Etiquette 101: What the World Thinks About Us (meaning Americans)
Hi everyone,
I just read this article on CNN and thought it was excellent. Some of the perceptions discussed in this article I have read on this site, others I have experienced personally. (You learn quickly as an American woman in Italy that eye contact and a smile can lead to some very unwanted attention, for instance.) ;) Does any of it ring true for you? Thoughts? Reactions? http://www.concierge.com/cntraveler/...0?pageNumber=1 Kaffy |
Re: Etiquette 101: What the World Thinks About Us (meaning Americans)
I have found this to be true in most places I have lived, not just here, I ask people routinely, "How are you?", but if they started giving me their whole health history, I would be wishing i hadn't asked!:blink: Obviously, I expect a different response from family/friends, but not strangers or just aquaintances.......
From the article... Small talk—which Hemon calls "the verbal equivalent of smiling"—is a staple worldwide, but it seems that we Americans do it the most. Take the phrase "How are you?" "In many countries where people say 'How are you,' they really mean 'How are you,'?" says Weaver. "We just want people to say 'fine.' It's not an invitation to a health report." Sherry Mueller, head of the National Council for International Visitors, gives detailed workshops on small talk. "I recommend that they read a local newspaper or a magazine. That gives them topics and conversation skills." It's a way to avoid just discussing the weather, or topics you'd rather not hear about, because |
Re: Etiquette 101: What the World Thinks About Us (meaning Americans)
So true. :lol: I work with a guy who, when asked "How are you?" frequently responds with ... "I'm living the dream." ;)
Originally Posted by Englishtart
(Post 8784143)
I have found this to be true in most places I have lived, not just here, I ask people routinely, "How are you?", but if they started giving me their whole health history, I would be wishing i hadn't asked!:blink: Obviously, I expect a different response from family/friends, but not strangers or just aquaintances.......
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I always had trouble with the meaning of "how are you?", even growing up American. I had to remind myself in high school that the appropriate answer was "I'm fine, how are you?"
I also had the same difficulty with "all right?" in London, which is basically the same non-question. |
Re: Etiquette 101: What the World Thinks About Us (meaning Americans)
Originally Posted by Kaffy Mintcake
(Post 8784131)
Hi everyone,
I just read this article on CNN and thought it was excellent. Some of the perceptions discussed in this article I have read on this site, others I have experienced personally. (You learn quickly as an American woman in Italy that eye contact and a smile can lead to some very unwanted attention, for instance.) ;) Does any of it ring true for you? Thoughts? Reactions? http://www.concierge.com/cntraveler/...0?pageNumber=1 Kaffy |
Re: Etiquette 101: What the World Thinks About Us (meaning Americans)
Originally Posted by Kaffy Mintcake
(Post 8784148)
So true. :lol: I work with a guy who, when asked "How are you?" frequently responds with ... "I'm living the dream." ;)
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Re: Etiquette 101: What the World Thinks About Us (meaning Americans)
Originally Posted by Englishtart
(Post 8784339)
I knew someone that always responded with "If I were any happier I would be twins":D
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chance encounter with fanny-packing tourists Tee hee
I found all the :D smiling a bit odd when I first came. Very disconcerting on the TV news. |
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Originally Posted by Sally Redux
(Post 8784398)
chance encounter with fanny-packing tourists Tee hee
I found all the :D smiling a bit odd when I first came. Very disconcerting on the TV news. |
Re: Etiquette 101: What the World Thinks About Us (meaning Americans)
Originally Posted by Englishtart
(Post 8785224)
The local news readers here (or some at least) crack me up, they smile so falsely, then put on very dramatic faces for more serious news. Unfortunately, they don't always get it right:rolleyes:
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We eat much more quietly than people from some cultures: no slurping, loud sipping, or open-mouthed chewing. This seems normal to us but unnecessarily uptight to many others.
Maybe it is just me, but I am amazed by how many "young" girls/ladies eat with their mouths open.... maybe it is the same in the UK but I never noticed it as much as we didn't eat out as much - who knows! Interesting article :thumbup: |
Re: Etiquette 101: What the World Thinks About Us (meaning Americans)
Originally Posted by Englishtart
(Post 8785224)
The local news readers here (or some at least) crack me up, they smile so falsely, then put on very dramatic faces for more serious news. Unfortunately, they don't always get it right:rolleyes:
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Re: Etiquette 101: What the World Thinks About Us (meaning Americans)
Originally Posted by MandyNi
(Post 8786162)
The ones that can lol., I've noticed that a lot of the LA female newsreaders can't move their faces much at all. In fact a couple of them are damn scary they've had so much work or botox!
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Re: Etiquette 101: What the World Thinks About Us (meaning Americans)
Originally Posted by MandyNi
(Post 8786162)
The ones that can lol., I've noticed that a lot of the LA female newsreaders can't move their faces much at all. In fact a couple of them are damn scary they've had so much work or botox!
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