How to withdraw sponsorship for F1 student?
 

Hi everybody

I sponsored my sister-in-law 3 years back for an F1 visa. She came
together with my brother and subsequently started school. Recently,
she left my brother without much explanations. I started to get phone
calls from a third-party who revealed my sister-in-law has been with
her boyfriend for almost 1 year. This third person will not stop
calling me although I told her to keep me out of the entire situation.
She went as far as hiring a private detective who researched my sister-
in-law's background, found out things about my family, etc. I do not
want to become financialy liable for my sister-in-law actions, nor do
I want to be (unwilingly) involved in a personal dispute. She
obviously left my brother for good, i just do not understand why she
had to wait and cary on this other relationship until now, when she is
almost done with her studies.

I am not sure what the sponsor's responsbilities are at this point,
but I fear the situation will escalate given her current-boyfriend ex-
girlfriend will not quit calling me, and following them. My sister-in-
law's boyfriend is actually her boss (she is working part-time at a
real-estate firm) - do not know if this information is relevant to
this email.
On top of all this, the visa was initially approved for a 3-year
study, so by her extending the visa under my sponsoship would assume I
will continue to be liable for the payments?

I am not sure how to deal with this situation - I am posting this to
these newsgroups as I had gotten excellent immigration advice in the
past. I wrote the school requesting sponsorhip removal but the school
does not reply to my emails.Again- I just do not want to be
responsible for my sister-in-law actions, nor do I want to continue to
be harrased by this third person - she keeps asking me to deport her
because she wants her boyfriend back and she thinks I hold her visa in
my hands just because I sponsored her (!!).

Thank you

Re: How to withdraw sponsorship for F1 student?
 

On May 10, 2:09 pm, [email protected] wrote:
> Hi everybody
>
> I sponsored my sister-in-law 3 years back for an F1 visa. She came
> together with my brother and subsequently started school. Recently,
> she left my brother without much explanations. I started to get phone
> calls from a third-party who revealed my sister-in-law has been with
> her boyfriend for almost 1 year. This third person will not stop
> calling me although I told her to keep me out of the entire situation.
> She went as far as hiring a private detective who researched my sister-
> in-law's background, found out things about my family, etc. I do not
> want to become financialy liable for my sister-in-law actions, nor do
> I want to be (unwilingly) involved in a personal dispute. She
> obviously left my brother for good, i just do not understand why she
> had to wait and cary on this other relationship until now, when she is
> almost done with her studies.
>
> I am not sure what the sponsor's responsbilities are at this point,
> but I fear the situation will escalate given her current-boyfriend ex-
> girlfriend will not quit calling me, and following them. My sister-in-
> law's boyfriend is actually her boss (she is working part-time at a
> real-estate firm) - do not know if this information is relevant to
> this email.
> On top of all this, the visa was initially approved for a 3-year
> study, so by her extending the visa under my sponsoship would assume I
> will continue to be liable for the payments?
>
> I am not sure how to deal with this situation - I am posting this to
> these newsgroups as I had gotten excellent immigration advice in the
> past. I wrote the school requesting sponsorhip removal but the school
> does not reply to my emails.Again- I just do not want to be
> responsible for my sister-in-law actions, nor do I want to continue to
> be harrased by this third person - she keeps asking me to deport her
> because she wants her boyfriend back and she thinks I hold her visa in
> my hands just because I sponsored her (!!).
>
> Thank you

The form I-134 is unenforceable.

If that were an I-864, than that would be another story.

But for a student visa, you likely signed an I-134, and since this one
is not enforceable, you don't have much to worry about.

More info: http://www.google.com/search?sourcei...+unenforceable

Re: How to withdraw sponsorship for F1 student?
 

<[email protected]> wrote in message
news:[email protected] ups.com...

> I am not sure how to deal with this situation - I am posting this to
> these newsgroups as I had gotten excellent immigration advice in the
> past. I wrote the school requesting sponsorhip removal but the school
> does not reply to my emails.Again- I just do not want to be
> responsible for my sister-in-law actions, nor do I want to continue to
> be harrased by this third person - she keeps asking me to deport her
> because she wants her boyfriend back and she thinks I hold her visa in
> my hands just because I sponsored her (!!).


Tell this person to back of or you will call the police. If she keeps on
nagging you - do call the police. What she is asking you to do is totally
ridiculous. You cannot deport anybody, this is a job for US authorities and
there must be grounds for deportation. 'Stealing' someone's boyfriend does
not make your sister-in-law deportable. Even if there are other reasons for
deportation it is not your concern.


Jackie