Bad news
#16
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Originally Posted by Jenney & Mark
Thanks for the generalization -- NOT.
I guess Britons NEVER resort to physical violence, never kill anybody, never have domestic disputes?
The first part of your post was fine... The second part, uncalled for.
~ Jenney
I guess Britons NEVER resort to physical violence, never kill anybody, never have domestic disputes?
The first part of your post was fine... The second part, uncalled for.
~ Jenney
in america it seems to be pretty common.
#17
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Originally Posted by candy wy.
it seems to be very rare in the uk to loose your life to domestic violence.
in america it seems to be pretty common.
in america it seems to be pretty common.
over there they shoot you!
ah well....
#18
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Originally Posted by englishnurse
i know over here you may get a bit of hassle ie your suits cut up or prawns behind your sofa
over there they shoot you!
ah well....
over there they shoot you!
ah well....
#19
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Originally Posted by englishnurse
prawns behind your sofa
#20
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Originally Posted by Jenney & Mark
I guess Britons NEVER resort to physical violence, never kill anybody, never have domestic disputes?
On the other hand, there seems to be far, far less machoism about affairs and divorces. I've seen some pretty bitter and vengeful actions, but no murders. Yet on the OTHER hand, handguns are much, much harder to get and it takes much more planning to carry out such a deed.
In fact, premeditation is considered key in sentencing for murders in the US. Let's say the murderer claimed he was provoked by the boyfriend, and happened to be legally carrying a gun. It would have been his word against a dead man's, and so long as the murderer had owned and carried the gun for some period of time, it would not have been considered premeditated.
Go figure.
What's really horrifying is that this shit happens to *women* all the time -- they're usually the ones the ex-spouse/boyfriend goes after -- and no one seems to care nearly as much. But let a man go after a woman, or God forbid, a woman do a Lorena Bobbitt and it's front page news. Why?
#21
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Court records showed that Estrada had been charged in January with violating a domestic violence protective order, but that the case was dismissed last week.
#22
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Originally Posted by James Box
Must applaud the court system for that one. Well played.
#23
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Originally Posted by James Box
Must applaud the court system for that one. Well played.
#24
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Originally Posted by englishnurse
i know over here you may get a bit of hassle ie your suits cut up or prawns behind your sofa
over there they shoot you!
ah well....
over there they shoot you!
ah well....
Apparently 2 women a week die in the UK as a result of domestic violence. Stabbing seems to be the method in a lot of cases.
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
#25
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..... I for one don't keep my doors locked, especially when we are home. .....
Originally Posted by dbark
.... but we don't know whether he still has a key, ......
#26
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Re: Bad news
Originally Posted by Jenney & Mark
Thanks for the generalization -- NOT.
I guess Britons NEVER resort to physical violence, never kill anybody, never have domestic disputes?
The first part of your post was fine... The second part, uncalled for.
~ Jenney
I guess Britons NEVER resort to physical violence, never kill anybody, never have domestic disputes?
The first part of your post was fine... The second part, uncalled for.
~ Jenney
America is a more violent society than the UK, whether you like that fact or not, guns are widespread over here and whilst I agree guns don't kill people, people kill people etc... Sadly the wrong people seem to get guns.
#27
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Originally Posted by Pulaski
Uh? Why on earth not? I always lock the door, at least the "twist lock" on the handle, whether I am inside, or if I am going far enough away from the door (outside) that I can't see it for more than, say, one minute. If I am going out to work in the yard (mow, tend the vegetables, etc) then I lock the dead-bolt too. Where do I live? .... leafy suburbia.
Originally Posted by Pulaski
Er, why haven't you changed the locks? American locks all seem to be interchangeable - all you need to buy is the handle and key mechanism, then switch it out leaving the bolt mechaism and end plates in place. It will cost you as little as $30, and, so log as you know the right end of a screw driver, take you about fifteen minutes.
#28
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Re: Bad news
Originally Posted by Pulaski
Uh? Why on earth not? I always lock the door, at least the "twist lock" on the handle, whether I am inside, or if I am going far enough away from the door (outside) that I can't see it for more than, say, one minute. If I am going out to work in the yard (mow, tend the vegetables, etc) then I lock the dead-bolt too. Where do I live? .... leafy suburbia.
Er, why haven't you changed the locks? American locks all seem to be interchangeable - all you need to buy is the handle and key mechanism, then switch it out leaving the bolt mechaism and end plates in place. It will cost you as little as $30, and, so log as you know the right end of a screw driver, take you about fifteen minutes.
Er, why haven't you changed the locks? American locks all seem to be interchangeable - all you need to buy is the handle and key mechanism, then switch it out leaving the bolt mechaism and end plates in place. It will cost you as little as $30, and, so log as you know the right end of a screw driver, take you about fifteen minutes.
#29
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Originally Posted by anotherlimey
This is one of the problems about firearms ownership in the US. At the time of purchase, the individual may be an upstanding citizen but what about keeping check on his/her behaviors and propensity for violence (excluding life threatening self defence) after legally obtaining a deadly weapon?
NC Penguin
#30
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Originally Posted by snowbunny
On the other hand, there seems to be far, far less machoism about affairs and divorces [in Britain]. I've seen some pretty bitter and vengeful actions, but no murders. Yet on the OTHER hand, handguns are much, much harder to get and it takes much more planning to carry out such a deed.
What if instead of saying, "Thats just crazy... Americans!" Brownin had instead said, "Thats just crazy... Men!" or "Thats just crazy... Hispanics!" (By his surname I'm assuming the murderer was Hispanic.)
Men are prone to violence more than women, but not ALL men are violent. A significant number of murders are done by Hispanics, but not ALL Hispanics are murderers. Do you see where I'm going with this?
As I said before, the first part of the comment -- "That's just crazy" -- is totally fine; in fact, I agree. It's the second part I object to. I don't appreciate being lumped into a gross generalization about murderers just because of my nationality, thank you very much.
~ Jenney