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Old Aug 26th 2008, 1:13 pm
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HI!
I AM A DUAL NATIONAL LIVING IN THE UK SINCE I WAS 3 AND AM LOOKING TO RETURN TO MY HOME STATE OF CALIFORNIA WITH MY FAMILY. BASICALLY I AM LOOKING FOR TIPS FROM ALL YOU EX-PATS ABOUT EMIGRATING! I AM IN AN ENVIABLE POSITION OF HAVING AMERICAN CITIZENSHIP AND SO WILL MY CHILDREN, MY HUSBAND CAN ENTER AS SPOUSE AND WORK WITH A GREEN CARD. WHAT I NEED TO KNOW IS ABOUT SCHOOLING, JOBS, RENTING FOR THE FIRST YEAR BEFORE BUYING, HEALTH COVER, AREAS THAT ARE GOOD TO LIVE, JOB PROSPECTS AND ALSO HOW TO PAY TAX!!
i KNOW THIS IS A TREMENDOUS AMOUNT TO ASK BUT WOULD BE V. GRATEFUL OF ANY INPUT FROM ANY OF YOU.
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Old Aug 26th 2008, 1:17 pm
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Old Aug 26th 2008, 1:36 pm
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WHY NOT TAKE A VACATION TO THAT PART OF THE WORLD TO SEE IF YOU LIKE IT ...
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Old Aug 26th 2008, 2:01 pm
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that is the best pic ever!

Josie - you causually say your husband will get a green card but have you actually looked into the process? Just wanted to be sure you were aware of how long it takes as its not an instant thing - a spouse has no instant right they have to apply like anyone else.
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Old Aug 26th 2008, 2:02 pm
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Different areas of California have different job propsects depending on your skills. What type of jobs are you and your husband looking for? It is highly likely that one of you will get a job that provides medical insurance for the family so I wouldn't worry too much about that (consider your job hunting time like any vacation out of the UK).
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Old Aug 26th 2008, 2:24 pm
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Originally Posted by Michael
Different areas of California have different job propsects depending on your skills. What type of jobs are you and your husband looking for? It is highly likely that one of you will get a job that provides medical insurance for the family so I wouldn't worry too much about that (consider your job hunting time like any vacation out of the UK).
I know in many marriages one partner will get a menial job that includes Insurance, getting harder all the time.
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Old Aug 26th 2008, 2:35 pm
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THANKS GUYS. YEP I DO KNOW BOUT GREEN CARD THING! HAVE FRIENDS WHO ALREADY LIVE IN SAVANNAH GOING THRO SAME THING! BOTH HUBBY AND ARE ARE QUALIFIED PROFESSIONALS IN OUR SEPERATE FIELDS SO AM AWARE OF SITUATION. PHAPS OUR BIGGEST OBSTACLE IS THE SITUATION REGARDING OUR SON WHO IS DEAF (READ OTHER THREAD) i WOULD APPRECIATE SOME GENUINE REPLIES TO THAT AS ITS OUR BIGGEST HOLD BACK. WE ARE DUE TO VISIT FOR 3 WEEKS IN MARCH/APRIL NEXT YR SO WE ARE HOPING TO GET INFO THEN ALSO. HAVE FAMILY IN UTAH, FRIENDS IN SONORA VALLEY AND PENSACOLA. JUST NOT ALWAYS POSSIBLE TO PICK THEIR BRAINS ON EVERYTHING.
THANKS AGAIN THO!
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Stop posting in all caps you ****ing numpty.
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Old Aug 26th 2008, 3:33 pm
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Originally Posted by josie ryan
THANKS GUYS. YEP I DO KNOW BOUT GREEN CARD THING! HAVE FRIENDS WHO ALREADY LIVE IN SAVANNAH GOING THRO SAME THING! BOTH HUBBY AND ARE ARE QUALIFIED PROFESSIONALS IN OUR SEPERATE FIELDS SO AM AWARE OF SITUATION. PHAPS OUR BIGGEST OBSTACLE IS THE SITUATION REGARDING OUR SON WHO IS DEAF (READ OTHER THREAD) i WOULD APPRECIATE SOME GENUINE REPLIES TO THAT AS ITS OUR BIGGEST HOLD BACK. WE ARE DUE TO VISIT FOR 3 WEEKS IN MARCH/APRIL NEXT YR SO WE ARE HOPING TO GET INFO THEN ALSO. HAVE FAMILY IN UTAH, FRIENDS IN SONORA VALLEY AND PENSACOLA. JUST NOT ALWAYS POSSIBLE TO PICK THEIR BRAINS ON EVERYTHING.
THANKS AGAIN THO!
so do you have any idea on what area you would like to live?? Do you want to be somewhere near friends??
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Old Aug 26th 2008, 4:13 pm
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When you narrow down to a specific city, you should consider http://www.city-data.com/forum/california and then post a question about the areas. Those are forums for relocating people and they often have much more 'neighborhood specific' information as to where to live in this city or that city.
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Old Aug 26th 2008, 7:12 pm
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well I went cross eyed reading that...and dont' know if you were deliberately taking the piss with that second post or not...but take the hint and you'll probably get more help...but have a snoop around the wiki and past posts
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Old Aug 26th 2008, 7:34 pm
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Josie

Sorry to air this in public but you have chosen to not receive emails or private messages.

Your posts continue to be in solid caps which is considered yelling on the internet. Others have brought this to your attention in your thread about your son's hearing disability and your reply to them was quite rude for bringing this up.

If you continue to post in solid caps, your posts will be deleted.

We would very much like to see you remain as a member of BE and enjoy the forums, however, we cannot allow you to ignore common courtesy.

While typing in such a manner might be the norm for your employment (wonder what employer allows such a thing) but it is not acceptable on BE.

Thanks.

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Old Aug 28th 2008, 11:37 am
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Originally Posted by josie ryan
THANKS GUYS. YEP I DO KNOW BOUT GREEN CARD THING! HAVE FRIENDS WHO ALREADY LIVE IN SAVANNAH GOING THRO SAME THING! BOTH HUBBY AND ARE ARE QUALIFIED PROFESSIONALS IN OUR SEPERATE FIELDS SO AM AWARE OF SITUATION. PHAPS OUR BIGGEST OBSTACLE IS THE SITUATION REGARDING OUR SON WHO IS DEAF (READ OTHER THREAD) i WOULD APPRECIATE SOME GENUINE REPLIES TO THAT AS ITS OUR BIGGEST HOLD BACK. WE ARE DUE TO VISIT FOR 3 WEEKS IN MARCH/APRIL NEXT YR SO WE ARE HOPING TO GET INFO THEN ALSO. HAVE FAMILY IN UTAH, FRIENDS IN SONORA VALLEY AND PENSACOLA. JUST NOT ALWAYS POSSIBLE TO PICK THEIR BRAINS ON EVERYTHING.
THANKS AGAIN THO!
Is it just me? 'hubby' makes me cringe!
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Old Aug 28th 2008, 12:24 pm
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Originally Posted by jon06
Is it just me? 'hubby' makes me cringe!
It's just you.

It's a word that's widely used on these boards.
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Old Aug 28th 2008, 9:58 pm
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Originally Posted by dbj1000
It's just you.

It's a word that's widely used on these boards.
What's the opposite? Wifey or wifelet?
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