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Old Jan 30th 2010, 4:01 am
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Originally Posted by tonrob
She's not pregnant any more either. It's been a rough couple of weeks.
Sounds like another crappy company, she was working for.
Sorry to here, the sad news. Lets hope things, get better from this point on.
As they say, all these things are sent to try us.
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Old Jan 30th 2010, 4:14 am
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She's not pregnant any more either. It's been a rough couple of weeks.
Aww so sorry, give her a hug from me.
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Old Jan 30th 2010, 8:58 am
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Originally Posted by tonrob
She's not pregnant any more either. It's been a rough couple of weeks.
Sorry to hear that..give her a big hug from me...
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Old Jan 30th 2010, 9:01 am
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Thanks all for your kind words. It's been a roller-coaster for us, that's for sure, but we seem to be holding it together somehow. Nonetheless I'm still up and on BE before 5am on a Saturday morning which is indicative of how my brain won't switch off...
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Old Jan 30th 2010, 1:51 pm
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Originally Posted by tonrob
She's not pregnant any more either. It's been a rough couple of weeks.

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine the stress you both have been under with the upheaval at her place of employment and now for this to occur. Won't go into the platitudes of nature, blah, blah, blah.

There's something out there bigger and better for her. Collect her unemployment insurance and sit back and recuperate emotionally and physically and wait for spring.
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Old Jan 30th 2010, 2:21 pm
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She's not pregnant any more either. It's been a rough couple of weeks.
So sorry that you guys are having a rough time
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Do you have to be a citizen to get that ? of course I have my GC, was let go myself 3 weeks ago
!!! Sorry I didn't know that Vic

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She's not pregnant any more either. It's been a rough couple of weeks.
Sorry to hear that.
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Old Feb 1st 2010, 11:28 am
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Update: Mrs tonrob's job finally went tits up today. They fired her saying that she hadn't passed a 90-day probationary period that apparently applied to everyone once the new company took over. She was only 25 days in and had never had an ounce of unfavourable feedback in the 15 months she's been there so that's basically bullshit...
Oh, and lo and behold - within a day they had advertised for a lower-responsibility lower-paid position to replace her - so the whole thing was just a cost cutting exercise that they masqueraded (at the last minute) as a performance issue.

I'm currently as mad as hell about this. Had never thought of legal action before but in this land of no-employee-rights would any attempt just be like pissing into the wind?
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Old Feb 1st 2010, 12:37 pm
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Oh, and lo and behold - within a day they had advertised for a lower-responsibility lower-paid position to replace her - so the whole thing was just a cost cutting exercise that they masqueraded (at the last minute) as a performance issue.

I'm currently as mad as hell about this. Had never thought of legal action before but in this land of no-employee-rights would any attempt just be like pissing into the wind?
Yes.
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Old Feb 1st 2010, 12:48 pm
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Originally Posted by tonrob
Had never thought of legal action before but in this land of no-employee-rights would any attempt just be like pissing into the wind?
My stepdaughter is an attorney and specializes in employee rights. Not sure what might come of it, but I'll ask her for her thoughts.

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Old Feb 1st 2010, 1:03 pm
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Originally Posted by tonrob
Thanks all for your kind words. It's been a roller-coaster for us, that's for sure, but we seem to be holding it together somehow. Nonetheless I'm still up and on BE before 5am on a Saturday morning which is indicative of how my brain won't switch off...
Sorry to hear about your losses. I know what you mean about the brain not shutting off, sometimes I don't think I get any sleep at night.
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