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#32
Originally posted by OwenF
I was simply trying to illustrate that some people have a need to change circumstances that are normally beyond their control. I don't see that my need to leave this country should be any less valid than a transvestite's need to change their gender.
You say that you didn't emigrate through choice. I fail to understand why anyone would not choose to emigrate just as you seem to fail to understand my choice to do so. It is easy for you to sit there and criticize others when you do not share their dream and yet you have been fortunate enough to have achived it.
I was simply trying to illustrate that some people have a need to change circumstances that are normally beyond their control. I don't see that my need to leave this country should be any less valid than a transvestite's need to change their gender.
You say that you didn't emigrate through choice. I fail to understand why anyone would not choose to emigrate just as you seem to fail to understand my choice to do so. It is easy for you to sit there and criticize others when you do not share their dream and yet you have been fortunate enough to have achived it.
#33
[QUOTE]Originally posted by edwords
non-Western values
You mean they don't like cowboys or something?
non-Western values
You mean they don't like cowboys or something?
#34
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Lion in Winter
Yes, cowboys, individual rights, democracy... things like that.
Originally posted by edwords
non-Western values
You mean they don't like cowboys or something?
non-Western values
You mean they don't like cowboys or something?
#35
Originally posted by OwenF
You say that you didn't emigrate through choice. I fail to understand why anyone would not choose to emigrate just as you seem to fail to understand my choice to do so. It is easy for you to sit there and criticize others when you do not share their dream and yet you have been fortunate enough to have achived it.
You say that you didn't emigrate through choice. I fail to understand why anyone would not choose to emigrate just as you seem to fail to understand my choice to do so. It is easy for you to sit there and criticize others when you do not share their dream and yet you have been fortunate enough to have achived it.
There was one on Channel 4 recently about a family who just up sticks and moved to Arizona. Bullshit it was, for a fact what they did was 'just move there' no word of visa, INS or anything. It was garbage and would not be allowed without the realms of Channel 4 bankrolling it. The sad thing is that ordinary folk get taken in by this and actually believe it is a possibility.
quite simply put, if you are not a spouse of a USC, or an extremely needed person then you may as well forget it and look at different avenues. I mean you have an EU passport for christs sake as it is, you have more opportunity than most and yet for some this is still not enough. Yet when they are told they are pissing into the wind then I am the bad guy for telling them how it is, impolite, not giving advice, not sensible, ungrateful for not appreciating someone elses dream.........the list goes on.
#36
Originally posted by edwords
Yes, cowboys, individual rights, democracy... things like that.
Yes, cowboys, individual rights, democracy... things like that.
I'm sorry, but you are wrong here. I have personal experience, including my husband, of people who have put their lives on the line and have been beaten, tortured, persecuted and killed (not my husband, who is very much alive, thank you) while working peacefully to further democracy and respect for rights, both human and individual, in their own country, in this case in Mexico and Guatemala.
#37
Originally posted by Lion in Winter
I'm sorry, but you are wrong here. I have personal experience, including my husband, of people who have put their lives on the line and have been beaten, tortured, persecuted and killed (not my husband, who is very much alive, thank you) while working peacefully to further democracy and respect for rights, both human and individual, in their own country, in this case in Mexico and Guatemala.
I'm sorry, but you are wrong here. I have personal experience, including my husband, of people who have put their lives on the line and have been beaten, tortured, persecuted and killed (not my husband, who is very much alive, thank you) while working peacefully to further democracy and respect for rights, both human and individual, in their own country, in this case in Mexico and Guatemala.
#38
Originally posted by manc1976
I mean you have an EU passport for christs sake as it is,
I mean you have an EU passport for christs sake as it is,
If you are so keen to emigrate, there are fifteen countries in the EU for you to choose to live in (with 3 more soon to come) Why don't you try one of those to fulfill your "dream"?
#39
Originally posted by edwords
You're correct. I didn't mean to include Mexico or Guatemala (or the rest of Central and South America) in countries with non-Western values (they are, after all, in the West). In fact, I wish we had more legal immigration from the Americas. It's the illegals that are the problem.
