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Old Aug 29th 2007, 2:59 pm
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Hi, I'm a first-time poster looking for either advice or a reality check! Basically, I would love to move to San Francisco (from the UK).

I'm 24, single, working in a low-level editing job at an educational publishers. I live in rented accommodation and don't own property. I currently have no savings, but should be able to budget a couple of hundred pounds a month.

I was wondering if anyone could give me advice on how I might go about this. I'd like to stay in non-fiction publishing, but know this might not possible. How much should I be trying to save? I looked on craigslist at flat shares, and a lot of them need credit checks - is this a huge problem for someone new to the country?

Any comments would be appreciated - apart from soul-destroying, dream-crushing ones!
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Old Aug 29th 2007, 3:02 pm
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Originally Posted by Willower
Any comments would be appreciated - apart from soul-destroying, dream-crushing ones!
Don't let anything crush your soul or destroy your dreams. You just have to find a way, despite the reality that you are about to face.

Getting into the US is incredibly difficult. Don't even start to worry about housing or rent--deal with the visa issue first.

Take a look here and let us know if you think you can pull one of these off.

http://britishexpats.com/wiki/Pulask...ork_in_the_USA
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Old Aug 29th 2007, 3:10 pm
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Forget craigslist. You need eharmony or match.com.
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Unless your prepared to enter illegally, in which case you simply walk across the border

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Getting into the US is incredibly difficult.
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Marry a US citizen of the opposite sex or forget it as, realistically, it ain't gonna happen.
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Old Aug 29th 2007, 5:00 pm
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I'm 24, single, working in a low-level editing job at an educational publishers...
if they have US offices, work there longer, get into a position where they can transfer you to the US on a L1....otherwise, find a bird your willing to marry.
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if they have US offices, work there longer, get into a position where they can transfer you to the US on a L1....otherwise, find a bird your willing to marry.
Does help if they're willing to marry him too
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What is your vision of how your life will be better in San Francisco?
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Does help if they're willing to marry him too
always a bonus
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What is your vision of how your life will be better in San Francisco?
Gay capital of North America....
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In a queer sort of way it does make the city a better place to be. it makes the city a place of tolerance and diversity.

The climate, a beautiful setting, and a vibrant population don't hurt either.

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Originally Posted by Ray
Gay capital of North America....
I was asking the OP not you, Ray
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I was asking the OP not you, Ray
I went there in 1971 ... got jailed for speeding on the way there overnight in some hick town ... and was treated like royalty...
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and was treated like royalty...
You are Royalty
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I went there in 1971 ... got jailed for speeding on the way there overnight in some hick town ... and was treated like royalty...
knitted yourself a new arsehole then?
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