How have you been treated here as a Brit?
#151
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Re: How have you been treated here as a Brit?
It's like having Mr Spock (or rather Mr Logic) on board.
#152
Re: How have you been treated here as a Brit?
Here in CA ive only ever had positive comments about
my accent - every single day almost without fail people ask me to keep talking - my accent is cute (its from the Boro with flat vowel sounds so who knew!) how long ive been here and people have said WELCOME!
I have indeed been made to feel really welcome once people find out im a Brit - for which Im very thankful!
So really ive had a very positive experience here in CA
my accent - every single day almost without fail people ask me to keep talking - my accent is cute (its from the Boro with flat vowel sounds so who knew!) how long ive been here and people have said WELCOME!
I have indeed been made to feel really welcome once people find out im a Brit - for which Im very thankful!
So really ive had a very positive experience here in CA
#153
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Re: How have you been treated here as a Brit?
Here in CA ive only ever had positive comments about
my accent - every single day almost without fail people ask me to keep talking - my accent is cute (its from the Boro with flat vowel sounds so who knew!) how long ive been here and people have said WELCOME!
I have indeed been made to feel really welcome once people find out im a Brit - for which Im very thankful!
So really ive had a very positive experience here in CA
my accent - every single day almost without fail people ask me to keep talking - my accent is cute (its from the Boro with flat vowel sounds so who knew!) how long ive been here and people have said WELCOME!
I have indeed been made to feel really welcome once people find out im a Brit - for which Im very thankful!
So really ive had a very positive experience here in CA
I do find it a bit patronising, even though well-meant.
#154
Re: How have you been treated here as a Brit?
"A 16oz dark roast please with room for cream" or poached eggs on toast - what bread do you have - and can I have grilled tomatoes on the side"
I honestly don't find it patronizing tho I can see that it might be- I feel people are genuine
Maybe its because I lived in a small out of the way town and now live tho near San Fran in a town which still has a small town feel.
#155
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Re: How have you been treated here as a Brit?
im not really saying much Sally to be honest - just things like
"A 16oz dark roast please with room for cream" or poached eggs on toast - what bread do you have - and can I have grilled tomatoes on the side"
I honestly don't find it patronizing tho I can see that it might be- I feel people are genuine
Maybe its because I lived in a small out of the way town and now live tho near San Fran in a town which still has a small town feel.
"A 16oz dark roast please with room for cream" or poached eggs on toast - what bread do you have - and can I have grilled tomatoes on the side"
I honestly don't find it patronizing tho I can see that it might be- I feel people are genuine
Maybe its because I lived in a small out of the way town and now live tho near San Fran in a town which still has a small town feel.
#156
Re: How have you been treated here as a Brit?
When I have said a few sentences about something and the person just replies, "Keep talking. I love listening to your cute accent!" it gets old for me. Fully accept it's cos I'm a grumpy git, and is more about how I feel in a place than an implicit criticism of that place itself.
#158
Re: How have you been treated here as a Brit?
When I have said a few sentences about something and the person just replies, "Keep talking. I love listening to your cute accent!" it gets old for me. Fully accept it's cos I'm a grumpy git, and is more about how I feel in a place than an implicit criticism of that place itself.
When someone's an ex-pat, and they're presumably attempting to integrate themselves in a new country - a continual reminder of their apartness ("cute accent") - with every new encounter, and even after years of living here, only serves to reaffirm an eternal foreignness.
So I think your annoyance is legitimate.
There's plenty of consequence to set people apart. It's difficult to try to bridge the gap when, straight away, fixation on an accent calls attention to you as a "foreigner"
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Puhleeeze, because "they're" not.
#159
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Re: How have you been treated here as a Brit?
No, you're not being a grumpy git (at least not over that )
When someone's an ex-pat, and they're presumably attempting to integrate themselves in a new country - a continual reminder of their apartness ("cute accent") - with every new encounter, and even after years of living here, only serves to reaffirm an eternal foreignness.
So I think your annoyance is legitimate.
There's plenty of consequence to set people apart. It's difficult to try to bridge the gap when, straight away, fixation on an accent calls attention to you as a "foreigner"
When someone's an ex-pat, and they're presumably attempting to integrate themselves in a new country - a continual reminder of their apartness ("cute accent") - with every new encounter, and even after years of living here, only serves to reaffirm an eternal foreignness.
So I think your annoyance is legitimate.
There's plenty of consequence to set people apart. It's difficult to try to bridge the gap when, straight away, fixation on an accent calls attention to you as a "foreigner"
#160
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Re: How have you been treated here as a Brit?
He's got a point. I do just about all our grocery shopping/take out pickups, so I spend a lot of time in lines at stores and any instances where people have to ask for something, or are making a order separate from the checkouts, I rarely hear anyone say 'please' and the request is almost always started with "I need" or perhaps worse, "give me".
It probably happens in the UK now too, but I still find it kind of rude, myself.
It probably happens in the UK now too, but I still find it kind of rude, myself.
#161
Re: How have you been treated here as a Brit?
Never noticed this but now I will start listening for the lack of "pleases"
I shall report back!!
On another note ive decided to do a Voice Over introduction course!! there may be money in this and I have a bit of a supressed actress in me anyway dahling
I shall report back!!
On another note ive decided to do a Voice Over introduction course!! there may be money in this and I have a bit of a supressed actress in me anyway dahling
#162
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Re: How have you been treated here as a Brit?
I've often thought about doing voice overs. Never actually did anything about it though.
#163
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That sounds good!
#164
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Re: How have you been treated here as a Brit?
I'm not sure what happened here in the States. I often say "please" and always, always, always use some variation of "thank you," and I grew up here with the rest of 'em.
#165
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I was really shocked when I first arrived; "Gimme...", "I want/need..."
I still am a bit, but I can sometimes see where you have to bark things out for clarity (a 'thank you' wouldn't come amiss though).
I still am a bit, but I can sometimes see where you have to bark things out for clarity (a 'thank you' wouldn't come amiss though).