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Old Feb 11th 2014, 2:40 pm
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Is it difficult to bring an elderly parent to the USA, I am a USC and my mother could be on her own very soon, she is nearly blind and would find it very difficult to go about her daily life. I'm sure I could start the process of bringing her here, but what about things like medicare? I'm fishing, it's not bad at this moment, but there's a time in the near future that I would have to think about this.

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Old Feb 11th 2014, 3:06 pm
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Legally, visa-wise, it is easy, but I don't believe she would ever be Medicare eligible, so the medical cost/ insurance could create an insurmountable problem.
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Old Feb 11th 2014, 4:59 pm
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As I understand it she MAY (this is how the Medicare site terms it) be eligible for Medicare having been a permanent resident for 5 years.

Even if she is able to enroll, because she has not paid into Medicare and obtained the relevant 40 quarters, she would have to pay for part A (which the majority of US residents/citizens do not) which, currently, is $405.00 per month. On top of that she would have to pay for Part C and D.

It could be very expensive.

Alternatively, she MAY be able to get a policy under the Affordable Care Act. You should get quotes from either Healthcare.gov or your state Exchange site.
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Even if she is able to enroll, because she has not paid into Medicare and obtained the relevant 40 quarters, she would have to pay for part A (which the majority of US residents/citizens do not) which, currently, is $405.00 per month. On top of that she would have to pay for Part C and D.
...and Part B which is $104.50 a month.
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Old Feb 11th 2014, 6:13 pm
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Just another thought after the practicalities...but how would she get around here either? Less public transport.

Also, what about the social life? She got friends, or social groups she'll be losing out on if she moved away? Might be hard for someone starting from scratch.
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Originally Posted by SanDiegogirl

Even if she is able to enroll, because she has not paid into Medicare and obtained the relevant 40 quarters, she would have to pay for part A (which the majority of US residents/citizens do not) which, currently, is $405.00 per month. On top of that she would have to pay for Part C and D.
Is this for after she has spent 5 years here as a PR?
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Is this for after she has spent 5 years here as a PR?
Yes.
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Old Feb 11th 2014, 11:41 pm
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Under the ACA she can get health insurance and it can be up to three times as expensive as insurance for someone much younger, I believe.

One of my colleagues brought his father over recently. They've not had problems finding health insurance, and they're now looking for sheltered accommodation for him.
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How old of a parent?

Reason I ask is that people have reported, anecdotally, that the older the harder time you'll have finding insurance. After 65 and you might have a few options. After 75 and it's very tough to get options. Pushing 80 and much much harder.

Not sure how the ACA has altered this process. Hope it is easier but still, you should probably start searching around for options.

I should also note some health insurance plans (i.e. yours) will have the option of adding a "dependent parent". Might be worth checking with your HR staff to see if that is available.
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Originally Posted by kins

One of my colleagues brought his father over recently. They've not had problems finding health insurance, and they're now looking for sheltered accommodation for him.
Not had problems as in they have a lot of money and don't mind paying $1000 a month for it? That was the average when I was checking for my dad a few years ago. He was 76 then.
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Not had problems as in they have a lot of money and don't mind paying $1000 a month for it? That was the average when I was checking for my dad a few years ago. He was 76 then.
The ACA has reduced the amount insurance companies can overcharge people for being older - the ratio is now 3:1 where a few years ago it could be much higher depending on what state you were in.
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Thanks for all your help, she is 80 this year, and is basically blind, if she comes over, there's no way she'll be staying in sheltered accommodation, she'll be living with us no matter how hard it is. I guess the option is stay with us for free and use her pension and a bit of savings for insurance? I think that'll be the way to go, she has friends, but as you get that old, they are all disappearing, so I don't think that's a problem, it sure is a lot warmer in FL!!
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Originally Posted by jmood
Not had problems as in they have a lot of money and don't mind paying $1000 a month for it? That was the average when I was checking for my dad a few years ago. He was 76 then.
My mum turned 70 in January and we are at the interview stage of her immigrant visa. I've checked into insurance for her with the Washington Health Exchange and we can get an HMO plan for $632.00 a month. As she will be a new immigrant, she will not be eligible for the $512.00 tax credit. The plan is not too bad, it has a $1750.00 deductible, out of pocket maximum $5000.00. Doctor visits will be $25.00. She is extremely healthy, no chronic illness and so does not need medication on a regular basis.
The plan is to keep $5000.00 aside to take care of the out of pocket maximum in case it's needed. This is a big move for her, but we don't want her to spend this next bit of her life alone. I cannot move back to where she is and we'll make it work somehow.
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. As she will be a new immigrant, she will not be eligible for the $512.00 tax credit. .
What'a that?
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What'a that?
Subsidy or a state thing perhaps.
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