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Hello. I was wondering if anyone can give me some advice for my difficult situation.
I was married and living in a foreign country for over 15 years. Last year I got divorced and went to stay with my USC boyfriend. For medical reasons etc I overstayed my VWP by about 3 months. I hired a lawyer in the US to address the issue, but as it was taking so long I decided to come back to the UK.
As soon as I came back to the UK I went to the US Embassy to try and obtain a B2 visa (and show the embassy the fact that I had petitioned in the US). I was refused under 214(b). I tried again a couple of weeks later as I thought maybe I hadn't explained my situation properly but was refused a second time.
My boyfriend and I decided to apply for a K-1 visa as we want to be married, and he sent the I-129f to USCIS last week.
In the meantime I would like to visit him for Thanksgiving/Xmas. My problem is showing ties to the UK. I have been living overseas for such a long time and as I received no alimony am living with family at the moment. I have been out of the job market in the UK for a long time so have not yet found a job. I do not intend to overstay a B2 as I want to obtain a K-1 visa, and being illegal is too much stress. Is there any way I can get a B2 do you think?
I was married and living in a foreign country for over 15 years. Last year I got divorced and went to stay with my USC boyfriend. For medical reasons etc I overstayed my VWP by about 3 months. I hired a lawyer in the US to address the issue, but as it was taking so long I decided to come back to the UK.
As soon as I came back to the UK I went to the US Embassy to try and obtain a B2 visa (and show the embassy the fact that I had petitioned in the US). I was refused under 214(b). I tried again a couple of weeks later as I thought maybe I hadn't explained my situation properly but was refused a second time.
My boyfriend and I decided to apply for a K-1 visa as we want to be married, and he sent the I-129f to USCIS last week.
In the meantime I would like to visit him for Thanksgiving/Xmas. My problem is showing ties to the UK. I have been living overseas for such a long time and as I received no alimony am living with family at the moment. I have been out of the job market in the UK for a long time so have not yet found a job. I do not intend to overstay a B2 as I want to obtain a K-1 visa, and being illegal is too much stress. Is there any way I can get a B2 do you think?
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Hello and welcome to BE.
I have moved your thread over to our US Marriage Based Visa forum as you will get a much better response in this forum.
If you have any other questions about the visa process...this is the forum to post them in.
I hope you enjoy being part of our cyber community and once again welcome.
I have moved your thread over to our US Marriage Based Visa forum as you will get a much better response in this forum.
If you have any other questions about the visa process...this is the forum to post them in.
I hope you enjoy being part of our cyber community and once again welcome.
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It is very doubtful you will be able to get a B-2 visa. You clearly have immigrant intent, and you have zero ties to the UK.
You can certainly try, but already overstaying the VWP, already having been refused a B-2 twice, having a USC love interest with an I-129F in the works, and having zero ties to the UK all work against you. I see nothing that suggests you would be able to get a B-2.
Have your boyfriend visit you in the UK during the holidays, and then move to the USA when you get your K-1 visa (about 6 - 8 months after filing the I-129F).
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You can certainly try, but already overstaying the VWP, already having been refused a B-2 twice, having a USC love interest with an I-129F in the works, and having zero ties to the UK all work against you. I see nothing that suggests you would be able to get a B-2.
Have your boyfriend visit you in the UK during the holidays, and then move to the USA when you get your K-1 visa (about 6 - 8 months after filing the I-129F).
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Bad move, as you've now discovered.
Worse move!
Great move!
Quite simply, that isn't going to happen. Have him visit you instead... or both of you meet up in some other country.
No... and having overstayed on the VWP, you can never use it again. Don't even try to apply for ESTA.
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I tried again a couple of weeks later as I thought maybe I hadn't explained my situation properly but was refused a second time.
My boyfriend and I decided to apply for a K-1 visa as we want to be married, and he sent the I-129f to USCIS last week.
I would like to visit him for Thanksgiving/Xmas.
Is there any way I can get a B2 do you think?
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Thanks for the advice. I wish I hadn't spent so many years away form the UK with my foreign (ex) husband.
I thought it was OK to visit the US for a mini-holiday while the K-1 was being processed...
About the medical- I am on anti-depressants -will this be a problem? I registered with my UK GP last month.
I thought it was OK to visit the US for a mini-holiday while the K-1 was being processed...
About the medical- I am on anti-depressants -will this be a problem? I registered with my UK GP last month.
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About the medical- I am on anti-depressants -will this be a problem? I registered with my UK GP last month.
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To address "the issue" how? The issue was that you were in the USA with your permission to stay having run out? What was it that the lawyer did that was taking so long?
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I had extenuating circumstances for my overstay. My lawyer originally took me to Homeland Security to apply for an extension on the VW but as noone was helpful there he wrote a letter to the USCBP. This was taking time and I didn't like being on overstay so I returned to the UK after having my broken humerus fixed.
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I had extenuating circumstances for my overstay. My lawyer originally took me to Homeland Security to apply for an extension on the VW but as noone was helpful there he wrote a letter to the USCBP. This was taking time and I didn't like being on overstay so I returned to the UK after having my broken humerus fixed.
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He was an immigration lawyer but had no idea about the VWP!! In retrospect it was a good job I left when I did.
I will keep everyone posted on the K-1 situation. Thanks.
I will keep everyone posted on the K-1 situation. Thanks.
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Respectfully, US immigration doesn't care why you overstayed. They aren't known for their humanity or compassion.
I daresay! Had you remained in the US for more than 6 months, you would have been immediately subject to a 3-year ban from the US the moment you left.
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What branch of Homeland Security originally, I wonder? USCBP is a branch of Homeland Security.
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