and would like to read some positive things.

Cheers
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Default Re: I'm trying to like the USA

Originally Posted by Ethelred_the_Unready
Help me out.

Tell me what's great about this country and why I should stop being such a left-wing twat and like it.
what are you having trouble with?
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Default Re: I'm trying to like the USA

Originally Posted by Ethelred_the_Unready
Cut the BS and just tell me what YOU like about the USA.
OK - you asked for it - I have an answer for you, but you're not going to like it ...

I like the USA - or, more accurately, the part of Northern California in which I live - because I feel "at home" here - I feel that I "belong" here in a way that I never felt while I lived in the UK (and I have felt that way ever since my first visit to the US back in 1985).

Of course, the fact that I have been lucky enough to have had good, well paying jobs for the entire time that I have been here (over 25 years now) does help but that alone wouldn't be enough - the bottom line is that I like the place because I just like living here

(and, yes, there are things that I don't like but you didn't ask about those and for me, at least, the "good" things far outweigh the "bad")
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Default Re: I'm trying to like the USA

Originally Posted by md95065
OK - you asked for it - I have an answer for you, but you're not going to like it ...

I like the USA - or, more accurately, the part of Northern California in which I live - because I feel "at home" here - I feel that I "belong" here in a way that I never felt while I lived in the UK (and I have felt that way ever since my first visit to the US back in 1985).

Of course, the fact that I have been lucky enough to have had good, well paying jobs for the entire time that I have been here (over 25 years now) does help but that alone wouldn't be enough - the bottom line is that I like the place because I just like living here
(and, yes, there are things that I don't like but you didn't ask about those and for me, at least, the "good" things far outweigh the "bad")
Almost word for word how I feel, except I'm a biz owner and was visiting since 1989
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Originally Posted by kins
Drive through ATMs...
..I like the Braille writing on the buttons..given the state of New Englander's driving skills I wouldn't be surprised if there were legally blind people driving!

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..I like the Braille writing on the buttons..given the state of New Englander's driving skills I wouldn't be surprised if there were legally blind people driving!
I have posted this before...we saw someone walking across a mall car park with a white stick. He got into a car...on the driver's side and drove away.
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I have posted this before...we saw someone walking across a mall car park with a white stick. He got into a car...on the driver's side and drove away.
That would explain most of the crazy drivers I come across then....
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Default Re: I'm trying to like the USA

Originally Posted by Ethelred_the_Unready
Help me out.

Tell me what's great about this country and why I should stop being such a left-wing twat and like it.

Good hard working people

Wide open space

Big cheap SUVs

Guns

Decent health care

Friendly People

Jam free roads

Wide choice of food

People dress to be comfortable, not to impress

You don't have to wait for the latest TV shows to reach the UK

Big houses

Cheap gas
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