You're correct. I didn't mean to include Mexico or Guatemala (or the rest of Central and South America) in countries with non-Western values (they are, after all, in the West). In fact, I wish we had more legal immigration from the Americas. It's the illegals that are the problem.
Well thanks for the concession on Mexico and Guatemala. Now, of course, I'm going to pick a bone with you on the rest of the world. China, Thailand, Sri Lanka, India, Pakistan, Phillipines, to name but some, all have had both individuals and movements who have gone through hell to advance democracy and human rights in general in their countries. The point I would like to makes is that it's a bad idea to fall into the trap of making generalisations about countries and cultures. Large numbers of people in the "Western world" have committted the most appalling abuses against their own people and the people of other countries. Others have performed the most noble acts. Same goes for the rest of the planet, sometimes at different point in history. I would also ask for a more charitable view of illegal immigrants from Mexico and parts south. Most of us coming from England have never been unable to feed our families, or worked for a dollar or two for a 12 hour day. Yet in Mexico they do. I have a four-year-old son, and if I were unable to feed him, pay for medicine when he was ill, or get him an education, I would cross any damned border I could, with or without permission. Wouldn't you?
#40
According to the latest opinion polls about 75% of the UK adult propulation has thought about emigration and about 50% have done so seriously. These figures are probably overstated but there is a large chunk of the UK population who think the grass is greener. Most of them can't or won't actually do anything about it. Exclusion from the GC lottery for emigration to the States rules out a whole tranche of these people.
Large numbers have and are buying property and/ or moving into Europe. They tend to be those with language skills or people who have retired. Whatever anyone says, Britain shares very little culture with most of Europe except perhaps for Norway and Denmark.
Over the past five years I've spent about a month a year travelling around different parts of the States and getting to meet lots of Americans. I find the get up and go spirit a refreshing change from the cynicism endemic in British society.
The American culture seems to be to respect success and get out of the way of people trying to achieve something. I'm afraid that exactly the opposite sort of culture has taken root in the UK in the last few years. The sheer weight of bureaucracy and taxation bears down on anyone who wants to be more than a wage slave.
In this context, I hope it's understandable that some of us with gumption look to the US as somewhere which may be better to live. In the short term I plan to buy a holiday home/ investment and, if I find that I really like it, I'll look at one of the investor visas as a means of staying there.
I am one of those who complains a lot about the UK. On balance the frustrations of trying to make a living here are beginning to outweigh the advantages. If you haven't lived here for a while, it's pretty difficult to appreciate the changes that have taken place.
Large numbers have and are buying property and/ or moving into Europe. They tend to be those with language skills or people who have retired. Whatever anyone says, Britain shares very little culture with most of Europe except perhaps for Norway and Denmark.
Over the past five years I've spent about a month a year travelling around different parts of the States and getting to meet lots of Americans. I find the get up and go spirit a refreshing change from the cynicism endemic in British society.
The American culture seems to be to respect success and get out of the way of people trying to achieve something. I'm afraid that exactly the opposite sort of culture has taken root in the UK in the last few years. The sheer weight of bureaucracy and taxation bears down on anyone who wants to be more than a wage slave.
In this context, I hope it's understandable that some of us with gumption look to the US as somewhere which may be better to live. In the short term I plan to buy a holiday home/ investment and, if I find that I really like it, I'll look at one of the investor visas as a means of staying there.
I am one of those who complains a lot about the UK. On balance the frustrations of trying to make a living here are beginning to outweigh the advantages. If you haven't lived here for a while, it's pretty difficult to appreciate the changes that have taken place.
Last edited by jemetpl; Feb 3rd 2004 at 4:49 pm.
#41
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Joined: Jul 2002
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The thing I find funny, is that since moving to Arizona, I have bumped into 3 or 4 Brits in and around town, and do you know where every conversation has ended up?... with the Brit complaining about Britain, but perticularly the immigration problem. The stupid thing is, they are now living in Arizona, a state that has one of the worst illegal immigration problems in America!. lol
Hey, I guess the grass is greener if the sun is shining.
