Homesickness "grass is greener" syndrome
#76
Re: Homesickness "grass is greener" syndrome
My life couldn't be more hunkier or dorier.
If your life is so miserable what are you doing here, that's the big question. So far I haven't been able to find out. If I was you I'd be back living the perfect life in the UK and would have no interest in any expat forums.
Tell me if this forum is only for whiners and complainers.
If your life is so miserable what are you doing here, that's the big question. So far I haven't been able to find out. If I was you I'd be back living the perfect life in the UK and would have no interest in any expat forums.
Tell me if this forum is only for whiners and complainers.
I know I'm not and there are a few around and I try and give a positive comment to threads thats the way to do it I think without putting others or opinions down.
But I think if someone is having a hard time everyone should try and be sympathetic which I think so far everyone is or has been to people having a hard time, as they should be.
If you find this bit depressing you should go to the lounge most there are happy or leave their worries outside and have a laugh or the TIO if you like arguing with people re politics etc.
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Re: Homesickness "grass is greener" syndrome
Some times speaking what's on ones mind does rub people the wrong way.
I think comments made by some go way beyond 'what I miss about the UK' into the insulting and offensive to "Yanks" in particular and the US in general.
Which is fine if that's what they feel, however I'll say it again if you don't like it here go back to the UK we all benefit.
I think comments made by some go way beyond 'what I miss about the UK' into the insulting and offensive to "Yanks" in particular and the US in general.
Which is fine if that's what they feel, however I'll say it again if you don't like it here go back to the UK we all benefit.
#82
Re: Homesickness "grass is greener" syndrome
I haven't said my life is miserable. I have said there are things I miss about the UK but if I moved back there would be things I would miss about the US. FYI I am planning on spending my time between the US/UK/Canada.
You seem to take enjoyment in trying to rub folk up the wrong way...I'm not the first to mention it either.
You seem to take enjoyment in trying to rub folk up the wrong way...I'm not the first to mention it either.
But there would be things I would now miss about the US if we go back.
Referring back to the original post....I find it more expensive here. Just grocery shopping is more than good old Tesco and Asda and the utilities are more expensive than we were paying.
Only OH can work , the rest of us are H4's. That makes a big difference. In the UK my eldest had a Saturday job and I ran my own business. If I wanted some extra money then I worked a bit harder.
Yes, we knew all this when we made the decision to move but actually "living" it is so different to the "anticipation of living it".
When we knew we were possibly moving here we hoped to be put somewhere warmer and where houses were cheaper and we could have several acres. That didn't happen.
#83
Re: Homesickness "grass is greener" syndrome
I think there is a much greater variation in house prices and property taxes in the US, compared to the UK. My property tax in rural NC and rural TN was well below $1,000 p.a. My council tax in the UK is over 100 GBP a month. House prices in both places were similarly low (less than $100,000 for a bog standard 3BR ranch in a decent neighborhood).
#85
Re: Homesickness "grass is greener" syndrome
Its not.. maybe they seem to be the most vocal.
I know I'm not and there are a few around and I try and give a positive comment to threads thats the way to do it I think without putting others or opinions down.
But I think if someone is having a hard time everyone should try and be sympathetic which I think so far everyone is or has been to people having a hard time, as they should be.
If you find this bit depressing you should go to the lounge most there are happy or leave their worries outside and have a laugh or the TIO if you like arguing with people re politics etc.
I know I'm not and there are a few around and I try and give a positive comment to threads thats the way to do it I think without putting others or opinions down.
But I think if someone is having a hard time everyone should try and be sympathetic which I think so far everyone is or has been to people having a hard time, as they should be.
If you find this bit depressing you should go to the lounge most there are happy or leave their worries outside and have a laugh or the TIO if you like arguing with people re politics etc.
#86
Re: Homesickness "grass is greener" syndrome
I guess we should have all moved to China or Russia, maybe North Korea. We would have to keep our mouths shut, never complain & take what we are given, with a grimace or is it a smile?
How dare we not like everything, bloody cheeky immigrants. I say "Give the place back to the Native American Indians."
Reg. Frank R.
How dare we not like everything, bloody cheeky immigrants. I say "Give the place back to the Native American Indians."
Reg. Frank R.
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Re: Homesickness "grass is greener" syndrome
I pay $700 a year and I have 4 acres and a very large detached house.
and they are introducing congestion charge in Manchester......No Bloody Way.
Last edited by lanky spoken here; Aug 14th 2007 at 8:31 pm.
#88
Re: Homesickness "grass is greener" syndrome
I think there is a much greater variation in house prices and property taxes in the US, compared to the UK. My property tax in rural NC and rural TN was well below $1,000 p.a. My council tax in the UK is over 100 GBP a month. House prices in both places were similarly low (less than $100,000 for a bog standard 3BR ranch in a decent neighborhood).
We don't have state tax here which greatly lowers our bills. Though property is expensive here (still cheaper than a lot of the UK) our property taxes are reasonable.
#89
Re: Homesickness "grass is greener" syndrome
If you love where you are that's great but please don't assume everyone in the US is paying a couple of hundred thousand dollars for a huge house and several acres of land...or paying $700 per year in property taxes.
Last edited by Jerseygirl; Aug 14th 2007 at 8:37 pm.