Hey, I guess the grass is greener if the sun is shining.
#42
Originally posted by Pimpbot
Hey, I guess the grass is greener if the sun is shining.
Hey, I guess the grass is greener if the sun is shining.
#43
British/Irish(ish) Duncs
Joined: Jan 2003
Location: Cambridge MA, via Mississippi and Belfast Northern Ireland.
Posts: 700
Originally posted by jemetpl
Over the past five years I've spent about a month a year travelling around different parts of the States and getting to meet lots of Americans. I find the get up and go spirit a refreshing change from the cynicism endemic in British society.
The American culture seems to be to respect success and get out of the way of people trying to achieve something. I'm afraid that exactly the opposite sort of culture has taken root in the UK in the last few years. The sheer weight of bureaucracy and taxation bears down on anyone who wants to be more than a wage slave.
Over the past five years I've spent about a month a year travelling around different parts of the States and getting to meet lots of Americans. I find the get up and go spirit a refreshing change from the cynicism endemic in British society.
The American culture seems to be to respect success and get out of the way of people trying to achieve something. I'm afraid that exactly the opposite sort of culture has taken root in the UK in the last few years. The sheer weight of bureaucracy and taxation bears down on anyone who wants to be more than a wage slave.
regards,
Duncan
#44
Originally posted by Lion in Winter
Well thanks for the concession on Mexico and Guatemala. Now, of course, I'm going to pick a bone with you on the rest of the world. China, Thailand, Sri Lanka, India, Pakistan, Phillipines, to name but some, all have had both individuals and movements who have gone through hell to advance democracy and human rights in general in their countries. The point I would like to makes is that it's a bad idea to fall into the trap of making generalisations about countries and cultures. Large numbers of people in the "Western world" have committted the most appalling abuses against their own people and the people of other countries. Others have performed the most noble acts. Same goes for the rest of the planet, sometimes at different point in history. I would also ask for a more charitable view of illegal immigrants from Mexico and parts south. Most of us coming from England have never been unable to feed our families, or worked for a dollar or two for a 12 hour day. Yet in Mexico they do. I have a four-year-old son, and if I were unable to feed him, pay for medicine when he was ill, or get him an education, I would cross any damned border I could, with or without permission. Wouldn't you?
Well thanks for the concession on Mexico and Guatemala. Now, of course, I'm going to pick a bone with you on the rest of the world. China, Thailand, Sri Lanka, India, Pakistan, Phillipines, to name but some, all have had both individuals and movements who have gone through hell to advance democracy and human rights in general in their countries. The point I would like to makes is that it's a bad idea to fall into the trap of making generalisations about countries and cultures. Large numbers of people in the "Western world" have committted the most appalling abuses against their own people and the people of other countries. Others have performed the most noble acts. Same goes for the rest of the planet, sometimes at different point in history. I would also ask for a more charitable view of illegal immigrants from Mexico and parts south. Most of us coming from England have never been unable to feed our families, or worked for a dollar or two for a 12 hour day. Yet in Mexico they do. I have a four-year-old son, and if I were unable to feed him, pay for medicine when he was ill, or get him an education, I would cross any damned border I could, with or without permission. Wouldn't you?
Incidentally, my mother was born and lived in one of history's most vicious dictatorships. She married an English soldier and moved with her baby daughter to Portsmouth. So I am not writing as someone with no experience in this area.
#45
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To those who say I should emigrate to a European country I say this: GO F**K YOURSELVES!!! I would rather be dead than live there.
To those who have offered genuine support I thank you.
To those who say I should be grateful for what I already have I say it is mankinds business to improve his life in whatever way he can.
Finally, I say this. I WILL GO TO AMERICA. Even if it takes me the rest of my life to achieve it. I refuse to give up.
To those who have offered genuine support I thank you.
To those who say I should be grateful for what I already have I say it is mankinds business to improve his life in whatever way he can.
Finally, I say this. I WILL GO TO AMERICA. Even if it takes me the rest of my life to achieve it. I refuse to give up.